I want to preface this by saying I have little to no experience in the BDSM, so I apologize if what I am looking for doesnot really fit perfectly in here.
Ok...
Basically I am looking for someone to be like my sex mentor or something. Someone to give me goals and tasks designed to break me out of my shell or whatever. See, I am a bi-curious guy who despite having various fantasies/fetishes....I have not lived them out. I get too nervous or something. I figure that if I met someone who would be willing to take me under thier wing, so to speak, it could help.
So..what I am looking for:
Someone in the Los Angeles area. Doesnt matter if its a guy, girl, couple, or whatever. Just someone wqilling to be patient and helpful with me in pushing (and discovering) my boundries.
This relationship would not require sex between myself and the mentor, but who knows, if thats where it goes, then sex it is.
I guess I would describe what I am looking for as like lite-BDSM play. There is not a strict dom/sub relationship, but more of a teacher/student relationship. So for example, the mentor might have various tasks for me to do, like maybe going to some of LA's more kinkier outings/clubs, or maybe its is something more daring like having me wear a buttplug while walking around in public.
I hope that makes some sense.....
Again though:
I am not necesarrily looking for someone just to hook up with and fuck, but rather a friend/mentor/teacher type role. Also I have no preferences as far as age, gender, ect. If you're experienced and can give me some good insights thats what I am looking for. It would probably be best if you were bisexual though, or atleast open to that kind of stuff.
OK...so thats what I want. WHy would you bother wasting your time?
Well....you get the statisfaction of helping in the development of a young guys sexual something or another. I don't know.
About myself:
I am a 21 year old guy who is currently attending USC, and live near the campus. I am tall, thin, white, and pretty open about sex stuff (though very inexperienced). I consider myself bi, though I am pretty shy/not confident to hit on girls or guys. I have had some experiences with girls (head, sex), and one with a guy (oral, giving), and done some self-explatory stuff like played with my ass.
So thats where I come from. Sorry for the long post people probably won't read!
Ok...
Basically I am looking for someone to be like my sex mentor or something. Someone to give me goals and tasks designed to break me out of my shell or whatever. See, I am a bi-curious guy who despite having various fantasies/fetishes....I have not lived them out. I get too nervous or something. I figure that if I met someone who would be willing to take me under thier wing, so to speak, it could help.
So..what I am looking for:
Someone in the Los Angeles area. Doesnt matter if its a guy, girl, couple, or whatever. Just someone wqilling to be patient and helpful with me in pushing (and discovering) my boundries.
This relationship would not require sex between myself and the mentor, but who knows, if thats where it goes, then sex it is.
I guess I would describe what I am looking for as like lite-BDSM play. There is not a strict dom/sub relationship, but more of a teacher/student relationship. So for example, the mentor might have various tasks for me to do, like maybe going to some of LA's more kinkier outings/clubs, or maybe its is something more daring like having me wear a buttplug while walking around in public.
I hope that makes some sense.....
Again though:
I am not necesarrily looking for someone just to hook up with and fuck, but rather a friend/mentor/teacher type role. Also I have no preferences as far as age, gender, ect. If you're experienced and can give me some good insights thats what I am looking for. It would probably be best if you were bisexual though, or atleast open to that kind of stuff.
OK...so thats what I want. WHy would you bother wasting your time?
Well....you get the statisfaction of helping in the development of a young guys sexual something or another. I don't know.
About myself:
I am a 21 year old guy who is currently attending USC, and live near the campus. I am tall, thin, white, and pretty open about sex stuff (though very inexperienced). I consider myself bi, though I am pretty shy/not confident to hit on girls or guys. I have had some experiences with girls (head, sex), and one with a guy (oral, giving), and done some self-explatory stuff like played with my ass.
So thats where I come from. Sorry for the long post people probably won't read!
