Looking for a Collar for my girl

[DrYakatori]

Hey All! I am new and just made an account as i have been lurking for the longest time. I am looking for a semi-specific piece of gear, my girlfriend wants me to get her a collar that is kind of concealable more along the lines of a choker. It cant be leather so any suggestions would be helpful I don't know if im looking in the right place but all the help would be awsome!

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

A day collar can be anything you want it to be.
Mine is a silver, Tiffany necklace in the shape of a heart with a keyhole.
It doesn't have to be obviously a collar if you need it to pass in the vanilla world.

 

[gman1970]

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Hey All! I am new and just made an account as i have been lurking for the longest time. I am looking for a semi-specific piece of gear, my girlfriend wants me to get her a collar that is kind of concealable more along the lines of a choker. It cant be leather so any suggestions would be helpful I don't know if im looking in the right place but all the help would be awsome!

https://www.slaveregister.com/about/collars

Several options and links

 

[DearSunshine]

A day collar can be anything you want it to be.
Mine is a silver, Tiffany necklace in the shape of a heart with a keyhole.
It doesn't have to be obviously a collar if you need it to pass in the vanilla world.

Some very beautiful necklaces can pass, and still hold the significance that you wish them to! If you look for jewelry online, or go into a store, I'm sure you'd be able to find a nice looking choker. If you both wish for it to pass and be a day collar, then I think Sweetdaisymae has the right idea there! And her collar sounds beautiful!

 

[JustaSCOUNDREL]

You may want to look at some chain mail chains. There is a group of folks on Facebook who make chain mail jewelry in may different weaves and styles, many are very attractive, stylish and have no BDSM implication take a look there.

If you are thinking all chain mail is what you see in the movies you are wrong, very wrong. Much of what you see may even be knitted with yarn and may not be real mail.

There are several hundred different weaves made with jump rings, chain mail by definition, many are quite lovely, very attractive and relatively inexpensive.

What should be most important, in my opinion, is what it means you you and your sub and nothing else matters.

 

[sereneone4u]

Etsy has some great stuff

https://www.etsy.com/listing/178470143/garnet-necklace-in-solid-sterling-silver

more discreet.

less so

https://www.etsy.com/listing/202530213/made-to-order-7mm-wide-sterling-celtic?ref=related-4

A shop.

https://www.etsy.com/listing/109064856/made-to-order-twisted-tied-rope-motif?ref=favs_view_23

 

[Prince Albert]

Mine was a long distance internet relationship. I used a dragon "ear cuff" as her collar.

 

[Lilylovex64]

I've had to wear a webbed choker, it's not as obvious as wearing a leather collar but it still holds its value and I can wear daily. May not be her style but it worked for me.

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/59/ab/25/59ab2516d578d2c75cef9e1cbdab63c9.jpg

 

[Ubernaught]

Etsy has some great stuff

https://www.etsy.com/listing/178470143/garnet-necklace-in-solid-sterling-silver

more discreet.

less so

https://www.etsy.com/listing/202530213/made-to-order-7mm-wide-sterling-celtic?ref=related-4

A shop.

https://www.etsy.com/listing/109064856/made-to-order-twisted-tied-rope-motif?ref=favs_view_23

You aren't kidding...

 

[the captians wench]

My favorite collar that some one gave me was one he hand made out of bicycle spokes and closed with a little silver lock that has a "g" on it for my pet name.

Jounar likes to send me a necklace every year. I wear them constantly.

 

[box13]

I recently purchased one of these for my special girl:

http://shop.elegantcollars.com/Infinity-TM-Collar-InfinityCollar.htm

I guess I'm thinking long-term. She hasn't gotten it yet (sssshhhhhhh...don't tell) so I'll have to wait to find out what she thinks.

Like some of those Mockingbirdlane designs on Etsy though.

 

[SovereignShe]

I find the Cartier Love Bracelet to be exquisite and understated.

http://www.cartier.com/collections/jewelry/collections/love/love-bracelets/b6035716-love-bracelet

Price is high, find a knock off...there's plenty to choose from.

 

[justd2]

A choker sized neclace by Pandora, was the last one I ought, elegant, and can be worn in public. It can also be personalized. A collar is something for the two of you.it doesnt have to be a spectical for everyo e around you. The Dom and his sub or slave knows what it is and what it means to them.Thats all that matters.IMO.

 

[desertslave]

I find the Cartier Love Bracelet to be exquisite and understated.

http://www.cartier.com/collections/jewelry/collections/love/love-bracelets/b6035716-love-bracelet

Price is high, find a knock off...there's plenty to choose from.

That IS a stunner!

 

[Aurantica]

I got one of these as my day collar, and I love it!

https://www.wyredslave.com/componen...ust/by,product_price?Itemid=&filter_product=0

One caveat, though, I have a very slender neck and with the length of the clasp, it sometimes puts pressure on the front of my throat. Not a lot, but I still wouldnt like to wear it while sick.

 

[may_I_please]

I recently purchased one of these for my special girl:

http://shop.elegantcollars.com/Infinity-TM-Collar-InfinityCollar.htm

I guess I'm thinking long-term. She hasn't gotten it yet (sssshhhhhhh...don't tell) so I'll have to wait to find out what she thinks.

Like some of those Mockingbirdlane designs on Etsy though.

Oh my gosh, that first one is gorgeous

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