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Hi ladies of literotica,
I'm looking for a woman to have some fun via chat (text), talk (phone or voip), skype (voice or video), or email, and ultimately
I'd like to find someone with whom I can explore that wonderfully deep sexual contact which is so elusive for me.
I know many of you are disenchanted by men's goal oriented sexual interests, in my case I'm disenchanted by a similar
impatience and impulsiveness many women I'v spoken with and even some I'v slept with seem to have.
I'm a little different, my relationship to sex is different, it's just not a goal anymore for me to cum (yes I like it
under the right circumstances, but only under those circumstances), I'm much more interested in exploring sex with my
partner and finding out what our own bodies and minds try to hide from us even as we're given emotional carrots for going
through the right motions, and (let's be brutally honest here) yes even bs'ing ourselves into accepting a "good enough"
expression of sexual interest from our partner, and a "good enough" reason for why any particular thing feels good to us.
Yes, I'm one of those. If you're not one of those too, you'll have to look elsewhere, and there are countless men here
who will happily help you jump on the hedonic treadmill.
I recently had the opportunity to have one of the most erotic and revealing conversations with a young lady in the chat
rooms. It was so revealing that I actually learned something new about myself out of it. It wasn't about sex at all, it
was about unabashedly embracing our roles (you don't choose to have a penis, you were either a male sperm or female
sperm) as dealt to us by nature, no not on the surface like "I'm masculine, or your feminine" that's boring, go deeper. I
had a chance to explore the 'why' of my desire, ruthlessly asking 'why' and answering each question honestly with an
"everything else be damned" attitude.
It has little to do with respect or other surface civilities, it has everything to do with the gutteral, emotional, weak,
evil, noble, conditioned, predisposed, <whatever you want to call it for you> self that is always in control and is
always calling the shots, no matter what stories we may like to make up to rationalize why we want something or like
something.
I'm looking to explore this more with a woman, I'm neither seeking a real sexual relationship nor am I averse to one
happening (I think it would be wonderful to actually step out of talking about some of these things and knowingly 'do'
them with the knowledge that the other person also knows exactly why and what one is doing) no implications here, they're
not allowed, no games, no defenses, been there done that, I want someone who's comfortable with themselves enough to be
this honest.
For my own part, I'v hurt and been hurt, those stories are over, I'm grateful for them, but I'm not guarding myself
either, life is about gaining insight and knowledge otherwise there would be no point in living.
I live in Los Angeles, am 30 years old, 6 feet tall and fit, I'm also an adventurous sort who likes to get out and
explore the mountains around us here.
If you're local to southern california, great! If not, that's fine too.
I'm less interested in your specific body type, and age than I am in how you hold yourself, articulate your thoughts, and
how in-touch your are with your own sexuality.
I'd prefer to do this with ladies (and ultimately I'd love to find the most razor sharp mind I can find) who are
unmarried and potentially able to take this from virtual to actual though I'm patient in regards to how long that would
take.
I'm looking for a partner who embraces (particularly in the heat of passion) exactly why (and does their homework to
ensure that any answers are honest answers) they like something or don't like something during sex, I'm sorry but "It
just feels good" doesn't cut it with me. Nothing "just feels good" for no reason, there's always either a reason or a
'something' attached to that 'good', I'm looking for a woman who isn't afraid to find her reasons and her somethings.
This sounds a lot like work, and it is however I found out recently that this kind of work is hugely rewarding to one's
self and also to one's partner (if they do their work too, it's also rewarding to their own self) it's about extracting
more out of sex than an orgasm and blind passion.
I'm turning my back on them because I'v had access to so much pleasure for so long that to pursue a woman for assistance
in having orgasms has become meaningless to me, even the ego trip aspects of sex have begun to wear thin for me in the
rewards department, it just doesn't matter to me anymore.
I need to go deeper.
I can promise any ladies who take this challenge up with me (no pun intended):
1.) I'll pay complete attention to you and what I am saying doing every single time
2.) I'll say and/or do things that to the best and deepest probing of my self to my self are absolutely true about me.
3.) I'll tell you exactly what my deep, dark, and in the past 'rationalized' nature really wants me to say about you.
4.) I'll never express something in a mentally malicious way, i.e. I'm not about domination for domination's sake, or
control for control's sake, there will always be a reason, don't be surprised if it's a biological drive, or animalistic and irrational reasoning,
wrong though it may be, but still there nonetheless, I won't hold back, and hopefully neither will you
Call it an "honest sex" fetish, but it's unbelievably seductive to me, it's also equally liberating.
If you are well spoken, and very articulate, I'd love to hear from you, there's absolutely nothing in this world that
compares with unflinchingly honest and detailed sex with a lucid mind.
Most calls, chats, or sessions will be long and drawn out (I'v been called straight up 'cruel' in my how I tease and draw
my partner out), probably pleasurably so, and sustained at some baseline of pleasure, let's do it at night when we're in
bed and wide-awake, leave some energy for something like this (you fellow night owls know what I'm talking about). Some
calls, chats, or sessions might be short due to a nerve being hit, if those nerves are explored and unraveled, I feel
rare knowledge may be uncovered. and those are the roadblocks we all need to deal with along the way.
Needless to say, I'll be totally honest about anything that comes up, I'm an open book, I have nothing to hide and I like
it that way.
If this sounds like a trip you'd like to take with a man, then pm me and we'll start off the introductions.
Oh and here's my face, I'd appreciate it if you had a picture or two, It's always better to know how you look, details
are important to me.
I'm looking for a woman to have some fun via chat (text), talk (phone or voip), skype (voice or video), or email, and ultimately
I'd like to find someone with whom I can explore that wonderfully deep sexual contact which is so elusive for me.
I know many of you are disenchanted by men's goal oriented sexual interests, in my case I'm disenchanted by a similar
impatience and impulsiveness many women I'v spoken with and even some I'v slept with seem to have.
I'm a little different, my relationship to sex is different, it's just not a goal anymore for me to cum (yes I like it
under the right circumstances, but only under those circumstances), I'm much more interested in exploring sex with my
partner and finding out what our own bodies and minds try to hide from us even as we're given emotional carrots for going
through the right motions, and (let's be brutally honest here) yes even bs'ing ourselves into accepting a "good enough"
expression of sexual interest from our partner, and a "good enough" reason for why any particular thing feels good to us.
Yes, I'm one of those. If you're not one of those too, you'll have to look elsewhere, and there are countless men here
who will happily help you jump on the hedonic treadmill.
I recently had the opportunity to have one of the most erotic and revealing conversations with a young lady in the chat
rooms. It was so revealing that I actually learned something new about myself out of it. It wasn't about sex at all, it
was about unabashedly embracing our roles (you don't choose to have a penis, you were either a male sperm or female
sperm) as dealt to us by nature, no not on the surface like "I'm masculine, or your feminine" that's boring, go deeper. I
had a chance to explore the 'why' of my desire, ruthlessly asking 'why' and answering each question honestly with an
"everything else be damned" attitude.
It has little to do with respect or other surface civilities, it has everything to do with the gutteral, emotional, weak,
evil, noble, conditioned, predisposed, <whatever you want to call it for you> self that is always in control and is
always calling the shots, no matter what stories we may like to make up to rationalize why we want something or like
something.
I'm looking to explore this more with a woman, I'm neither seeking a real sexual relationship nor am I averse to one
happening (I think it would be wonderful to actually step out of talking about some of these things and knowingly 'do'
them with the knowledge that the other person also knows exactly why and what one is doing) no implications here, they're
not allowed, no games, no defenses, been there done that, I want someone who's comfortable with themselves enough to be
this honest.
For my own part, I'v hurt and been hurt, those stories are over, I'm grateful for them, but I'm not guarding myself
either, life is about gaining insight and knowledge otherwise there would be no point in living.
I live in Los Angeles, am 30 years old, 6 feet tall and fit, I'm also an adventurous sort who likes to get out and
explore the mountains around us here.
If you're local to southern california, great! If not, that's fine too.
I'm less interested in your specific body type, and age than I am in how you hold yourself, articulate your thoughts, and
how in-touch your are with your own sexuality.
I'd prefer to do this with ladies (and ultimately I'd love to find the most razor sharp mind I can find) who are
unmarried and potentially able to take this from virtual to actual though I'm patient in regards to how long that would
take.
I'm looking for a partner who embraces (particularly in the heat of passion) exactly why (and does their homework to
ensure that any answers are honest answers) they like something or don't like something during sex, I'm sorry but "It
just feels good" doesn't cut it with me. Nothing "just feels good" for no reason, there's always either a reason or a
'something' attached to that 'good', I'm looking for a woman who isn't afraid to find her reasons and her somethings.
This sounds a lot like work, and it is however I found out recently that this kind of work is hugely rewarding to one's
self and also to one's partner (if they do their work too, it's also rewarding to their own self) it's about extracting
more out of sex than an orgasm and blind passion.
I'm turning my back on them because I'v had access to so much pleasure for so long that to pursue a woman for assistance
in having orgasms has become meaningless to me, even the ego trip aspects of sex have begun to wear thin for me in the
rewards department, it just doesn't matter to me anymore.
I need to go deeper.
I can promise any ladies who take this challenge up with me (no pun intended):
1.) I'll pay complete attention to you and what I am saying doing every single time
2.) I'll say and/or do things that to the best and deepest probing of my self to my self are absolutely true about me.
3.) I'll tell you exactly what my deep, dark, and in the past 'rationalized' nature really wants me to say about you.
4.) I'll never express something in a mentally malicious way, i.e. I'm not about domination for domination's sake, or
control for control's sake, there will always be a reason, don't be surprised if it's a biological drive, or animalistic and irrational reasoning,
wrong though it may be, but still there nonetheless, I won't hold back, and hopefully neither will you
Call it an "honest sex" fetish, but it's unbelievably seductive to me, it's also equally liberating.
If you are well spoken, and very articulate, I'd love to hear from you, there's absolutely nothing in this world that
compares with unflinchingly honest and detailed sex with a lucid mind.
Most calls, chats, or sessions will be long and drawn out (I'v been called straight up 'cruel' in my how I tease and draw
my partner out), probably pleasurably so, and sustained at some baseline of pleasure, let's do it at night when we're in
bed and wide-awake, leave some energy for something like this (you fellow night owls know what I'm talking about). Some
calls, chats, or sessions might be short due to a nerve being hit, if those nerves are explored and unraveled, I feel
rare knowledge may be uncovered. and those are the roadblocks we all need to deal with along the way.
Needless to say, I'll be totally honest about anything that comes up, I'm an open book, I have nothing to hide and I like
it that way.
If this sounds like a trip you'd like to take with a man, then pm me and we'll start off the introductions.
Oh and here's my face, I'd appreciate it if you had a picture or two, It's always better to know how you look, details
are important to me.
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