Looking for a female partner to play with...

[dashriprock968]

First, a little about me. I'm a 39 y/o professional, married male living in Illinois. I'm 5'10", 220 lbs, brown hair, and brown eyes. What I lack in physique, I more than make up for in creativity.

My marriage is a happy one, with the slight exception that my partner has absolutely zero interest in indulging my BDSM fantasies. Hence, I'm posting here in the hopes of finding a willing female partner who understands my situation, and may herself be experiencing a smiliar sort of frustration. There's more to life than the bedroom, which is why I'm still married, but I find myself at a point where I'm no longer able to simply ignore this burning desire for exploration beyond "vanilla" encounters.

I consider myself very well-read on the topic of BDSM, but in all honesty, have no real life experience. I am equally intrigued by both sides of the equation and have established no clear preference for either role at this point. I can tell you that the more extreme aspects of BDSM (bloodplay, for example) hold little interest for me. I've often argued that the brain is the largest sexual organ we posess, and quite frankly, it's the power exchange that turns me on as much as the notion of the physical acts themselves.

So, without rambling further, if you're a female between the ages of 25 and 55 with a bent towards things BDSM (presumably, you are, if you're reading this), I'd really like to hear from you. I'm initially looking to limit things to online correspondence, but won't rule out other forms of communication if the chemistry is right.

Thanks for reading, and I hope to hear from you.

--Dash

 

[helen_a_prude]

First, a little about me. I'm a 39 y/o professional, married male living in Illinois. I'm 5'10", 220 lbs, brown hair, and brown eyes. What I lack in physique, I more than make up for in creativity.

My marriage is a happy one, with the slight exception that my partner has absolutely zero interest in indulging my BDSM fantasies. Hence, I'm posting here in the hopes of finding a willing female partner who understands my situation, and may herself be experiencing a smiliar sort of frustration. There's more to life than the bedroom, which is why I'm still married, but I find myself at a point where I'm no longer able to simply ignore this burning desire for exploration beyond "vanilla" encounters.

I consider myself very well-read on the topic of BDSM, but in all honesty, have no real life experience. I am equally intrigued by both sides of the equation and have established no clear preference for either role at this point. I can tell you that the more extreme aspects of BDSM (bloodplay, for example) hold little interest for me. I've often argued that the brain is the largest sexual organ we posess, and quite frankly, it's the power exchange that turns me on as much as the notion of the physical acts themselves.

So, without rambling further, if you're a female between the ages of 25 and 55 with a bent towards things BDSM (presumably, you are, if you're reading this), I'd really like to hear from you. I'm initially looking to limit things to online correspondence, but won't rule out other forms of communication if the chemistry is right.

Thanks for reading, and I hope to hear from you.

--Dash

hi I'm helen..........love to chat on line