Midnightcaller26
Lit Veteran
- Joined
- Apr 2, 2026
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In my mind I know the message I’m looking to convey, but sometimes it’s hard to get it to come out right. So here goes… I’m in a reflective point in life and would enjoy really connecting. Something that clicks so well it feels natural.
I’ve talked with some women here, (or attempted to) that have nothing to say. It’s like I have to encourage them to elaborate, that makes me feel like I’m asking too many questions. I’m not looking to coax anyone into a good back and forth chat.
I’ve also talked to some over my journeys here who are eager to jump into “fun” stuff really quick. That was me 20 years ago. Yet I’m still a guy, so you tempt I’ll probably cave.
When that happens too quick my moral code is gonna go haywire and I’m done. Sounds shitty maybe, but that’s my wiring.
So without belaboring the point I’m looking for that sweet spot in the middle. Let’s get to know each other and hopefully become friends. Obviously that involves engaging conversations from both sides, and not rushing to move into advanced territory overnight.
I’m an average looking guy, gray is creeping into my hair and trimmed beard. Heavier in the waste than I’d like. I think I’m kind and respectful, naughty enough when/if the time comes, I’m laid back, and easy to talk to.
I would hope a lady of Lit who is intelligent, a conversationalist, attractive, slim to thick, with a nice smile and a thought process similar to mine would be inclined to say hello. A woman in her 20s - 40s is preferred. Long term can only be built a day at a time.
My inbox is open!
I’ve talked with some women here, (or attempted to) that have nothing to say. It’s like I have to encourage them to elaborate, that makes me feel like I’m asking too many questions. I’m not looking to coax anyone into a good back and forth chat.
I’ve also talked to some over my journeys here who are eager to jump into “fun” stuff really quick. That was me 20 years ago. Yet I’m still a guy, so you tempt I’ll probably cave.
When that happens too quick my moral code is gonna go haywire and I’m done. Sounds shitty maybe, but that’s my wiring.So without belaboring the point I’m looking for that sweet spot in the middle. Let’s get to know each other and hopefully become friends. Obviously that involves engaging conversations from both sides, and not rushing to move into advanced territory overnight.
I’m an average looking guy, gray is creeping into my hair and trimmed beard. Heavier in the waste than I’d like. I think I’m kind and respectful, naughty enough when/if the time comes, I’m laid back, and easy to talk to.
I would hope a lady of Lit who is intelligent, a conversationalist, attractive, slim to thick, with a nice smile and a thought process similar to mine would be inclined to say hello. A woman in her 20s - 40s is preferred. Long term can only be built a day at a time.
My inbox is open!
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