Looking for a M/F couple in central NC

[beccalynn49]

okay, so my bf's birthday is next week.... and for quite some time we've been talking about something like this..... and last week we decided we need to find a couple to play with..... rather than just a guy or a gal...... and it sure sounds good to me too.....

so here's the deal..... we're both over 50 (i'm 51, he'll be 53 next week)...... he's straight and i'm bi-curious..... and we're looking for a similar couple between the ages of 35 and 55....... though if you don't exactly fall into that range that doesn't mean you're automatically excluded...... we're in the raleigh vicinity.......

send me a pm if you're interested...... and let's see what happens!.......

 

[ncdude]

not a couple beccalynn but just wanted to wish you luck and say sounds like a wonderful bd is brewing
best wishes

 

[bicuriousbill]

I'm back!

Hi Becca,
I've been away for a while and just got back. I was wondering what happened to your "around the house" thread? I sure enjoyed it. Your idea of another couple sounds like fun. Wish my wife was into it. We had a fmf with her best friend. She enjoyed it so much that it scared her. I haven't been able to get her to do it again. We're both 54 and I know that you and my wife would really hit it off if she would only be willing to try. Let me know if you're ever in the Charlotte area.

 

[beccalynn49]

well.... today is bf's birthday.... and so far no luck in finding him a really special present..... but i'll keep looking..... so keep us in mind if you're interested.......

 

[please_them_all]

Wish my wife was into it but she isn't. We are in the Raleigh area. PM me if you ever need a M for your Bday. Hope you find the couple.

 

[jackryan2323]

Wish my wife was into it but she isn't. We are in the Raleigh area. PM me if you ever need a M for your Bday. Hope you find the couple.

Hey Beccalynn

We are from the Raleigh area too and have talked about getting together with another person or couple for many years but have never quite found the right match at the right time, etc... What exactly are you looking for? Have you ever done this before?

 

[pipmaster1971]

Hello

We're from Raleigh too.....We've both talked about getting together with another couple, but never seem to have found the courage to do it. It's not the sort of thing you ask of people in Michael Deans' is it?

 

[beccalynn49]

Hey Beccalynn

We are from the Raleigh area too and have talked about getting together with another person or couple for many years but have never quite found the right match at the right time, etc... What exactly are you looking for? Have you ever done this before?

no, we've never done this.... total virgins in the 'group' thing.... we're looking for a clean and hopefully non-smoking couple.... folks that are as committed to each other as we are..... (our relationship has just passed the 6-year mark, btw.....) adventurous people..... maybe even mildly kinky...... ...... but nothing scary..... we're not looking for a barbie and ken since we're not that ourselves...... just average folks...... looking for the same...... does any of that make sense?..... or sound appealing?......

 

[beccalynn49]

We're from Raleigh too.....We've both talked about getting together with another couple, but never seem to have found the courage to do it. It's not the sort of thing you ask of people in Michael Deans' is it?

lol..... no, you're exactly right...... we've spotted folks shopping at target that we considered asking..... but then we both find that we're much too shy to actually say anything to a stranger..... that's why i'm really hoping to make a contact like this..... takes a lot of the pressure off if you know at the first meeting where you're all hoping it will go..... *giggle*......

 

[pipmaster1971]

lol..... no, you're exactly right...... we've spotted folks shopping at target that we considered asking..... but then we both find that we're much too shy to actually say anything to a stranger..... that's why i'm really hoping to make a contact like this..... takes a lot of the pressure off if you know at the first meeting where you're all hoping it will go..... *giggle*......

True....Not sure Target is the best place (although you can get some classy looking people there). I've heard that there're a few swingers clubs in the Triangle, but I haven't found them yet. You have to be a little carefull in those places though.

Perhaps I should mention it to my wife.....you can always start slowly can't you?

 

[jackryan2323]

It sounds very appealing. We have been married for 15 years so obviously in for the long haul We actually kind of slowed down looking a while ago. I used to chat a fair amount on Yahoo and we met a few in person to check them out...scary so none of them worked out. We went to Our Place one time but did not even get in the door since the crowd seemed to be younger and not quite what we were looking for.

We too are not Ken and Barbie. My wife is a larger woman - very pretty but larger. We are not looking for Ken and Barbie but are looking for people that are attractive both physically and mentally. We are both non-smokers.

The fantasy has gone from "lets see if we can find someone/couple" to we talk about it from time to time in the heat of the moment. Obviously we are willing to wait to find the right person/couple.

Hope you had a good weekend...hope we can talk soon.

 

[beccalynn49]

True....Not sure Target is the best place (although you can get some classy looking people there). I've heard that there're a few swingers clubs in the Triangle, but I haven't found them yet. You have to be a little carefull in those places though.

Perhaps I should mention it to my wife.....you can always start slowly can't you?

slow is a very good way to start......

 

[beccalynn49]

The fantasy has gone from "lets see if we can find someone/couple" to we talk about it from time to time in the heat of the moment. Obviously we are willing to wait to find the right person/couple.

Hope you had a good weekend...hope we can talk soon.

it sounds to me like we definitely need to talk..... i'm hoping to have time this weekend to show all this to bf...... i've told him we've had a couple of 'nibbles'...... so we're both encouraged that something might actually happen......