Personal ads are so hard to write! Please bear with me as I muddle through.
I am a 26 year old bisexual woman with a partner. I am not looking for a skin to skin relationship. I am committed to my partner and I am not looking to replace her. However, some interests of mine are not being met in our current relationship and she knows that I love her dearly. She fully supports my searching for someone to meet my needs, as I have supported her in her search for a part time Butch. Under the rules of our agreement, I am free to find someone for kinky correspondence, kinky IMs with mutual masturbation and possibly moving to phone. I will not send pictures nor will I perform on Cam. We know someone who did so and met a less than honorable on line fuck buddy. We're STILL finding pics of her in odd places, three years later. We are not ruling out a face to face meeting someday, but it is not guaranteed either. Although I make no decision without her, she will not be part of this relationship. We will not do the 'pet lesbians" act for anyone.
I am looking for a Mummy or Daddy type to exchange emails with, for a start. Maybe one of each. Couples are welcome to write. Butch Daddies and trans or male Mummies are welcome. I am not an AB, though I am slightly flexible in that area. I do not like scat, bloodshed, forced sex, or animals. I am not interested in having these limits pushed. I rarely want to get into rough bdsm type scenes. Bondage doesn't do a lot for me, though mental bondage has some attraction. That being said I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A DOMINANT. My kink flows in the Daddy-Mummy/girl direction, NOT the "Me Tarzan you Jane", I mean "Me Dommy Bad Ass you slutty mcslutalot" mode. That's why this is posted in the general personals board, not the bdsm board. I'm really not very submissive outside of this type of relationship. Nor am I a Domme.
The person I'm looking for is male or female or trans; I don't really care about physical gender. I'm more into people rather than plumbing. I'm looking for a patient, kind person who is at least 40, who is willing to take time to get to know each other. I like creative, detailed emails and IM's. I am looking for someone who is a friend, as well as a lover, who understands that we don't have to come every time we IM. I am primarily free in the midday/afternoon time, US West Coast timezone. I am open to corresponding and IMing with people in other countries, as long as you understand that that can inhibit phone time, should we get that far. I am not looking for any sort of financial commitment or arrangement. No money will flow between us.
If any of this sounds good to you, please send a note, telling me a bit about yourself. The following things are automatic denials for me.
1. One word or one line PMs.
2. People who address me as "slut" or "whore".
3. People who start giving orders in the very first contact.
4. That lazy ass chat speech. I'm going to be blunt here. If u r 2 lazy 2 spell, ur 2 lazy 4 me. I don't care if it's faster. Guess what, the word "no" is faster to type than "yes." Typos I don't really care about, unless there are so many that it's hard to read. I run everything through my spell-checker before I hit "send", but still, it misses sometimes. Just make an effort, okay? I'm making an effort.
Thanks for reading my long intro. As you can see, I've placed a lot thought into what I'm looking for. Please drop me a PM if you're interested. I realize the paragraph may have upset some of you. Go take a walk or something, rather than flaming me please. If you do want to flame me, go ahead, but realize that any of the following may happen: I may correct your note for spelling and grammar and send it back to you, after forwarding it to all of my friends. At least the mockery will remain more or less private. I don't publish personal notes on public places; that's just not cool in my book. I will definitely block you from contacting me again.
edited to add my PS
PS: Please be aware that while this relationship is between me and you, my partner is fully aware of it. This means, she has access to ALL correspondence, including chat logs.
PS2: I am not interested in cheaters. If your partner is not aware of and okay with this, than I'm not interested. I realize that people can lie about this, but if they do and I find out about it, I will break it off immediately.
I am a 26 year old bisexual woman with a partner. I am not looking for a skin to skin relationship. I am committed to my partner and I am not looking to replace her. However, some interests of mine are not being met in our current relationship and she knows that I love her dearly. She fully supports my searching for someone to meet my needs, as I have supported her in her search for a part time Butch. Under the rules of our agreement, I am free to find someone for kinky correspondence, kinky IMs with mutual masturbation and possibly moving to phone. I will not send pictures nor will I perform on Cam. We know someone who did so and met a less than honorable on line fuck buddy. We're STILL finding pics of her in odd places, three years later. We are not ruling out a face to face meeting someday, but it is not guaranteed either. Although I make no decision without her, she will not be part of this relationship. We will not do the 'pet lesbians" act for anyone.
I am looking for a Mummy or Daddy type to exchange emails with, for a start. Maybe one of each. Couples are welcome to write. Butch Daddies and trans or male Mummies are welcome. I am not an AB, though I am slightly flexible in that area. I do not like scat, bloodshed, forced sex, or animals. I am not interested in having these limits pushed. I rarely want to get into rough bdsm type scenes. Bondage doesn't do a lot for me, though mental bondage has some attraction. That being said I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A DOMINANT. My kink flows in the Daddy-Mummy/girl direction, NOT the "Me Tarzan you Jane", I mean "Me Dommy Bad Ass you slutty mcslutalot" mode. That's why this is posted in the general personals board, not the bdsm board. I'm really not very submissive outside of this type of relationship. Nor am I a Domme.
The person I'm looking for is male or female or trans; I don't really care about physical gender. I'm more into people rather than plumbing. I'm looking for a patient, kind person who is at least 40, who is willing to take time to get to know each other. I like creative, detailed emails and IM's. I am looking for someone who is a friend, as well as a lover, who understands that we don't have to come every time we IM. I am primarily free in the midday/afternoon time, US West Coast timezone. I am open to corresponding and IMing with people in other countries, as long as you understand that that can inhibit phone time, should we get that far. I am not looking for any sort of financial commitment or arrangement. No money will flow between us.
If any of this sounds good to you, please send a note, telling me a bit about yourself. The following things are automatic denials for me.
1. One word or one line PMs.
2. People who address me as "slut" or "whore".
3. People who start giving orders in the very first contact.
4. That lazy ass chat speech. I'm going to be blunt here. If u r 2 lazy 2 spell, ur 2 lazy 4 me. I don't care if it's faster. Guess what, the word "no" is faster to type than "yes." Typos I don't really care about, unless there are so many that it's hard to read. I run everything through my spell-checker before I hit "send", but still, it misses sometimes. Just make an effort, okay? I'm making an effort.
Thanks for reading my long intro. As you can see, I've placed a lot thought into what I'm looking for. Please drop me a PM if you're interested. I realize the paragraph may have upset some of you. Go take a walk or something, rather than flaming me please. If you do want to flame me, go ahead, but realize that any of the following may happen: I may correct your note for spelling and grammar and send it back to you, after forwarding it to all of my friends. At least the mockery will remain more or less private. I don't publish personal notes on public places; that's just not cool in my book. I will definitely block you from contacting me again.
edited to add my PS
PS: Please be aware that while this relationship is between me and you, my partner is fully aware of it. This means, she has access to ALL correspondence, including chat logs.
PS2: I am not interested in cheaters. If your partner is not aware of and okay with this, than I'm not interested. I realize that people can lie about this, but if they do and I find out about it, I will break it off immediately.
