Repeatoffender25
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Thanks for reading this post, I invite you to check out my other postings on the site to get an idea of my personality.
The facts are as follows; I've been married for quite a while and early infedility, and more recent health issues have widened the gap between myself and my S/O. I've had online "friends" before and to be honest I was happier, & more content overall when I had someone to talk to. I want to feel a spark of something again. Sometimes I feel lonely, other times in need of stimulation, and I'll admit a chat partner is a good cure for boredom too. I don't know about you, but I've found life to be redundant the older you get.
I'm not going to sugarcoat things....I think I'm boring. In the Summer I do enjoy the outdoors quite a bit, but in the colder months I become more a recluse...a homebody. I don't have a wide variety of hobbies, if I did then perhaps you wouldn't even be reading this at the moment. I don't read a lot anymore, my attention span is terrible. I don't go to the gym...because it's the gym!
I don't do a lot socially because I have a non existent friends circle, I'm really quite introverted in person, but much more chatty online. I enjoy watching sports, playing sports games, binge watching a good show (anything and everything...if it's good I'll watch it). I like my music served with a double portion of ballads, and 80's rock/pop, some country. So dear reader you see very clearly you will be the most exciting thing about me.
I've had conversations a plenty, but few move past the three day mark. Here's why: In the first 3 days I find that I carry the conversation, ask most of the questions reply with the more in depth answers. (most times not always)
On the third day I sit back and see how you respond. If you can carry the conversation or if you're even interested enough to ask questions. It's important to me that the woman I talk to be able to carry things because there will be days I need that, when life/job/wife has me about to tap out and you will keep me grounded and engaged. Usually when we get to this point the excitement of receiving a message has worn off and we both know there are tells to when someone on the other end loses interest.
I would love to tell you that the nice outweighs the naughty and it's all about a mental connection, but sadly if I did I would be lying and we haven't even chatted yet. The mental and physical side are very much equals. As for me I'm nothing to write home about; 5'10/260lbs, very clearly a dad bod with over emphasis in the stomach area. I guess maybe I have a double standard (again keeping with honesty) I very much want my chat buddy to be pretty, as far as body types go I enjoy small and petite all the way to thick and chubby.
I'm not going to jump at you with any unwanted photos or phrases, so if you've made it this far you have nothing to lose by sending me a message. My inbox is empty and I hope to hear from you!
The facts are as follows; I've been married for quite a while and early infedility, and more recent health issues have widened the gap between myself and my S/O. I've had online "friends" before and to be honest I was happier, & more content overall when I had someone to talk to. I want to feel a spark of something again. Sometimes I feel lonely, other times in need of stimulation, and I'll admit a chat partner is a good cure for boredom too. I don't know about you, but I've found life to be redundant the older you get.
I'm not going to sugarcoat things....I think I'm boring. In the Summer I do enjoy the outdoors quite a bit, but in the colder months I become more a recluse...a homebody. I don't have a wide variety of hobbies, if I did then perhaps you wouldn't even be reading this at the moment. I don't read a lot anymore, my attention span is terrible. I don't go to the gym...because it's the gym!
I don't do a lot socially because I have a non existent friends circle, I'm really quite introverted in person, but much more chatty online. I enjoy watching sports, playing sports games, binge watching a good show (anything and everything...if it's good I'll watch it). I like my music served with a double portion of ballads, and 80's rock/pop, some country. So dear reader you see very clearly you will be the most exciting thing about me.I've had conversations a plenty, but few move past the three day mark. Here's why: In the first 3 days I find that I carry the conversation, ask most of the questions reply with the more in depth answers. (most times not always)
On the third day I sit back and see how you respond. If you can carry the conversation or if you're even interested enough to ask questions. It's important to me that the woman I talk to be able to carry things because there will be days I need that, when life/job/wife has me about to tap out and you will keep me grounded and engaged. Usually when we get to this point the excitement of receiving a message has worn off and we both know there are tells to when someone on the other end loses interest.
I would love to tell you that the nice outweighs the naughty and it's all about a mental connection, but sadly if I did I would be lying and we haven't even chatted yet. The mental and physical side are very much equals. As for me I'm nothing to write home about; 5'10/260lbs, very clearly a dad bod with over emphasis in the stomach area. I guess maybe I have a double standard (again keeping with honesty) I very much want my chat buddy to be pretty, as far as body types go I enjoy small and petite all the way to thick and chubby.
I'm not going to jump at you with any unwanted photos or phrases, so if you've made it this far you have nothing to lose by sending me a message. My inbox is empty and I hope to hear from you!
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