Looking for 21-45 year old men...

valiantly

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Looking for 21-35 year old men...

I'm an intelligent, educated 21 year old girl who's looking for a similarly well spoken man to share a few erotic emails or chats with.

I'm tired of trying to search for this in other places and only coming up with guys who just want an end result of a naked girl on cam at their disposal and use u and ur in speech. I want to be able to discuss and tease out the details of some of my fantasies and also someone elses. I have a very active imagination in terms of what I'd like to do someday from the lighthearted and fun to the dark and occasional random fetish; and I'd love to explore all of that with a man who's experienced, openminded, sexy and imaginative enough to help me. 21-30 is ideal, but anyone in the 35-45 bracket may be considered.

I have a cam which we MAY make use of eventually, but I make no promises since I've been burned before. This is purely for anonymous pleasure for me in the way you can use the written word and suggestion to turn me on, or vice versa. PM me if you're interested, and you know what they say about first impressions...

Please note: I am not looking for a "relationship" in the conventional sense of the term, nor do I want romantic attachment or an outlook to a long-term connection that is anything beyond purely sexual. If I do find someone that can satisfy all this, we'll definitely be able to have some fun for as long as you want.
 
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Edited to add: Please note: I am not looking for a "relationship" in the conventional sense of the term, nor do I want romantic attachment or an outlook to a long-term connection that is anything beyond purely sexual.
 
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valiantly said:
I'm an intelligent, educated 21 year old girl who's looking for a similarly well spoken man to share a few erotic emails or chats with.

I'm tired of trying to search for this in other places and only coming up with guys who just want an end result of a naked girl on cam at their disposal and use u and ur in speech. I want to be able to discuss and tease out the details of some of my fantasies and also someone elses. I have a very active imagination in terms of what I'd like to do someday from the lighthearted and fun to the dark and occasional random fetish; and I'd love to explore all of that with a man who's experienced, openminded, sexy and imaginative enough to help me. 21-30 is ideal, but anyone in the 35-45 bracket may be considered.

I have a cam which we MAY make use of eventually, but I make no promises since I've been burned before. This is purely for anonymous pleasure for me in the way you can use the written word and suggestion to turn me on, or vice versa. PM me if you're interested, and you know what they say about first impressions...

Please note: I am not looking for a "relationship" in the conventional sense of the term, nor do I want romantic attachment or an outlook to a long-term connection that is anything beyond purely sexual. If I do find someone that can satisfy all this, we'll definitely be able to have some fun for as long as you want.
 
Contact Me ~~~~

I would love to chat and help you explore all your FANTASIES ......
 
romance?

take a look at your PM from me. I am not looking for a "real romance", or "real relationship". But an online kind.. romance. relationship. I feel that everything is better when one is involved, not only intellectually, but the more senses that are involved, the better. Including sight, sounds, fragrances.. Even if not real.. that which can be transmitted with the written word.. Let the imaginations flow and expand.Yes, to "see, hear, smell, feel, experience" with words.. words can be very very powerful.
As I said, everything is better when there is an element of heart involved.. everyting.. and including, maybe especially eroticism.

Dave
 
Hi, Valiant,

Your post resonated within me in that I am sick of females asking the following:

(1) Hi?
(2) What are you wearing?
(3) Do you want to see my pic?
(4) Do you cyber?

So formulaic, don't you think?

I'd like to correspond with you to determine if we meet each other's expectations. I do not have a web cam an do not have a microphone. The power of the imagination in fueling a fantasy is much more powerful than an technological device.

That we will never meet in the 3-D flesh or talk on the phone is okay with me. I enjoy talking with intelligent women. That and a sense of humor are both aphrodisiacs to me.

The detractor is that I am 32, perhaps older than you would like. I am a "young" 32 (I tell myself), single, uninvolved and uncomplicated.

I am sorry that the Lit guys have been less than polite or willing to practice proper manners. I can say that I have encountered women of the same ilk.

Hope to hear from you,
Stephanos
 
hey there, drop me a line if interested

aim/yahoo- deathofasoul3
 
I haven't read through all the PMs I've received yet (and thank you to those who replied, I've talked to some lovely people so far), but it amazes me that in spite of what I wrote I still receive things like this:

"hey how r u? im [name removed/age removed]. i saw ur post and just wanted to see if u would be interested in chatting sometime. do u have aim, msn or yahoo? let me know hope to hear from u"

Honestly, if you obviously don't bother to read the damn post in the first place, why do you bother to respond? So much for first impressions! :rolleyes:
 
Billy_07 said:
r u talking abt me?

I deliberately removed names to ensure the privacy of the person referred to so as to save them embarassment if necessary, but no I was not quoting you there.
 
Ugh, I can't stand people who can't be bothered to type full words out, use punctuation, or look up words they're not sure on how to spell.

Call me a language nazi, or an elitist, but communication is important.
 
Lol..I think Billy was being sarcastic :). Good luck in your search, there are tons of wonderful people here, but it takes time and patience to find what you need.

If you ever feel like a bit of a chat mixed in with some flirting ot make you smile and blush, do drop me a hello.

Good luck
Enji


valiantly said:
I deliberately removed names to ensure the privacy of the person referred to so as to save them embarassment if necessary, but no I was not quoting you there.
 
@ SpectralDragon...

SpectralDragoon said:
Ugh, I can't stand people who can't be bothered to type full words out, use punctuation, or look up words they're not sure on how to spell.

Call me a language nazi, or an elitist, but communication is important.
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r u talking abt me?

i m tired writing full words [i used 2 do it somemonths ago,]cause even then i know the outcome, that she'll say good luck in ur search :D

No hard feelings, or negative thinking at all,

@Enji thanks for giving me cover fire :D
 
Billy_07 said:
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r u talking abt me?

i m tired writing full words [i used 2 do it somemonths ago,]cause even then i know the outcome, that she'll say good luck in ur search :D

No hard feelings, or negative thinking at all,

@Enji thanks for giving me cover fire :D


How can you say that is not negative thinking?
 
@Dragon...

its NOT negative thinking,

because i m still alive and mass messeging to every lady ad in my sight, AND,

its NOT negative thinking because i did replied to her like a gentleman, despite of the fact that i knew the outcome.

when u know the outcome its not the negative thinking but the courage to move on with the bitter outcomes you're already aware of. :D
 
Billy_07 said:
its NOT negative thinking,

because i m still alive and mass messeging to every lady ad in my sight, AND,

You completely lost my attention by that line, buddy. Hope your "positive thinking" finds you what you're looking for with someone, because if you don't pay attention to what's wanted before mass messaging ads, it's extremely unlikely that you'll get the response that you appear to be hoping for.

Also, an addendum with regards to some extremely crude messages I've recieved, I would ask that if you're not seriously interested in making a good impression, please do NOT bother PMing me. Thank you.
 
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Hi There

Hows it going. if you are interested you can mail me at yahoo.com.au be glad to swap mails with you
 
@Valienty.....

valiantly said:
You completely lost my attention by that line, buddy. Hope your "positive thinking" finds you what you're looking for with someone, because if you don't pay attention to what's wanted before mass messaging ads, it's extremely unlikely that you'll get the response that you appear to be hoping for.


I wasn't talking with u dear, i was talking to Dragon,
since i already knew that u don't have to time for me,[u've been online since a long time but haven't yet replied or said anything WRT my pm, so its a clear indication i don't have ur attention, which i knew already even b4 u said,]
i only posted here, cause Drangon had asked me. :D
 
@mineman 61

mineman61 said:
Hows it going. if you are interested you can mail me at yahoo.com.au be glad to swap mails with you


u heard the lady,

Honestly, if you obviously don't bother to read the damn post in the first place, why do you bother to respond? So much for first impressions! :D
 
Billy_07 said:
I wasn't talking with u dear, i was talking to Dragon,
since i already knew that u don't have to time for me,[u've been online since a long time but haven't yet replied or said anything WRT my pm, so its a clear indication i don't have ur attention, which i knew already even b4 u said,]
i only posted here, cause Drangon had asked me. :D

I hadn't even been able to read your PM yet because I am going in order and have a few more to get through, so I'll thank you not to assume things on my behalf. If you are so convinced that I wouldn't have been interested in the first place, I still fail to understand why you even bothered to send me a PM to begin with. Nevertheless, your conduct in this thread has pretty much ruined any chance of catching any positive attention from me regardless, so I suppose your intuition was correct in that regard.
 
morning! Would love to chat some time and get to know each other, sound like a fun interesting gal! Ill drop a PM let me know if you would like to chat sometime!!
 
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