Looking for a lady friend

[Spenser41]

Hi, I'm been on Lit for many years. But I want to share something.
I just turned 60. I'm married but in that roommate kind of marriage where you sleep in separate rooms. No sex or intimacy since 2010. Not looking to divorce. I'm 60, in a job that barely supports me alone. Starting all over would be impossible and because I'm older, insurance is harder to pay for alone.

I want to talk to folks in the same boat as I am. Who understand where I'm coming from. Not looking for someone to tell me how to get out of my marriage, or go to counseling or judges me for doing this ad. (wow...people on a sex site that judges others?)

So if you understand, want to be a friend, find a place of acceptance and comfort, come talk to me. I'm waiting.

 

[dreamykitten2]

Ladies he's a great friend!

Give him a chance and you won't be disappointed ! He's fun to talk to and has a wonderful voice. He was a DJ on the radio before in his life. He needs friends. In my estimation one can never have too many ! So give him a try! I count him as one of my friends.

 

[Doctor13]

I find a post that uptalks a friend on this site to be one of the most amazing things you can do for a friend, especially on this site. Touching.

 

[NightOfPassion2]

Give him a chance and you won't be disappointed ! He's fun to talk to and has a wonderful voice. He was a DJ on the radio before in his life. He needs friends. In my estimation one can never have too many ! So give him a try! I count him as one of my friends.

Kudos to you! He's very lucky to had you as a friend.

 

[Spenser41]

Give him a chance and you won't be disappointed ! He's fun to talk to and has a wonderful voice. He was a DJ on the radio before in his life. He needs friends. In my estimation one can never have too many ! So give him a try! I count him as one of my friends.

Thanks hon. Always a good friend.

 

[Spenser41]

Kudos to you! He's very lucky to had you as a friend.

She still is a good friend.

 

[Spenser41]

Nice that guys dropped by but any ladies?

 

[Spenser41]

Bump. No lady friends?

 

[Susanthetart]

everyone is one sort of boat or another

Hi.. Your situation sounds like the same one a million others are in. Not easy to change your life at that stage, almost better to find something to get you by. Good luck and I wish you the best. I am sure eventually you will find someone to discuss all this with and take your mind off of it.

 

[Titts4Tatts]

My situation is similar. I'm in a marriage that's distant. We live together but share little...

I'm fortunate to be in a very good career. I could easily afford life on my own. But then I split half of everything ? I worked hard for my home a d such. I just hate to leave it.....

 

[Spenser41]

My situation is similar. I'm in a marriage that's distant. We live together but share little...

I'm fortunate to be in a very good career. I could easily afford life on my own. But then I split half of everything ? I worked hard for my home a d such. I just hate to leave it.....

I so know what you mean. I'm here for you as well.

 

[Spenser41]

Hi.. Your situation sounds like the same one a million others are in. Not easy to change your life at that stage, almost better to find something to get you by. Good luck and I wish you the best. I am sure eventually you will find someone to discuss all this with and take your mind off of it.

Thank you. Would love to chat anytime.

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

Bumping my friend Spens back to the top

 

[Spenser41]

Bumping my friend Spens back to the top

Thanks Dee

 

[Spenser41]

Just got back from being down south seeing family.. Back home again... so how was everyone's Christmas...

 

[Moon_Kyoung_ja]

Just got back from being down south seeing family.. Back home again... so how was everyone's Christmas...

Mine was great!

 

[Spenser41]

Mine was great!

glad it was....

 

[dreamykitten2]

Hi just got home from work

How's the weekend going???

 

[Spenser41]

How's the weekend going???

slow.... we got back home around 4 and everyone took off

 

[shmily]

Hey cutie, have always enjoyed our chats, still got that computer issue I need to get with you on. Work should be slow this week, will see. Hugs.

 

[Spenser41]

Hey cutie, have always enjoyed our chats, still got that computer issue I need to get with you on. Work should be slow this week, will see. Hugs.

Just let me know and I will be glad to help. N

 

[Spenser41]

A gentle bump.

 

[Spenser41]

another bump... Hope everyone has an awesome new year.

 

[Spenser41]

GOOD LORD..... 475 visits and only 22 comments and most of them are mine? LOL
Guess I am in a fantasy world...

 

[SeaCarz]

So

arent we all?