Looking for a genuine companion to quell the loneliness

[cl_trail]

Greetings everyone. I won't beat around the bush too much. I am a lonely guy in his early 40s, in a tough situation, utterly bereft of any kind of intimacy, be that sexual or just emotional. Perhaps many of us are; there does have to be a reason we are here, after all.

And so I cast my net out there into the ocean of lit one more time, to see if there are any kindred spirits out there.

In a nutshell, i am on the tall side, pretty thin, fair, extremely clean cut and professional in appearance (imagine no tattoos and no piercings on a guy who cuts his hair weekly).

I'm happiest when reading a good book or taking a hike or jog outside, or getting in a good workout at the gym.

Outwardly I am pretty stoic and conservative, but on the inside I am a swirling mass of curiosities. I'm the kind of guy who likes to tumble down some rabbit holes with a fellow traveler.

Who should you be? A woman in her thirties to fifties who has a decent accumulation of life wisdom. Someone who is kind hearted and open minded, and seeks a true connection more than just a passing hookup.

Ideally at some point we can transition to a messenger and keep one another company that way. But until then, this seems like as good a place to try as any

Hope everyone is having a great day.

 

[Good_girl_4_u]

Hi. I can completely relate with your situation. I think the loneliness is the worst part of it all. You could be sorting right on front of them. And yet. At least for me I feel less alone when he is gone. Compared to how lonely it feels when in the same room or house. I'm sorry you're going through that.

 

[ned63]

Hi. I can completely relate with your situation. I think the loneliness is the worst part of it all. You could be sorting right on front of them. And yet. At least for me I feel less alone when he is gone. Compared to how lonely it feels when in the same room or house. I'm sorry you're going through that.

I hear you through your words. Being lonely when my other half is home and I feel better when she gone I can be here or take something in my hand and get some pleasure.