Living up fantasies as an attached couple?

[amigayorbi]

This is something I have always wanted to have, having a significant other (may be married) to live out both our fantasies without disturbing our status quo.

I do know some attached couples online and it would love to be part of one.

Has anyone been in an “attached” relationship and how has it worked out?

 

[trabian]

I would also like to know more about that. I have a lingerie fetish and my wife does not want to play. The idea of her having separate experiences with another man also tickles me, though she is profoundly uninterested.

Personally, if the occasion should ever arise I think a "just-for-play" arrangement could work. In the future I believe it will become more accepted, but for now it seems the only way would be for me to divorce her. Kids are out of the house so it wouldn't affect anyone else. I live in a country where prostitution is not penalised, but she would never accept that either and I also think it degrades women, never mind the risks of disease. I see regular women my age every day that would probably be game, so it's a pity that this kind of mutually consented play arrangements aren't more common.