Looking for a female who likes to express herself...

[mja003]

Hi, I'm looking to exchange emails with a female that enjoys expressing herself and who would like to share her thoughts with me. I have lots of experiences to share and lots of ideas to fantasise about. I am a good listener and would love to hear about you.

If you would like to exchange experiences and fantasies, (of life in full, not just sex) and share a new kind of journey with me, then I would love to hear from you.

I am male and 32 years old, I like art, photography and most things that are creative. I live in the UK and would like to hear from others around the world.

I have tried this a couple of times with no real luck, so even if I do not interest you, please let me know if I should be doing anything differently.

Cheers for now, M.

 

[Miss Eggroll]

Are you male or female?

 

[sexuallement_me]

you sound very interesting and intelligent.
unfortunately, thats not what gets peoples attention here at literotica it seems.
good luck, however.

 

[mja003]

Are you male or female?

Miss Eggroll, how are you today?

Thanks for the pointer, that was not a good start... I can be such a doughnut sometimes!

I am male, I will edit my first post and try again!

Cheers, M.

 

[mja003]

you sound very interesting and intelligent.
unfortunately, thats not what gets peoples attention here at literotica it seems.
good luck, however.

Sexuallement_me, thanks for the message, I hope there is someone suitable out there for me.

What are you looking for on Lit? Any success stories so far?

Take care, M.

 

[PyroDemon]

Good luck in your search. There is no lack of women on lit that will share their fantasies and I have not found one how is shy about it. Many are very intellegent , some are not. But all are fun. Just keep posting, look around, and join in. Sometimes you have to start the ball rolling.

*** Geez, I talk like I have been here a long time, anyway, have fun hunting.****

 

[sexuallement_me]

sorry that my response was somewhat cynical. its just that people on here are, obviously, all about sex. my boyfriend and i were hoping to find people who are sexual yet are also real people with other interests aside from getting themselves off. and although we've had a tiny bit of luck, it seems very difficult to find others willing to take it slow and become friends before fuck-buddies.
however, i wish you the best of luck, i'm sure there probably is a great girl for you on here. if not, theres still the rest of the world.

 

[PyroDemon]

Sexual, it is very easy to get jaded going thru the game players looking for the real people .Luckily I found quite a few people that are becoming pretty good friends and who knows if it will go farther than that. Sure, sex is a big part of what we talk, joke, and think about. But you will find we talk alot about life and just plain crap. I hope both of you find what and who you are looking for. I am very happy with the people I have met personally. Just hang in there kids, you will eventualy get the responses you want. Check out some of the posts in the playground.

 

[mja003]

sorry that my response was somewhat cynical...

Hi sexuallement_me,

Thanks for the explanation (not needed) and please do not apologise, I think I was trying too hard to sound like a normal/serious person and not just another horny guy looking to get in on asap…

I understand your view on lit, some days I feel that it may not be the right site for me. To me many others on lit are so blasé about their openness and experiences, that I seem to be static in a world moving at 100 mile per hour.

Nowadays I have been looking at lit as if it is one big nightclub, you have many different types of people and they all have different objectives for being there.

You have the loud, happy go lucky type of people, jumping around the dance floor, drinking, dancing and who are (seem to be) having lots of fun. They are looking for a quick fix, for that instant attraction, or simply just a one-night stand.

Then you also have the quieter person (at first sight), maybe sitting at the bar away from the frolicking and the dance floor, they are looking for something a little deeper, an encounter with more substance and not a quick simple sexual release. They are more interested in sharing a drink and story, than leaving early for that instant rush. Developing a relationship of some kind and having an understanding, is more important to them than scoring the first time you meet someone you are attracted.

Like in life - in my metaphoric nightclub, you have many other types of people that are somewhere in between these two extremes. Some are bizarre, weird and wonderful, others are bold, abrupt and in your face. Then there are others still, who are shy and quiet, who keep themselves to themselves, and are happy to watch the world go by around them.

I suppose that I am still in the night club, I am nearer the quieter, more serious side of the two examples, and I am just happy to walk around and have a good time. But I am still looking for a place at the bar to have nice cold “JD” and coke, and to meet some like minded people.

After putting this down in writing, I feel that it was this very diversity that attracted me to lit in the first place. I suppose it was like a little boy seeing the circus for the first time and being in mesmerised by the whole experience. But then after visiting a couple of times he discovers that everything is not quite as it seems and that there is more to it that this than meets the eye.

That all said, how are you and your boyfriend?, what interests do you two have?
Personally I like anything creative - art, photography, design… that type of thing. I am currently renovating a house in the UK.

Where about’s do you live? How do you use lit together? Do both have the same username and see what each other writes, or do you each have your own identity on lit?

I look forward to hearing more about the pair of you.

Take care, M.

 

[a-jewel-refined]

Hi,
I'm new to this site and it was your request that
promted me to sign up as a member.
I am a creative writer, photographer and artist.

Would love to meet you via email and chat..

how about you?

jewel

 

[Phalenopsis]

MJA -

Hello. I'm new to this, but personally, I think anything goes - even if that something isn't on the fringe. I'd be willing to share thoughts with you. I'm an email junkee and my friends can't seem to keep up, to I'm always looking for people to chat with.
In reality, I seem pretty square - female, 36, professional, married, respectable - but I have a great imagination that I miss using in my professional career. I love exploring other people's minds, and sharing mine - if you don't mind a little 'whiplash'. I'm not entirely sure what you are looking for, but we could explore a little futher and discuss it. No expectations.
I'm mainly a Lit reader - like the stories, and think about writing my own often. I've been reading for months, but just recently started poking around the site to see what else was here.

Phal.

 

[PyroDemon]

MJA, you are off to a good start there Bro'. I see you understand a little more than most do. Good luck and I hope oyu are having fun.
To the ladies : Glad to hear you are willing to explore your inner self. Good luck to you and if you ever feel the need to express yourself, you can always contact me. Intellegence and exploration is very addicting. Good luck on your path.

 

[mja003]

Hi,
I'm new to this site and it was your request that
promted me to sign up as a member...

Hi - a-jewel-refined,

First of all, thank you for the reply it is always nice to find that you have been replied to, I have not had many on previous outings, but this time it seems more successful.

And secondly, it is even greater to hear that “I have prompted” you take your first steps into the world of lit. I hope you find your way around a little quicker than I did.

I would really like to exchange emails and to get to know you and also to share my thoughts with you. I am already looking forward to it. So… where shall we start ??? How about I email you from lit and we can start from there.

Speak to you soon, M.

 

[mja003]

MJA -

Hello. I'm new to this, but personally, I think anything goes - even if that something isn't on the fringe...

Phal.

Hi Phalenopsis,

Thank you for the reply, you’re an “email junkie” are you? I would very much like to exchange emails with you, but you may have to be patient as I am more of an “email virgin” as I am new to this and certainly no “email junkie”, perhaps I need a good teacher or guide…

Like you, so far I have been more of a reader (some call it lurking, but I think reading is a more accurate description) than providing any real input, but I am trying to change this and let people know how I feel.

I already have loads of questions about you and your life, and everything that makes you tick, I will email you and see where you would like to start…

Cheers, M.

 

[mja003]

whoops sorry, duplicate post !!!

 

[mja003]

Hey Toydoc,

Many thanks for your guidance, it seems that I am about to take my first couple of steps… Watch this space and I will let you know how things go (but with no gory details I am afraid).

Thanks again, M.

 

[sexuallement_me]

Hey,
Yes, I have a boyfriend, and yeah we go under the same username. I tend to be the more creative one, the one better at expressing things in writing, so he tends to let me handle that part of it. I love all things creative too. I can write fairly well (you would never guess from these crappy notes would you!), however, unfortunately, my artistic abilities in drawing, painting, etc, are lacking, and I gave up piano (which I was okay at) due to a creativity-squashing teacher. So, occasionally I write, and I do creative food presentations (self-taught, just for fun, 'cause its something I can arrange).
Now, before I bore you to death (especially because I am not a single female, so you're not gonna get any sex from me, hehe) I'll say Adieu.
Thanks for the long explanation however, I've never heard it put that way, but it makes a lot of sense. The only sucky thing is that us "shy"er ones seem to inevitably be on the sidelines, even when sometimes you want to push yourself to the center of the dance floor. (Not that I do on lit, however, I enjoy my monogamy, hehe)
Floria

 

[LorriLove]

nice one mja, you seem to have found like minded friends already for a nice chat on here... it is difficult to strike a balance though... i'm a married woman who likes to flirt... i love a naughty chat with loads of sexual content when i'm in hot mode... but i also like a nice chat occassionally.. the naughty stuff is easy to find... the sensible stuff isn't... you see i'm not here to meet any one person in particular... just to make friends and chat... sometimes sesible, most times naughty, but just chat and confessions.

trouble is within half a dozen contacts, it's all when can we meet... show me loads of photo's of you... that's not good enough i want to see you naked... why won't you meet me... you're a fake cos you won't meet me, and cos you don't have pictures of your cunt... been there done it, seen it love... so many times i'm now a sceptic.

best of luck to you honey