GhostFeather18
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Lesbian/recent bi-sexual here!
We play regularly together in person as Dom and sub, and we're now keen to team up to sort of “double dominate" another sub online.
Don't be deceived! We're both outwardly polite but inwardly naughty. There's nothing that we'd enjoy more than imposing our wicked whims on a squirming sub. We have a long list to work through!
What are our BDSM roles?
I am a "switch": warm and kind, but my angelic exterior conceals an inner sadistic streak, but only when he orders me to be He brings the male dominance in a "Daddy Dom" style: caring and nurturing but firm.
Who are you?
For our preferred dynamic, we're seeking a heterosexual or bisexual, any age (Whatever is legal where you are), with pent-up submissive desires that we can work together, or independently to unlock. You'll need to be able to hold conversations in English. You really don't need any prior experience of BDSM, but it's fine if you do have it.
What you get:
* two online friends who will be naughty with you
* online fun to fit around real-life commitments
* a deeper connection, beyond kink, with us
What we get:
* a willing sub on whom we can inflict our devilish schemes
* online fun to fit around real-life commitments
* a deeper connection, beyond kink, with a new friend online and in real life.
How would it work?
We'd start by having a series of chats to get to know each other, to understand what makes us "tick" and to decide whether to take things any further. Much depends on chemistry! It's possible to have a "platonic" D/s dynamic for our joint online interations, but a sexual edge might be delightful for all of us.
Please understand that online D/s play is difficult! As ever, communication is key. We can use Private Messaging and e-mail for off-line task setting and reporting, but we'll also need to communicate regularly in real time (skype)
to keep things alive. We're not expecting camming or pics all the time, but an exchange of (tasteful) photos early on would be nice to build familiarity and trust.
As an example, we (or either of us) I would set you a task to carry out at your own convenience, which would involve you in yielding a measure of control to us. You would be required to complete the task to the best of your abilities and then report back to us on the outcome, including your honest reflections on the feelings that you experienced. We would then use your feedback to calibrate future tasks that stretch you whilst remaining within your limits.
Realistically, there will be "hits" and "misses" during this process. Before we start trying to push your submissive buttons, it's best that we spend time up-front getting to know you, your preferences and your desires.
We’re expecting to enjoy that intriguing phase of mutual exploration and the resulting friendship just as much as the kinky play.
If we "click" in the right way, then we obviously can have lots of varied fun together.
What limits would apply?
In our physical BDSM play, We prefer gentler activities: light bondage and discipline (ropes, cuffs, light flogging), sensation play (e.g. ropes, wax, ice, blindfold), sensual stimulation (e.g. pinwheels, violet wand, tickling). Hard limits for us include blood and scat.
Similarly, in the mental domain (more applicable to online play), we enjoy teasing, anticipation, edge play and mild to severe embarassment. Hard limits for us include serious humiliation, degradation and fear play.
How do I get in touch?
Send me a Private Message, or post here in my thread. I will (only) take that as an invitation to have a chat with you about the possibilities. Please include any initial questions that you'd like us to answer for you.
We look forward to any replies!
We play regularly together in person as Dom and sub, and we're now keen to team up to sort of “double dominate" another sub online.
Don't be deceived! We're both outwardly polite but inwardly naughty. There's nothing that we'd enjoy more than imposing our wicked whims on a squirming sub. We have a long list to work through!
What are our BDSM roles?
I am a "switch": warm and kind, but my angelic exterior conceals an inner sadistic streak, but only when he orders me to be He brings the male dominance in a "Daddy Dom" style: caring and nurturing but firm.
Who are you?
For our preferred dynamic, we're seeking a heterosexual or bisexual, any age (Whatever is legal where you are), with pent-up submissive desires that we can work together, or independently to unlock. You'll need to be able to hold conversations in English. You really don't need any prior experience of BDSM, but it's fine if you do have it.
What you get:
* two online friends who will be naughty with you
* online fun to fit around real-life commitments
* a deeper connection, beyond kink, with us
What we get:
* a willing sub on whom we can inflict our devilish schemes
* online fun to fit around real-life commitments
* a deeper connection, beyond kink, with a new friend online and in real life.
How would it work?
We'd start by having a series of chats to get to know each other, to understand what makes us "tick" and to decide whether to take things any further. Much depends on chemistry! It's possible to have a "platonic" D/s dynamic for our joint online interations, but a sexual edge might be delightful for all of us.
Please understand that online D/s play is difficult! As ever, communication is key. We can use Private Messaging and e-mail for off-line task setting and reporting, but we'll also need to communicate regularly in real time (skype)
to keep things alive. We're not expecting camming or pics all the time, but an exchange of (tasteful) photos early on would be nice to build familiarity and trust.
As an example, we (or either of us) I would set you a task to carry out at your own convenience, which would involve you in yielding a measure of control to us. You would be required to complete the task to the best of your abilities and then report back to us on the outcome, including your honest reflections on the feelings that you experienced. We would then use your feedback to calibrate future tasks that stretch you whilst remaining within your limits.
Realistically, there will be "hits" and "misses" during this process. Before we start trying to push your submissive buttons, it's best that we spend time up-front getting to know you, your preferences and your desires.
We’re expecting to enjoy that intriguing phase of mutual exploration and the resulting friendship just as much as the kinky play.
If we "click" in the right way, then we obviously can have lots of varied fun together.
What limits would apply?
In our physical BDSM play, We prefer gentler activities: light bondage and discipline (ropes, cuffs, light flogging), sensation play (e.g. ropes, wax, ice, blindfold), sensual stimulation (e.g. pinwheels, violet wand, tickling). Hard limits for us include blood and scat.
Similarly, in the mental domain (more applicable to online play), we enjoy teasing, anticipation, edge play and mild to severe embarassment. Hard limits for us include serious humiliation, degradation and fear play.
How do I get in touch?
Send me a Private Message, or post here in my thread. I will (only) take that as an invitation to have a chat with you about the possibilities. Please include any initial questions that you'd like us to answer for you.
We look forward to any replies!
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