That is such an ambiguous title LL. Either you get fucking lucky, or else fucking unlucking. I think that you (like me probably, er definately) need to actually get screwed in the lucky way *LOL*.
Hey, do other people also put these ** things on either side of their LOL's. To think that this is what made Ramlik call me a female imposter. *LOL* (oops, there I go again - can't help myself).
Flashback!!! When I first got together with Dreamer his Mom expected us every Holiday all day. No questions or options. She is Latin Catholic and that's the way it is. Took several years to ease her off and a couple "talks" with her. Finally her husband, who is so super and wonderful, told her to back off. I have family too. Luckily mine hunts on Thanksgiving, all of them, so that holiday was all hers. Christmas she must share with my family, though she still gets the majority of the day. It's better now, she understands. It is hard not to hurt feelings, my husband tried to stay neutral till I told him that wasn't an option. To make it harder her other son calls her long distance every single day, at least once, and he and his family have wrapped themselves around her. We live in the same city, but are not that close. It doesn't seem healthy. No, it isn't me that did it. My husband chose not to be Catholic anymore and cannot stand being in the house for more then a few hours at a time.
It works itself out.
Lioness, he just doesn't get it. He didn't mean to hurt you, I am betting, wasn't thinking. Mommy told him something and he was doing it, out of habit. Go to your Mother's and have a super time.