I'm in an unusual situation. I spend most of my days alone at home. It's the nature of my job. Five years ago, I left the office world and my job has evolved to a point where I don't get much personal contact on a day to day basis.
It's not something that I sought nor planned on. It sort of snuck up on me.
My wife spends most of her days dealing with lots of people. At the end of the day, she wants to have lots of quiet time and I want to spend lots of time with her.
It's unreasonable and unfair for me to have only one person in the world that I relate to on a regular basis. That's too much to ask for from one person, even a loving wife.
I need to get out more and spend time with friends during the day. Unfortunately, most of my current friends have "day jobs".
So, I'm ISO a female friend to spend time with, perhaps online or perhaps in person.
Why female? I prefer the company of women to that of men. I don't get into "guy stuff" like sports etc. Also, men don't generally spend a lot of time talking to each other.
Besides... I like women.
I'm very flexible about the kind of friendship or relationship. It really depends on the friend. I'm open to online only or meeting in person or both.
I can be physical but don't need to be. I get plenty of sex at home. On the other hand, I like the feeling of physical closeness and intimacy with or without getting naked.
It's a two-way street. I want to *be* a friend as much as I want to *have* a friend. A big part of friendship is feeling like I make a difference in a friend's life.
Who am I looking for in a woman friend? Primarily someone with compassion, intellect and a strong will; someone who challenges me and doesn't feel the need to pretend that she's not as smart as the man she's talking to; someone who is willing to be either stong or vulnerable whenever she damn well feels like it.
Physical characteristics aren't all that important. Of course, I'm a man and I like looking at beautiful women but I can usually find physical beauty in a woman if I like her mind.
Just to be clear, I really am looking for a friend. I'm not going to leave my wife. I'm not looking for an affair and I'm not "cheating".
If you are a woman and you would like to pursue a friendship with someone who isn't just looking to get laid, please consider PMing me or posting here. Thanks for reading...
It's not something that I sought nor planned on. It sort of snuck up on me.
My wife spends most of her days dealing with lots of people. At the end of the day, she wants to have lots of quiet time and I want to spend lots of time with her.
It's unreasonable and unfair for me to have only one person in the world that I relate to on a regular basis. That's too much to ask for from one person, even a loving wife.
I need to get out more and spend time with friends during the day. Unfortunately, most of my current friends have "day jobs".
So, I'm ISO a female friend to spend time with, perhaps online or perhaps in person.
Why female? I prefer the company of women to that of men. I don't get into "guy stuff" like sports etc. Also, men don't generally spend a lot of time talking to each other.
Besides... I like women.
I'm very flexible about the kind of friendship or relationship. It really depends on the friend. I'm open to online only or meeting in person or both.
I can be physical but don't need to be. I get plenty of sex at home. On the other hand, I like the feeling of physical closeness and intimacy with or without getting naked.
It's a two-way street. I want to *be* a friend as much as I want to *have* a friend. A big part of friendship is feeling like I make a difference in a friend's life.
Who am I looking for in a woman friend? Primarily someone with compassion, intellect and a strong will; someone who challenges me and doesn't feel the need to pretend that she's not as smart as the man she's talking to; someone who is willing to be either stong or vulnerable whenever she damn well feels like it.
Physical characteristics aren't all that important. Of course, I'm a man and I like looking at beautiful women but I can usually find physical beauty in a woman if I like her mind.
Just to be clear, I really am looking for a friend. I'm not going to leave my wife. I'm not looking for an affair and I'm not "cheating".
If you are a woman and you would like to pursue a friendship with someone who isn't just looking to get laid, please consider PMing me or posting here. Thanks for reading...
