lonely in atlanta
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Congrats for graduation 
fille said:
i am into older women who know how to spice things up. being in the "bible belt," it seems like things are pretty repressed around here. where are all the kinky women who know how to satisfy a demented young bastard like me??? ive tried alot, and am willing to give anything a shot. any suggestions?
cryingalien
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Until this year my fantasy was very similair to what you are seeking. Then I finally got what I always wanted and it was a nightmare! I think in retrospect that it was more about the woman then getting what I wished for. The point of this is that make sure this what you want so that when you get it you can enjoy it to the max.
That being said I found the woman through a more traditional on-line dating service- e.g. match.com. We met casually, had great conversations and when we had established some trust her kinky side became very much a part of how she interacted with me.
I hope this was not a downer. Just some personal wisdom for you to take or leave as you want. Good luck and happy hunting.
Cryingalien
That being said I found the woman through a more traditional on-line dating service- e.g. match.com. We met casually, had great conversations and when we had established some trust her kinky side became very much a part of how she interacted with me.
I hope this was not a downer. Just some personal wisdom for you to take or leave as you want. Good luck and happy hunting.
Cryingalien
overstand said:
According to my hubby, who was single in Atlanta for many, many years, the really kinky older women are the ones you least suspect, like the school teachers. You will probably have more luck in more traditional forums if that's what you are after.
btw, there's older, and then there's older. I'm probably old enough to be your mother.
hmm....
typical of the area, closet freaks galore. btw, from my experience the preacher's daughter takes the cake! i suppose the problem is finding a woman that is very mentally mature and also sexually adventurous. i also find myself to be very attracted to women that are several years my senior. old enough to be my mother or to teach a young, verile man a few things?
traditional forums? where?
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typical of the area, closet freaks galore. btw, from my experience the preacher's daughter takes the cake! i suppose the problem is finding a woman that is very mentally mature and also sexually adventurous. i also find myself to be very attracted to women that are several years my senior. old enough to be my mother or to teach a young, verile man a few things?
traditional forums? where?
~o~
fille said:
overstand said:
Someone earlier mentioned traditional online dating services, and that might be a place to start. My husband had quite a bit of luck taking those evening at Emory courses - apparently there were about 5 or 6 women to every man.
What are you interested in learning? I don't do anything without my husband.
hmm....
evening at emory, huh? i looked it over and the courses look like fun. not to mention the potential to meet people more like me. thanks for the advice. traditional online dating services havent worked as of yet, but im too afraid to post a pic due to the possibility of friends seeing it. also, ive only been using free sites. maybe i should coyboy up and use one of the pay sites to weed out the dregs and lower the possibilities of being ridiculed by the fellas!
i'd love to learn everything you can teach me. i consider myself to be experienced but would like to push the envelope. ive had a mmf before and wouldnt mind doing it again. questions? comments? queries?
fille said:
evening at emory, huh? i looked it over and the courses look like fun. not to mention the potential to meet people more like me. thanks for the advice. traditional online dating services havent worked as of yet, but im too afraid to post a pic due to the possibility of friends seeing it. also, ive only been using free sites. maybe i should coyboy up and use one of the pay sites to weed out the dregs and lower the possibilities of being ridiculed by the fellas!
i'd love to learn everything you can teach me. i consider myself to be experienced but would like to push the envelope. ive had a mmf before and wouldnt mind doing it again. questions? comments? queries?
bamagirl00
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don't give up hope trust me i know there are freaks in atlanta both men and female just be patient and you will find someone who peaks your interest. Congrats on the graduation thing btw.
Atlanta suggestions
Being an Atlantan boy for many, many moons (since I was three), I think I can probably offer at least a few suggestions.
I'm no longer single, but I have many a friend who still roams the lonely halls. Obviously, clubs will always be a first option. Unfortunately, being outta college, you're probably poorer than most of the bums hanging around Ponce. Money, granted, isn't everything and a truly good romance will be oblivious to social standing. But needless to say, money helps because it promotes an image.
As for older women (and I share this attraction with you), there are places in Atlanta where the older, single crowd mingles. Ironically, I have a mother is out and having a wild time. Strangely, I've become the fuddle-dud now about her partying habits, but that's another story. (Prejudice aside, my mom is actually very attractive, so if you take my suggestion, go to these clubs and do meet her one weekend, stay away or you'll deal with me).
Anyway, she's in her late 50's and that crowd (40plus) tends to go to one of a few bars in Atlanta: The most popular is Johnny's Hideaway. It's actually a great club, even for the times I've been there with her partying (I even met former Journey frontman Steve Perry there once). And it's a nice change from the monotomous droning of house music at most clubs. The ladies like to dance slow and close and they're always looking.
Nearby is Carbos, a piano bar. Again a big hangout with the babyboomer crowd. But there's very little to no dancing. Just a bunch of people hanging around a baby grand singing and drinking (kinda like a certain Billy Joel song).
The Ritz Carlton in Buckhead bar is always a huge hangout, particularly after 11 p.m. Unfortunately for you, this is where the money issue comes in. This is the hangout for single (or even not-so-single) executives. Lots of eye candy comes here, but I tend to have a name for them: Gold diggers.
For a good mix of people, there's always Bellbottoms in Buckhead. They favor the dance music of the 70's and 80's; so really it's a crowd anywhere from the late 20's to upper 40's.
If you want to flash your intellect (as the studly college grad that you are), then I suggest late nights at Cafe Intermezzo in Buckhead or the Buckhead Barnes & Noble. Like any good grocery store, both are excellent "meat markets," to be crude. But I like them because you can impress girls with wit over looks.
Finally, for the 30-plus crowd, there's the clubs along Crescent Avenue in Midtown: Front Page News, Leopard Lounge and Nomenclature mainly. This is currently my hangout, but simply because it's where many of my clients prefer to go to drink after work.
Also in Midtown is Tavern on the Green, a great bar/restaurant bordering Piedmont Park. It's been around for many years, but my wife and I recently discovered it and it's our new favorite hangout. Again, it's one of those places that attracts everyone from the late 20's to 50's. And it's pretty monied. But it's fun, and a popular neighborhood hangout. What's even better is the waitress who is the spitting image of Jodie Foster (except with blonde hair). I'd never tell her, but she just melts my heart. I'm in puppy love with her (much to my wife's chagrin).
If you're partial to the suburbs (and soccer moms on a night out with friends), there's Wild Bills in Duluth. Yes, it's a country bar, and yes it's very cheesy. But being one of the few country bars left in the south, it's a novelty and a popular place for suburban women on a night out.
Okay, that about wraps the mature hangouts of Atlanta, at least of the ones I know of. Good luck and remember the best piece of advice I ever heard: If you succeed in seducing an attractive older lady, remember to post your pictures on literotica.
What am I saying? Shame on me. That's just disgusting and immoral.......
Being an Atlantan boy for many, many moons (since I was three), I think I can probably offer at least a few suggestions.
I'm no longer single, but I have many a friend who still roams the lonely halls. Obviously, clubs will always be a first option. Unfortunately, being outta college, you're probably poorer than most of the bums hanging around Ponce. Money, granted, isn't everything and a truly good romance will be oblivious to social standing. But needless to say, money helps because it promotes an image.
As for older women (and I share this attraction with you), there are places in Atlanta where the older, single crowd mingles. Ironically, I have a mother is out and having a wild time. Strangely, I've become the fuddle-dud now about her partying habits, but that's another story. (Prejudice aside, my mom is actually very attractive, so if you take my suggestion, go to these clubs and do meet her one weekend, stay away or you'll deal with me).
Anyway, she's in her late 50's and that crowd (40plus) tends to go to one of a few bars in Atlanta: The most popular is Johnny's Hideaway. It's actually a great club, even for the times I've been there with her partying (I even met former Journey frontman Steve Perry there once). And it's a nice change from the monotomous droning of house music at most clubs. The ladies like to dance slow and close and they're always looking.
Nearby is Carbos, a piano bar. Again a big hangout with the babyboomer crowd. But there's very little to no dancing. Just a bunch of people hanging around a baby grand singing and drinking (kinda like a certain Billy Joel song).
The Ritz Carlton in Buckhead bar is always a huge hangout, particularly after 11 p.m. Unfortunately for you, this is where the money issue comes in. This is the hangout for single (or even not-so-single) executives. Lots of eye candy comes here, but I tend to have a name for them: Gold diggers.
For a good mix of people, there's always Bellbottoms in Buckhead. They favor the dance music of the 70's and 80's; so really it's a crowd anywhere from the late 20's to upper 40's.
If you want to flash your intellect (as the studly college grad that you are), then I suggest late nights at Cafe Intermezzo in Buckhead or the Buckhead Barnes & Noble. Like any good grocery store, both are excellent "meat markets," to be crude. But I like them because you can impress girls with wit over looks.
Finally, for the 30-plus crowd, there's the clubs along Crescent Avenue in Midtown: Front Page News, Leopard Lounge and Nomenclature mainly. This is currently my hangout, but simply because it's where many of my clients prefer to go to drink after work.
Also in Midtown is Tavern on the Green, a great bar/restaurant bordering Piedmont Park. It's been around for many years, but my wife and I recently discovered it and it's our new favorite hangout. Again, it's one of those places that attracts everyone from the late 20's to 50's. And it's pretty monied. But it's fun, and a popular neighborhood hangout. What's even better is the waitress who is the spitting image of Jodie Foster (except with blonde hair). I'd never tell her, but she just melts my heart. I'm in puppy love with her (much to my wife's chagrin).
If you're partial to the suburbs (and soccer moms on a night out with friends), there's Wild Bills in Duluth. Yes, it's a country bar, and yes it's very cheesy. But being one of the few country bars left in the south, it's a novelty and a popular place for suburban women on a night out.
Okay, that about wraps the mature hangouts of Atlanta, at least of the ones I know of. Good luck and remember the best piece of advice I ever heard: If you succeed in seducing an attractive older lady, remember to post your pictures on literotica.
What am I saying? Shame on me. That's just disgusting and immoral.......
tnhotcouple
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Try calling Lava Life. When I was single I met a ton of sexy women in Atlanta. Had some very exiting times and eventually married someone I met there. It's easy to arrange to meet for a drink and see if you like each other and then, if so, do as you please. Easy to get laid there. Call 404-302-0444. I hope it's ok to post the #. Good Hunting.
Try calling Lava Life. When I was single I met a ton of sexy women in Atlanta. Had some very exiting times and eventually married someone I met there. It's easy to arrange to meet for a drink and see if you like each other and then, if so, do as you please. Easy to get laid there. Call 404-302-0444. I hope it's ok to post the #. Good Hunting.
very nice
cheesy, youre the man! seems like ive found someone with all the information i need to go wreak some havoc in my own special way. yeah... like i said, i know how to have a good time. got several of the ex's on the digicam and wouldnt mind logging a few new ones. depending on how it goes, and with their permission (of course) i may need to start a new thread.
tn, lava life huh? ive heard of it but never considered it. i'll do some research on it in a few. sounds promising as well!
thx to you too, bama. i know ppl from GA have alot of negative things to say about our neighbor to the west, but i appreciate the sweet words.
i guess its up to me to make it happen... this site feels like my kind of place. i think im going to become a lit addict.
cheesy, youre the man! seems like ive found someone with all the information i need to go wreak some havoc in my own special way. yeah... like i said, i know how to have a good time. got several of the ex's on the digicam and wouldnt mind logging a few new ones. depending on how it goes, and with their permission (of course) i may need to start a new thread.
tn, lava life huh? ive heard of it but never considered it. i'll do some research on it in a few. sounds promising as well!
thx to you too, bama. i know ppl from GA have alot of negative things to say about our neighbor to the west, but i appreciate the sweet words.
i guess its up to me to make it happen... this site feels like my kind of place. i think im going to become a lit addict.
