Looking around (35/m/CA, not that it matters)

[Tach]

I'm looking for friends, lovers, acquaintances and associates to chat with about erotic topics. I'm a newbie to the board, and the best way to get involved is to get involved, right? With someone, preferably several people, right, right? Nudge nudge, wink wink, say no more, say no more?

I'm just basically looking for a willing female to be my guide to Literotica in general, both the stories as in writing them and the board as in making friends and influencing people. I've never written a serious erotic story, but I've always felt I could do pretty well, get some cocks hard and women wet. So I'm interesting in pursuing that, and a few friends to guide me and talk with me would probably do wonders for my ability to get the deed accomplished.

I've got a wide variety of erotic interests, and varied passions, too many to list here, but suffice to say, they are broad and accessible, so we'll never lack for anything to talk about, I'm sure.

...Oh, all right! You DON'T have to be female to be my guide to Literotica. But it would be an extra thrill for me!

Hope to hear from everybody soon.

 

[Nymphonan]

From one newbie to another

I am also a newbie to the posting end of this site and since I posted a similar request looking for people to talk with and no one replied to my post. I figured I would reply to yours so you would not feel sad too. I have done a lot of reading on Literotica, a fair amount of writing of erotic stories for my own pleasure or the pleasure of a chosen few and have just submitted my first story here and am waiting to hear whether or not they will except it. I probably can't "Guide" you much and am an "Older Woman" but would still enjoy making new friends. Have fun here and enjoy!

 

[Tach]

Thank you Nymphonan!

Wow, one reply, and it's yours, Nymphonan! I think I should value you, because you might be all I'm going to get! It was very nice to see your response to my post, and it makes me feel all warm and snuggly... Thanks!

What exactly qualifies as an "older woman"? I'm one of those guys who quite frequently finds older women hot! I have certain specific biological biases, but age doesn't mean that much to me.

It's all in the heart, my fair lady! My theory is that if you think you're sexy, you are, ta dah! Yeah, a good body is all well and good but I haven't got one, so I have to make up for it with a stunning personality. And more importantly, I have to leave room for others to do the same.

So I can't wait to read your stories! What kind are they? Would you like to email me a few? I need to start writing, I really do...

 

[Nymphonan]

What exactly qualifies as an "older woman"?

Well.... since your profile doesn't give your age and the average age around here seems to be that of most of my children LOL. I suppose that "older woman" is a perspective thing isn't it. As a starting point, I was making an assumption about you based on that "average age". I am 43 this next week.

I know that "warm fuzzy feeling" you were referring to! I posted an introduction myself last night and also experienced that feeling when I came here tonight and saw that I had several posts on my thread.

I will add you to my "friends" list in here if that is ok and let you know if any of my stories are accepted. They are a range of catagories. Many of them have tend to lean towards the dom/sub genre, but not as far that direction as most of the stories here go. I think it more of passive/assertive. I don't know lol. I think this comes from the fact that for the last 16 years I was married to a man that so totally sexually passive that I fantisize and desire a man that is more willing to take some control in the sexual areas. But I am not talking about the whole BDSM lifestyle, that goes a little farther than my stories and my fantasies.

As far as emailing you some of my stories.... the only one that is ready for viewing by anyone else (LOL) is the one that I have submitted to Lit. Wish me luck and if they accept it, I hope you like it! If they dont accept it, I would be happy to share it with you via email.

 

[Tach]

*grins*

Check the topic title for my age, it's right up there. So you're not terribly older than I am!

Yes, I need to post some more information about myself if I'm going to be taken seriously, but I always get shy just at the last minute.

Not that I'm terribly shy, but it's nice to have a reason to put my details up there, as in friends who are interested in knowing those details.

 

[Nymphonan]

OOPS!

Sorry, how did I miss that? lol

I could blame it on being blonde, but that would be a lie.
I could blame it on senility, but that to would be a lie.
I guess I can only blame it oversight and beg forgiveness! LOL!

I can relate to finding it difficult to know what to put in your profile however. Not knowing what to say about yourself or not knowing how much information to divulge can be hard. But there are some of us out here who would be interested in whatever information you would be willing to share about yourself.

 

[Tach]

Your wish is my command!

I have just now added some real meat to my profile, check it out!

 

[Nymphonan]

Checked out the update on your profile!

Now I have a question -

"A great pair of breasts can stop my heart at 40 paces. "

How do you define a "great pair of breasts"?

This could rule me out depending on your definition lol!

 

[Tach]

A great pair of breasts

The greatest pair of breasts are the two that I can get my hands on, of course! As for what I like, I like full and large. I like a woman's breasts to noticeably overhang her stomach, the farther, the better. As to what I prefer: Overlarge, really. Massively giganti-enormous? Definitely, hehe.

But seriously Nymphonan, that's just what I find _physically_ attractive in a woman. What really matters is what's inside of her. Yeah, yeah, it sounds cliche, like "size doesn't matter" (ha, what a joke!) or "I like a man for his heart, not his body" (you're killing me here, lol!)

But when it comes to a woman, what I want is someone sane, loving, cheerful; steady as a rock, with an open heart. That matters WAAAAY beyond a hot bod or massive tits. You can buy triple-D breasts or go to the gym, but the smile and dedication of love is something that can't be cultured. So, in short, that's what I value the most.

As for your breasts, specifically, I'd have to see a picture or three. tachchan@hotmail.com, if you would like to volunteer them for judgement? Or just send along your story! I want to read it, really!

 

[PtyLips]

A warm welcome

Hi Tach,

a warm welocme to the board. I've been a member for quite a while, but just recently got the courage up to post again. There seem to be a lot of nice people around here and I am certain you'll make friends in no time. I am always intimidated by their insight, experience and knowledge, but you seem seem to fit right in.

Good luck on finding that Guide of yours.

PtyLips

 

[Nymphonan]

Ruled out by definition

If you are looking for:

"full and large. I like a woman's breasts to noticeably overhang her stomach, the farther, the better. As to what I prefer: Overlarge, really. Massively giganti-enormous"

Guess that rules me out as your perfect woman

I have aplied for the title of "Queen of the Itty Bitty Titty Club" LOL

At the risk of being thought of as conceited....

In response to the rest of your definition - "what I want is someone sane, loving, cheerful; steady as a rock, with an open heart. That matters WAAAAY beyond a hot bod or massive tits."

Sane? well, I guess the jury is still out on that one, some might say I am, others might say I'm not, but I am not ready for a padded cell yet LOL
Loving? most definately!
steady as a rock? in some areas of my life yes and in other areas no. But even the strongest rock can be crushed by the elements in the wind and the rain!
Open heart? Without a doubt!

 

[Tach]

Thanks for the warm welcome!

Thanks for the warm welcome, Ptylips! I take it you're not volunteering to be my guide? Ah shucks. *snaps his fingers*

All I'm looking for, truly, is someone to talk erotic literature with, someone who's an avid reader of Literotica output who discuss with me the recent trends, acceptance of different kinks, what kinds of story hooks work and which ones fail, how to balance the porn and character/scene development for maximum pleasure.

Basically, someone who has read a lot and now wants to talk about what they've read. I tend to search by genre, look for particular fetishes when I'm in the mood for X or Y, I don't read chronologically. Hehe, I guess I want to meet someone more compulsive about erotic lit than I am.

We're not even talking relationship matters here. Being that I'm unattached, not even a girlfriend right now, OF COURSE I'm looking for a relationship. But the purpose of this thread was to find someone to discuss erotic lit with.

 

[PtyLips]

Re: Thanks for the warm welcome!

Originally posted by Tach
Thanks for the warm welcome, Ptylips! I take it you're not volunteering to be my guide? Ah shucks. *snaps his fingers*

Oh Tach...Never said that... A as an peace offer. I would never turn down such a privilege. Just don't know if I would be fit to meet the requirements.

All I'm looking for, truly, is someone to talk erotic literature with, someone who's an avid reader of Literotica output who discuss with me the recent trends, acceptance of different kinks, what kinds of story hooks work and which ones fail, how to balance the porn and character/scene development for maximum pleasure.

One is for sure...I read quite a few over the years. And am interested in writing too. So who knows, maybe we can help each other

Relationship? Oh yes...I remeber...I was in a few...boy did some of those suck...but then some didn't
Well, feel free to PM me or drop me an email. Who knows...

PtyLips

 

[Tach]

So, I still haven't seen your story in my inbox, Nymphonan!

I haven't forgotten about you, Nymphonan! First off, where do the stories come out once they're approved? I'm interested in reading your story, but you haven't emailed it to me yet, and I don't know where to look to see if it's going to come out.

 

[Nymphonan]

Check your email!

I sent the story to you!! Check your email. If it doesn't show up, let me know and I will try again! Happy reading! Hope you enjoy!

 

[Nymphonan]

No reply? Did you get the story yet?

 

[SexGuyAZ]

Just dropping by saying hi and welcoming to Lit, from your friendly neighbor up in Washington (gosh it's still cold here ). Enjoy the place. Endless amounts of information!

 

[Nymphonan]

Dropping by is no understatement

Just dropping by saying hi and welcoming to Lit, from your friendly neighbor up in Washington (gosh it's still cold here ). Enjoy the place. Endless amounts of information!

Boy that was quick you were online and offline before I had a chance to say Hi! also from WA. and you're right it is very chilly tonight. Had to come in here to warm up.

The more you disapprove, the more fun it is for me!

 

[SexGuyAZ]

Re: Dropping by is no understatement

Boy that was quick you were online and offline before I had a chance to say Hi! also from WA. and you're right it is very chilly tonight. Had to come in here to warm up.

Yea it is . I have a knack of keeping my window open too so it's worse that way. I'm cold with no slippers (I need new ones ) talkng to friends in California where it's WARM!!

 

[Nymphonan]

Sexguy I have a question

Is the picture in your avatar a picture of you or is it someone else?

 

[SexGuyAZ]

If that was me, I wouldn't be cold right now I would be wrapped up with my numerous lady friends . No, it's an old avatar an old friend gave me and have kept it since. She was very generous to pick it out saying it looked like me (no way in my opinion) so I decided to keep it in honor and thanks of her kind words .