lonely

[Willing and Unsure]

i really hate feeling lonely... especially since i have for awhile...

 

[Weevil]

It's why I stay up to 4:30 in the morning so often.

 

[april-wine]

hugssssssssssssssssss willing........and soft wet smooooooooooches....everyone feels lonely....come and look me up sometime we'll talk drink coffee, paint our toenails......

 

[Silverlily]

you all are bumming me out

How's you ankle, btw?

 

[MysteryJKR]

willing sweets! *hugs willing tight and licks her face all over* hehe

 

[Willing and Unsure]

EBW.. i stay up late to try avoiding crying myself to sleep at night (even though i'm not that successful at it most of the time)

April-Wine.. i think i will take you up on that eventually... coffee and nailpolish... two great drugs at the same time

and Kitten Eyes... my ankle is still sore and swollen... but for some reason, the more i keep it up, the less it hurts even though its the same size it was yesterday still

 

[JenJ]

Yep and I'll join the coffee and nailpolish party so we can have a nice little party that way you aren't lonely.

Crying yourself to sleep isn't good at all. Big hugssssssss.

 

[Silverlily]

Keeping a warm compress on your ankle with help the sweeling go down. The elavation takes pressure off of the injury, lessening the pain.

There's nothing wrong with a good cry. When you feel yourself getting overwhelmed, set a time limit. Let yourself cry for five or ten minutes, then stop and tell yourself you are not going to think about it anymore tonight. It takes a bit to get the hang of it, but it works.

((hugs))

 

[Weevil]

EBW.. i stay up late to try avoiding crying myself to sleep at night (even though i'm not that successful at it most of the time)

I just stay awake so I can see Erin when she gets in from work at 5 in the morning. I get lonely.

But I guess my pain is the molehill here. Sorry Babes. EBW loves ya if it's any consolation.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

thanx guys... and gals.... i just dont like feeling this way.. and i dont know what to do about it anymore.. and with my ankle the way it is, i cant do much besides sit at home and think about how i'm feeling


oh well... not trying to depress anyone tonite... but its time for me to get some sleep.. goodnight y'all

 

[Guest]

i really hate feeling lonely... especially since i have for awhile...

I know what you mean.

 

[Morden]

<comes in and hugs Tiggs and Willing>

"Loneliness, such a evil consort. The tease that never leaves you wanting, beacuse it just never leaves. Its temptation a kin to that of a slow dieing skunk, and just as hard to get rid of. Don't worry as little as it means we are all here with you."

<smiles warmly and kisses you both on the nose>

 

[MysteryJKR]

thanx guys... and gals.... i just dont like feeling this way.. and i dont know what to do about it anymore.. and with my ankle the way it is, i cant do much besides sit at home and think about how i'm feeling


oh well... not trying to depress anyone tonite... but its time for me to get some sleep.. goodnight y'all

Willing you know i know how ya feel hun. *hugs you tight*
Im sorry ive been keepin low lately for a similar reason.

But i hope your ok. we all care about ya. *kisses ankle, then your cheek*

 

[Angelus]

Being lonely positively sucks.... I mean there is nothing worse than being alone in this world. You really don't need someone else in this world, no wait- that's wrong, what I meant to say is you don't need them but it is good to have someone to share your life and times with. But then again I have someone and I'm still lonely, life is just not fair sometimes so I know how you feel Willing.

*Gives Willing a big hug*

Hope you feel better soon.

 

[TinaG13]

Yes. Loniless is one of the most terrible feelings on earth. I have definately experienced too much of it in my life. The really bad part is when you are in a room full of ppl, yet you still feel alone....

Thank goodness, I no longer feel that way! Now, I can be totally alone and still not feel lonely. I hope your lonliness vanishes soon, Willing.....

 

[unusuallyconfused]

Oh, sweet W&U. You are so terrific and have probably the sweetest personality on the board. I hope you feel better soon. Someone will be thrilled to be your friend, you are such a good one. Just wait and see........soon. You are really a wonderful person. (Did I tell you I'm an optimist)

Hugs for right now and I know everyone here thinks you are wonderful..........so you are NOT alone even when you FEEL you are.

I remember someone saying that just because you FEEL a certain way, dosn't necessarily mean its true. The feeling part sucks, but that statement was profound for me.

 

[Guest]

Good lord, you are quite the drama queen here of late.

AND IT IS GETTING VERY BORING!

Not getting enough attention on your own merits? So now you have to play on the sympathies of the people here at the BB? Does it make you feel validated or what when you get all that caring and concerned advice?


"I'm bored."

"I'm lonely."

"I'm bored."

"I hurt myself, but I won't see a doctor about it."

Boo-fucking-hoo.


You must be the star of the "me,me,me" generation. BORING!



Get your act together! And stop the pissing and moaning every single time you come here. Get laid. Put on a happy face. Be pleasant for fucks sake.

 

[unusuallyconfused]

Good lord, you are quite the drama queen here of late.

AND IT IS GETTING VERY BORING!

Not getting enough attention on your own merits? So now you have to play on the sympathies of the people here at the BB? Does it make you feel validated or what when you get all that caring and concerned advice?
Get your act together! And stop the pissing and moaning every single time you come here. Get laid. Put on a happy face. Be pleasant for fucks sake.

Forgive me for the interruption, but isn't this place in many ways a true friendship of people. If it is and someone is feeling down, I would want to comfort them. I like people regardless of their down days. So, if you don't like it, don't fucking read her threads.
Some people go through a very bad time and they have no one else. I don't mind encouraging someone down in the dumps. Why do you have a problem with that?

 

[Guest]

Forgive me for the interruption, but isn't this place in many ways a true friendship of people. If it is and someone is feeling down, I would want to comfort them. I like people regardless of their down days. So, if you don't like it, don't fucking read her threads.
Some people go through a very bad time and they have no one else. I don't mind encouraging someone down in the dumps. Why do you have a problem with that?

A true friendship will even have it's ups and downs to be sure. This person is taxing the limits of downers though. And we are not talking the occassional down day. This is weeks with no apparent hope for a rebound.

Every thread that she starts here of recent is a "pity me " thread.

Obviously she is free to post whatever she wants to.

Sometimes though the truest friendship is displayed by an act of tough love. Maybe it will work, maybe not. Encouragement is one thing, becoming a crutch is quite another.

Think about it.

 

[unusuallyconfused]

A true friendship will even have it's ups and downs to be sure. This person is taxing the limits of downers though. And we are not talking the occassional down day. This is weeks with no apparent hope for a rebound.

Every thread that she starts here of recent is a "pity me " thread.

Obviously she is free to post whatever she wants to.

Sometimes though the truest friendship is displayed by an act of tough love. Maybe it will work, maybe not. Encouragement is one thing, becoming a crutch is quite another.

Think about it.

Allright, you have some valid points. I will definately think about it.

 

[His Whimsicality]

thanx guys... and gals.... i just dont like feeling this way.. and i dont know what to do about it anymore.. and with my ankle the way it is, i cant do much besides sit at home and think about how i'm feeling


oh well... not trying to depress anyone tonite... but its time for me to get some sleep.. goodnight y'all

Just get up (no allusion to your ankle) and do something (in real life, I might add)- stop thinking about your current state if it doesn´t make you happy. Crying yourself to sleep is not that bad, you can let the tension go this way.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

A true friendship will even have it's ups and downs to be sure. This person is taxing the limits of downers though. And we are not talking the occassional down day. This is weeks with no apparent hope for a rebound.

Every thread that she starts here of recent is a "pity me " thread.

Obviously she is free to post whatever she wants to.

Sometimes though the truest friendship is displayed by an act of tough love. Maybe it will work, maybe not. Encouragement is one thing, becoming a crutch is quite another.

Think about it.

obviously you dont read all of my threads. i will agree that some of my threads are caused by my moods. but the way i see it, i'd rather start my own depressing thread (since that's how i feel) to get some good advice and opinions then to mess with everyone else's threads and be annoying within their threads. so, if you still have a problem with my threads, STAY OUT OF THEM!!!!

 

[unusuallyconfused]

I'm still with you W&U. I would give you a hug if I could. I think its nice to count on others to lift you up when you are down. (Hugs)

 

[willywanker]

obviously you dont read all of my threads. i will agree that some of my threads are caused by my moods. but the way i see it, i'd rather start my own depressing thread (since that's how i feel) to get some good advice and opinions then to mess with everyone else's threads and be annoying within their threads. so, if you still have a problem with my threads, STAY OUT OF THEM!!!!

You tell 'em Willing.

(and a big tight hug and a gentle kiss on the cheek as I exit.)

Things will turn around. Trust an old fart thats been there more than once. Til then, lean on us.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

thanx everyone... the help and support is needed, and greatly appreciated... hopefully i'll be feelin better bout everything soon