Lonely and looking

[nyra]

I'm 26
In Michigan
Divorced
Looking for male/female
I'm of Italian descent
5/5"
Medium build - Ok fuck it, I'm chubby

I am into sex at this point in my life... I'll be honest... I've gotten bitten by the horny bug. I'm currently involved with someone who... well, can't make a decision between me and another woman.... It is difficult... I am looking for fun... fun sex... fun times... and someone who will be able to occupy me in more ways than one.

I like Industrial/Electronic music
I have piercings and tattoos... They're not outrageous... but you'll have to ask if you want to know what they are/where they are...

I love going to concerts.

I like to write...

I'm babbling in this post like a crazy idiot... I realize this...

I'll attach a picture now and shut up....

 

[Andreina]

Hello

you are a very good looking woman... as for your man: if he has to think which one of you to take then he is not worth it. not for you and not for the other lady

 

[nyra]

Thanks devil... I just realized how pathetic I sounded in my original post..... hehe

I'm not, really.... God, what a way to try to redeem yourself.

 

[petor42]

Are you iterested in a pen-pal?

I am an older (71) writer looking for someonw with whome to share memoirs and/or other stories. Are you interested in sharing stories?

 

[Andreina]

follow up =)

no hunny, you are by no means pathetic. we all want to be loved... yes, even me hehehe I believe that there is a lid for every pot.

 

[Andreina]

email

by the way, you sound very nice.... would love to hear more from you. if you care (and want, yadda yadda yadda) i would love to hear from you. my email is littledevilwithahalo@hotmail.com

 

[MrFla]

NYRA,

One thing that kills me is when people are "walking wounded" and think that they are pathetic. We are all human...Shakespear said it best..."If you tickle me do I not laugh, If you cut me do I not bleed, If you poison me do I not die".

Sweetie...seeing your picture, you are an attractive woman, but more importantly, do you feel beautiful on the inside. If not, why?

I'm not proporting to understand what it means to be a woman, but as a SWM (who are supposed to have all the advantages) I know that life in general is tough. It's even tougher when society anticipates that because you don't have a penis between your legs that your weaker. Which just isn't true. We are all equal, though some morons propose that we are not.

Your a pretty lady, but that isn't everything. How is your heart. I've said it before and I will say it again. I would much rather have a lover who is attractive but not drop dead but is beautiful inside, than someone who is just an ugly ornament.

Your somewhat honest but tough on yourself. Don't be. Relax. Find out who you are first and the rest will fall into place. More importantly, being comfortable with who you are will enhance your sexual experience all the more.

I'll be honest. I had issues about feeling "pathetic" too. It took a long time and lots of hard work and heavy thinking to get over it, and though at moments some doubts still linger, finding yourself is the greatest gift you can give to yourself.

Just think "I'm beautiful". Even if you don't believe it. The more you think it the more it will show, and I guarantee the more men will see it.

Furthermore, chubby people like sex too. Just because you feel your chubby doesn't entitle you to the finer things in life. The Beatles said it best, "The best things in life are free". Don't feel that because you have some hips that a man won't be erotically aroused by you. I have many friends who subscribe to the theory that a woman with some meat on her bones is a good woman to have. Be comfortable with who you are, NOW! If there is something Physically that you can change, then make an effort to change it, but dont' be discouraged if progress is slow, or intermittent. Life is a roller coaster, enjoy the ride.

Concentrate on other things....just think "Beautiful", and don't worry about your physical attributes.

In American society we are constantly bombarded with images of beautiful people (and if your a beautiful person physically I understand the ramifications of that, the judgements the instant notion of snobbyness and that life is easy). However, statistics show that the majority of people aren't pysically perfect (neither am I go figure).

You have the "Facia Bella" (beautiful face). Count your blessing and take up some hobbies that make you happy. When push comes to shove and people are real people, consideration is given far more to putting your money where you mouth is and having your shit together personally than to how you try to mimick a size .1 supermodel.

You show courage in posting here (a sexual oriented site). Show the same courage when it comes to how you feel about yourself!

 

[MrFla]

BIG TYPO

It should read just becuause you feel your tubby doesn't preclude you from the finer things in life.

 

[Andreina]

ignorant European

what is SWM ?

 

[bigdick7in]

i live in holland michigan.....if u want to meet for "fun times"...drop me a line

 

[seldomseen]

swm

angel swm is i presume single white male

 

[quilesed]

I think you are beautiful and soon you will find someone.

 

[manohman]

Hi there nyra

WOW Girl, You look great!!! Would just love to talk with you about your needs I am in southeastern Michigan and will be waiting to hear from you.

 

[Angelofsex]

Married, lonely and looking!!!!!!!!!!

You could be married and still lonely to be looking for that someone to fill in the missing part.

 

[VanB]

Nyra

You may think you're chubby but you don't really look it.

There's some intersting stuff/opinions/advice on this board - have a good look look around. I have no experience of the cyber relationships you see written about here so couldn't comment but there is definitely a lot of fun to be be had.

You sound very nice so: SMILE

 

[vylette]

hey!

you didnt sound like you were babbling a bit...i feel the exact same way sometimes... and i think you are pretty...plus you seem very real and very sweet...

 

[Talesin]

Nyra,

You are a very beautiful woman. You seem very open and honest. I would love to chat, swap stories, or be friends becuase you sound like a really sweet person.

As for your post, I got some really good advice from a friend once. She told me, "You don't have to be with someone to be someone" I could be wrong but I think your self esteem may have taking a beeting lately. Surround yourself with people that care about you. If they care about you, they will tell you the truth. So when they say you are beautiful, or kind, or a good friend you can believe them.

I hope that helps.

T

 

[Guest]

hey sweetie,

you look and sound beautiful,

i'm a lonely 21 yr old college guy looking for a passionate cyber relationship...if interested email me at dlineg78@yahoo.com

 

[Hard in Colorado]

Awesome

Nyra,
You look awesome, if I was in your part of the country ( I live in Colorado) I'd hook up with you in a second, I'm in a similar situation, I'm always horny my partner isn't. Feel free to e-mail me or pm me. Good luck finding sex.

 

[seldomseen]

amy( nyra)

you have a doll face

 

[ihave812]

Nyra,

You`re very nice looking, and seem very sexy. You need to realize how pretty you are, and don`t dog yourself out. I live in the southeast U.S., but if I am ever in your part of the country, I`d really like to meet you, and show you how a woman`s needs should be fulfilled.....Drop me a note or an e-mail ihave812@yahoo.com

 

[manohman]

Hi Nyra!

The wife and I would love to meet you and spend some time with you. How about a get away weekend maybe at the resort in Benzi? hope to hear from you soon.

 

[Richard49]

A kiss and a promise

You look good to me.
I live in Traverse City.

I send you a cyber kiss now a promise of one wonderful night.

Richard
ask@gtii.com