simply2fab
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- Aug 8, 2005
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- 18
I have lurked for years, had a cool cyber pal, but still struggle with whether phone sex and cyber sex is cheating.
Me - same as a majority of us guys here....married and way unfulfilled, but not to break my arm patting myself on the back, I think I have tried everything...........
She was passionate at first, but that's thirteen years ago, then w. kids and work it definitely tapered off, which is to be expected. The issue I have is that I do nothing for her, I have asked what turns her on......no response, asking for it, flirting, playing hard to get, etc......nothing. Her idea of sex is maybe once a month after she is caught up on all her Tivo shows she might come to bed at 11, after I am asleep and cuddle and say she's interested.....that means that I either help her climax w. my fingers or my cock, to which she promptly rolls over and goes to sleep and I am usually left w. a killer erection.
I realize that it sounds pompous, but we have done counseling, we tried communicating, we have definitely fought about it.......I have tried telling her I think she uses her body cause she knows it drives me crazy, but nothing.
I fought going crazy by getting into ridiculously good shape - 38, fit, less than 10% body fat, over six feet, lasting.......etc, etc......still nothing.
I know I am venting and I appreciate you reading......I have thought about doing what some of you have done and ask for a free pass to play w. other females w. a greater sex drive, but she'd give up some control, so I am certain what that answer will be............................
Oh well, off to self-satisfy again.....haha
Me - same as a majority of us guys here....married and way unfulfilled, but not to break my arm patting myself on the back, I think I have tried everything...........
She was passionate at first, but that's thirteen years ago, then w. kids and work it definitely tapered off, which is to be expected. The issue I have is that I do nothing for her, I have asked what turns her on......no response, asking for it, flirting, playing hard to get, etc......nothing. Her idea of sex is maybe once a month after she is caught up on all her Tivo shows she might come to bed at 11, after I am asleep and cuddle and say she's interested.....that means that I either help her climax w. my fingers or my cock, to which she promptly rolls over and goes to sleep and I am usually left w. a killer erection.
I realize that it sounds pompous, but we have done counseling, we tried communicating, we have definitely fought about it.......I have tried telling her I think she uses her body cause she knows it drives me crazy, but nothing.
I fought going crazy by getting into ridiculously good shape - 38, fit, less than 10% body fat, over six feet, lasting.......etc, etc......still nothing.
I know I am venting and I appreciate you reading......I have thought about doing what some of you have done and ask for a free pass to play w. other females w. a greater sex drive, but she'd give up some control, so I am certain what that answer will be............................
Oh well, off to self-satisfy again.....haha
