looking for a little help/guideance

[confused20]

Gulp! ok here goes...

20 single white female in the midwest looking for some one to chat with for now...e-mail/pm/aim

Im not nessacarily interested in bdsm beyond the need for someone who can take control of the situation and help me figure some stuff out...the problem ive had with the few "sexual" encounters i have had is that the guys im with dont say anything...they dont tell me what im supposed to do, and they expect me to know whats going on, i am a junior in college for cripes sakes! but ive never even been on a date...and while i know what goes on and have too many fantasys to list ...when anything starts happening i freeze, becuz i dont know how to start anything...and well what i really need i guess is someone who can TELL me what to do...i would love that.

Anyhow...i aplogize for putting this up here...if there are any gentleman that do feel a little pity here plz plz contact me ...otherwise ignore this little bit of insanity

*runs and hides*

 

[mfs686]

Helping Hand

I am more than willing to help out a damsel in distress. Just say the word and I will see what I can do. There are a few of us here in Michigan that would help.

 

[confused20]

hello

I am more than willing to help out a damsel in distress. Just say the word and I will see what I can do. There are a few of us here in Michigan that would help.

Not real sure exactly what i was looking for...someone to chat with mostly...this msg was origanaly ment to be posted in the BDSM forum, but i messed it up...what did u have in mind?

 

[smthtlkr80]

Confused,

No worries, I am completely willing to help you out in any way I can. I am a 22 yr old male who is just recently separated. My life has been pretty exciting lately. Please feel free to contact me and let me know when you would like to talk. OK?

 

[mfs686]

If you just want to chat that's fine. If you would like to send erotic stories abck and forth that is fine as well. If you would like to get in on some of the bantering back and forth in these threads got to the "Hello from Michigan" thread under personals. There are usually a few of us there.

 

[ChefChip]

well, I'm a young guy in the same situation but I can't get to the midwest, sorry.

 

[GuidoMustache]

I think what you are looking for is someone who is a bit older and a bit more experienced for advice and to help you get over some hangups/niavete. PM me for either.

BTW: that takes guts to step out on a limb and ask....

 

[Guest]

i can help

please email me at RSTAHL5662@aol.com.......lets chats and see i f i can give you some guidance.

 

[PatInMichigan]

hi from michigan

Why Hi there I am in Livonia, Michigan.....please get in touch if you like to have fun offline I have some pics I can share also....you?

kiss
Patrick

 

[John Roberts]

Gulp! ok here goes...

20 single white female in the midwest looking for some one to chat with for now...e-mail/pm/aim

Im not nessacarily interested in bdsm beyond the need for someone who can take control of the situation and help me figure some stuff out...the problem ive had with the few "sexual" encounters i have had is that the guys im with dont say anything...they dont tell me what im supposed to do, and they expect me to know whats going on, i am a junior in college for cripes sakes! but ive never even been on a date...and while i know what goes on and have too many fantasys to list ...when anything starts happening i freeze, becuz i dont know how to start anything...and well what i really need i guess is someone who can TELL me what to do...i would love that.

Anyhow...i aplogize for putting this up here...if there are any gentleman that do feel a little pity here plz plz contact me ...otherwise ignore this little bit of insanity

*runs and hides*

First off, hook up with someone you trust, this can take time but you could find someone with common interests and just let things happen. Hang out with someone who makes you glow, you will know. One way of reducing your anxiety and panic is to play various scenarios in your head, fantasize a multitude of fantasies so that if it does not match, you can slip into another and relax.
Be open and honest....as eventually that person will get to know you anyhow...it can save you a lot of time and aggravation to be honest from the get go. Anything that promotes intimacy will help, that is why finding someone with common interests helps...it gives you something to do and talk about to make the sitiation more relaxing. If the chemistry is not there....move on.
Good luck to you.

 

[Guest]

Re: hi from michigan

Why Hi there I am in Livonia, Michigan.....please get in touch if you like to have fun offline I have some pics I can share also....you?

kiss
Patrick

Why would you bump up a personal ad from 08-15-02? This woman responded twice to her ad ever. Both were last August.

Something to think about...

 

[John Roberts]

Re: Re: hi from michigan

Why would you bump up a personal ad from 08-15-02? This woman responded twice to her ad ever. Both were last August.

Something to think about...

Durn....I have got to remember to check those dates....

 

[Guest]