Hey Lit! I am looking for a friend, yes possible "with benefits", and open to a LTR.
I'm a 41 year young (yikes, 41?!?! Totally do not feel it, well, my joints do some mornings, but 40's are the new 30's right?) white guy, looking for a fellow nerd/geek (secretly super pervy) friend, benfits, open to a LTR. My last relationship was long distance and I'm ready to be able to focus on someone here, after a strong friendship is established. No rushing into too much at one time now, simmer down!
I"m 6' tall, 245 lbs (but work out six days a week). Non smoker, rarely drink, no tattoos, no extreme piercings, no illegal drugs of any kind and not into sports, religion, politics or children..as in I'm not family oriented, need that to be known up front. I'm loooking for someone very similar, especially on smoking, no tattoos and no "biological clock ticking". Wow, do I sound like a downer or what! I'm educated (BA and MFA), work at home mostly, and live alone.
I'm a geek/nerd, love Star Trek, comic books (when I can afford them), learning MTG, RPGs, getting back into video games, though be patient, I went from a PS2 to an XBox One - bit of a learning curve. Basically a big kid at heart, but know when to be an adult. I'm a bit of an introvert (strange for being an actor I know), but open quickly if we have a lot in common. Love humor, naughty and nice, educated, laid back, and due to budget live a frugal lifestyle. Hoping to find someone that appreciates that and loves seeking the free/cheap things to do in LA. And I'm a secret perv. There, I said it.
As mentioned I've become very active in getting in shape working out six days a week, have added in some running and re-learing how to swim. I would also, time permitting, as I should mention now I have a rather erratic schedule, like to add in some hiking. Basically trying to get rid of the "one ab" look. Yes, I love to lounge with Netflix and 3D movies (oh yeah, love horror, sci fi and fantasy), but definitely being more active and hope you do to.
I found this passage that best describes (except for the "club" part) what I'd love to find if the LTR option presents itself:
"I don't want a relationship, they hold you back. I want a best friend I can sleep with, make love to, hustle with, travel with, shop with, club with, and live with. I want a partner-in-crime, a life partner. Someone I can laugh with and build with. Somebody that I can trust my heart, my sould and my life. Somebody I'm not afraid to lose because I know they'll always be there. Relationships just aren't for me, but a partnership? I'll take that".
Let's see what else..I'm a big time cuddler/hugger, love cheesy texts, very playful type person. Looking for 43 and younger. Only race I believe in is the human race, and the alien races missing their interstellar exits and crashing into the rest stop known as Earth, so doesn't matter to me if you're white, black, Romulan or Wookie, Well, maybe not a Wookie, I do like the "smooth" look...wow, that just got interesting...
I'm orally-semi-bi. I'll explain - I'm NOT sexually attracted to men, no desire to have sex, kiss, cuddle, rim, etc. But just as I'm attracted to the well endowed ladies, in recent years I've been fascinated by well endowed men and have briefly enjoyed a "stroke buddy", and have giving safe oral on four occasion. It would be ideal if this excites you and you'd enjoy watching (not looking to have threesomes), or be okay that I am looking for a play buddy of that nature. If you are bi/curious that would be exciting for me in all honestly. Again, not looking for threesomes, but to enjoy watching each other play with the same sex, and then sexual activity between just you and I. If it's a new expeience for you it might be a good "buddy system" in case they turn out bad.
I also enjoy watching adult films, have been interested in role play, light water sports, as well...so looking for somone very open minded.
If you are still reading this, and interested, and live in Los Angeles or the Valley, please say hi!
I'm a 41 year young (yikes, 41?!?! Totally do not feel it, well, my joints do some mornings, but 40's are the new 30's right?) white guy, looking for a fellow nerd/geek (secretly super pervy) friend, benfits, open to a LTR. My last relationship was long distance and I'm ready to be able to focus on someone here, after a strong friendship is established. No rushing into too much at one time now, simmer down!
I"m 6' tall, 245 lbs (but work out six days a week). Non smoker, rarely drink, no tattoos, no extreme piercings, no illegal drugs of any kind and not into sports, religion, politics or children..as in I'm not family oriented, need that to be known up front. I'm loooking for someone very similar, especially on smoking, no tattoos and no "biological clock ticking". Wow, do I sound like a downer or what! I'm educated (BA and MFA), work at home mostly, and live alone.
I'm a geek/nerd, love Star Trek, comic books (when I can afford them), learning MTG, RPGs, getting back into video games, though be patient, I went from a PS2 to an XBox One - bit of a learning curve. Basically a big kid at heart, but know when to be an adult. I'm a bit of an introvert (strange for being an actor I know), but open quickly if we have a lot in common. Love humor, naughty and nice, educated, laid back, and due to budget live a frugal lifestyle. Hoping to find someone that appreciates that and loves seeking the free/cheap things to do in LA. And I'm a secret perv. There, I said it.
As mentioned I've become very active in getting in shape working out six days a week, have added in some running and re-learing how to swim. I would also, time permitting, as I should mention now I have a rather erratic schedule, like to add in some hiking. Basically trying to get rid of the "one ab" look. Yes, I love to lounge with Netflix and 3D movies (oh yeah, love horror, sci fi and fantasy), but definitely being more active and hope you do to.
I found this passage that best describes (except for the "club" part) what I'd love to find if the LTR option presents itself:
"I don't want a relationship, they hold you back. I want a best friend I can sleep with, make love to, hustle with, travel with, shop with, club with, and live with. I want a partner-in-crime, a life partner. Someone I can laugh with and build with. Somebody that I can trust my heart, my sould and my life. Somebody I'm not afraid to lose because I know they'll always be there. Relationships just aren't for me, but a partnership? I'll take that".
Let's see what else..I'm a big time cuddler/hugger, love cheesy texts, very playful type person. Looking for 43 and younger. Only race I believe in is the human race, and the alien races missing their interstellar exits and crashing into the rest stop known as Earth, so doesn't matter to me if you're white, black, Romulan or Wookie, Well, maybe not a Wookie, I do like the "smooth" look...wow, that just got interesting...
I'm orally-semi-bi. I'll explain - I'm NOT sexually attracted to men, no desire to have sex, kiss, cuddle, rim, etc. But just as I'm attracted to the well endowed ladies, in recent years I've been fascinated by well endowed men and have briefly enjoyed a "stroke buddy", and have giving safe oral on four occasion. It would be ideal if this excites you and you'd enjoy watching (not looking to have threesomes), or be okay that I am looking for a play buddy of that nature. If you are bi/curious that would be exciting for me in all honestly. Again, not looking for threesomes, but to enjoy watching each other play with the same sex, and then sexual activity between just you and I. If it's a new expeience for you it might be a good "buddy system" in case they turn out bad.
I also enjoy watching adult films, have been interested in role play, light water sports, as well...so looking for somone very open minded.
If you are still reading this, and interested, and live in Los Angeles or the Valley, please say hi!
