this lonesome creatures calling all seasonned and superior domme goddesses and even novice, wannabee and weekender in and near the london / south east region of england (u.k) and elsewhere. visit my profile here. i'm free range, bait and snare, on the loose, hunting for predators. so, butterfly net, shepherds crook and harpoon gun ready, set up and check your lobster pots and gin traps for me. i promise that a demanding, but rewarding role awaits you. see you very soon. obombrer canakrol_salon@hotmail.com
little subbe lost -ready to be found and saved by some h.r.h Mme right
- Thread starter obombrer
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too bad im not dom, or id try my hand at you... but anywho, lets see the trouble two subs can cause shall we? thankx!
dear angylfyre,
so pleased somebody replied -even if youre a fellow subbe -and probably on opposite side of the planet. yes, i'm a fallen angel -or sweet daemone myself. are you presently in use, or out on the prowl for a domme? strange that, trying to land a predator. ever come across that yourself? what i mean is having to encourage,manipulate, provoke etc these situations. should we compare notes? my email address = canakrol_salon@hotmail.com i'm struggling to say things, but its not working, been like this all day. oh yes, something i'm geting more interested in is whether authentic bdsm power status, role, identity, urges and (ideally!) lifestyle is caused by serious innermost deep needs and purposes, as well as problem solving and potential-attainment, out there, here, in this external physical world of ours. does this make sense? i mean both dommes and subbes -then to a lesser extent switches, weekenders and novelty cheep thrill seekers etc. ive got no idea if youre straight, bi or lez, but do you find that the way you are frightens off people youd otherwise have scored with, unbelievable, isnt it? vanilla girls whove otherwise expressed interest (thats rare enough) are ignorant (they won't even think, listen or experiment!) of it (its hardly as though i pose a threat or present harm to them, is it? also, i know its not funny, but some situations they do end up in, all because of "normal" men they go with), if they ever at least considered or did it, its taking it (as i do -but for real in my case) in a fake sort of way, some are fellow subbes (like a blind date some friends of mine set up -we got on o.k -shes a decent enough creature though), sometimes theyll make an effort -like a recentish encounter with an admirer who went ahead with it -what happenneed was she did her best (albeit very awkward, clumsy, careless and fumbling -more like a novice subbe), it wasnt really for her, but i felt so pleased and proud, because it helped her with confiddence and assertion problems she has -shes a nice and smart girl anyway. i dont enjoy being active in relatively straight sex (oral and fucking -but i prefer women in doggy fashion for anal -not because i'm mastering them, i'm not, but its so dirty and cool, isnt it?) being passive and lazy -but cooperative and encouraging -and several girls have complained about. so, angylfyre, what of your good (or bad?) self then?
i can do better than this attempt -i promise you,
obombrer
dear angylfyre,
so pleased somebody replied -even if youre a fellow subbe -and probably on opposite side of the planet. yes, i'm a fallen angel -or sweet daemone myself. are you presently in use, or out on the prowl for a domme? strange that, trying to land a predator. ever come across that yourself? what i mean is having to encourage,manipulate, provoke etc these situations. should we compare notes? my email address = canakrol_salon@hotmail.com i'm struggling to say things, but its not working, been like this all day. oh yes, something i'm geting more interested in is whether authentic bdsm power status, role, identity, urges and (ideally!) lifestyle is caused by serious innermost deep needs and purposes, as well as problem solving and potential-attainment, out there, here, in this external physical world of ours. does this make sense? i mean both dommes and subbes -then to a lesser extent switches, weekenders and novelty cheep thrill seekers etc. ive got no idea if youre straight, bi or lez, but do you find that the way you are frightens off people youd otherwise have scored with, unbelievable, isnt it? vanilla girls whove otherwise expressed interest (thats rare enough) are ignorant (they won't even think, listen or experiment!) of it (its hardly as though i pose a threat or present harm to them, is it? also, i know its not funny, but some situations they do end up in, all because of "normal" men they go with), if they ever at least considered or did it, its taking it (as i do -but for real in my case) in a fake sort of way, some are fellow subbes (like a blind date some friends of mine set up -we got on o.k -shes a decent enough creature though), sometimes theyll make an effort -like a recentish encounter with an admirer who went ahead with it -what happenneed was she did her best (albeit very awkward, clumsy, careless and fumbling -more like a novice subbe), it wasnt really for her, but i felt so pleased and proud, because it helped her with confiddence and assertion problems she has -shes a nice and smart girl anyway. i dont enjoy being active in relatively straight sex (oral and fucking -but i prefer women in doggy fashion for anal -not because i'm mastering them, i'm not, but its so dirty and cool, isnt it?) being passive and lazy -but cooperative and encouraging -and several girls have complained about. so, angylfyre, what of your good (or bad?) self then?
i can do better than this attempt -i promise you,
obombrer
Well, i think that i am on the opposite side of the world, Wisconsin to be exact. i like to refer to it as the Frozen Hell because it is so boring! i moved here from Seattle, and the adjustment has been really hard! Going from big, bright city to a little town that doesnt even have an economy is weird... but the hardest part would have to be adjusting to the way everyone's mind seems to be closed off to new ideas! Would you prefer that we PM? Or do you want me to use the forum? Since i've already started babbling here, i might as well finish off what i have to say...
i have had troubble finding partners (even 'nilla ones) and it sorta stinks. But then i always think to myself, would i really want to have had another boring encounter, sexual or other wise? NO!! A thousand times NO! i find myself feeling sorry, almost pittying, for the people that don't open up, and try or listen to new things. i am very proud to be bi, and i will admit it to anyone who wants to know (i love talking about my sexuallity to anyone who'll listen). What surprises me the most is how closed even the "different" people are. i use the word different to term those not like me, what most people consider "normal" i say are different. i do not mean it in a bad way or anything like that... i just see no reason why *I* should be called weird, or a freak for the way i am. The most common trouble i have is from opposite ends (the bi thing), from gay and straight people. i get discriminated from both of them, which i do not understand, but that is another story for a different time.
i have been lucky enough to find someone that is willing to deal with how little i know, and is currently training me. i think that it is going very well, as i have not recieved any bad comments yet! i just completed my second assignment, and i enjoy it very much. i do not enjoy being a switch, but for my current partner i will make acceptions. The hardest thing about my training is getting my mind set in the right place. At my work, i have to be very out going, accertive and willing to take a jump... i do not like that. i'm not sub because i'm lazy, but because i feel that is where i am most comfortable. It feels "right"... if that makes any sense. If i could make a life style out of this, i would go for it, but due to my current status in life that is not possible. It really bothers me just being a weekender, but i will take all of it that i am able to get. i believe that there is alot of learning to be done with BDSM... on either side, we must learn our own limits and those of our partner before really continuing.
But hey, thats me in a not so small nutshell. lol.
angylfyre
i have had troubble finding partners (even 'nilla ones) and it sorta stinks. But then i always think to myself, would i really want to have had another boring encounter, sexual or other wise? NO!! A thousand times NO! i find myself feeling sorry, almost pittying, for the people that don't open up, and try or listen to new things. i am very proud to be bi, and i will admit it to anyone who wants to know (i love talking about my sexuallity to anyone who'll listen). What surprises me the most is how closed even the "different" people are. i use the word different to term those not like me, what most people consider "normal" i say are different. i do not mean it in a bad way or anything like that... i just see no reason why *I* should be called weird, or a freak for the way i am. The most common trouble i have is from opposite ends (the bi thing), from gay and straight people. i get discriminated from both of them, which i do not understand, but that is another story for a different time.
i have been lucky enough to find someone that is willing to deal with how little i know, and is currently training me. i think that it is going very well, as i have not recieved any bad comments yet! i just completed my second assignment, and i enjoy it very much. i do not enjoy being a switch, but for my current partner i will make acceptions. The hardest thing about my training is getting my mind set in the right place. At my work, i have to be very out going, accertive and willing to take a jump... i do not like that. i'm not sub because i'm lazy, but because i feel that is where i am most comfortable. It feels "right"... if that makes any sense. If i could make a life style out of this, i would go for it, but due to my current status in life that is not possible. It really bothers me just being a weekender, but i will take all of it that i am able to get. i believe that there is alot of learning to be done with BDSM... on either side, we must learn our own limits and those of our partner before really continuing.
But hey, thats me in a not so small nutshell. lol.
angylfyre
help! i'm getting really desperate here. my need gets increasingly worse at a rate of knots. i will do my best to make it worthwhile for any dominatrix (singular or plural), whether theyre 100%+, beginners, one-offs, part time or explorimenters (to perhaps coin a phrase). is there anything i'm getting wrong with this? check out my profile and see what you think, if you want to know more, then email me at canakrol_salon@hotmail.com ill do my best to tell you about myself and answer questions.
yours, obombrer
yours, obombrer
oops! sorry. just realised. what i meant was I PROMISE TO BE WORTHWHILE -not make it worthwhile (in the financial sense). typical (but minor) example of my careless and clumsy negligence and blundering that makes me require such treatment and handling. do i have to say any more?
obombrer
canakrol_salon@hotmail.com
obombrer
canakrol_salon@hotmail.com
partly thankx to recent disasters and non events tearing me apart (still don't know if they can be resolved, i have to wait, hopefully.....), all added to existing purgatory and tribulations -make obombrer go beyond deserving case status!
girls or women (singular or plural, 18+ men involved have to pass my safety and dignity standards -same with females of course!), don't have to have genital sex with me or bring me off if they don't want to (alright, so i wouldnt mind though, itd be o.k if it happenned, but not essential), also i'm as keen to consider mademoiselle tryitoutandseewhathappenses as more experienced (hardenned?!) dommes. it can be very helpful for (especially late tens, early 20's girls) confidence, control, self-esteem and will power etc -even if they end up deciding its not for them. as i said, my profile says somethings about me, anything else get me at canakrol_salon@hotmail.com ask what you want and ill tell you more.
cum an hav a go if you think youre domme enough -or even too much!..............
girls or women (singular or plural, 18+ men involved have to pass my safety and dignity standards -same with females of course!), don't have to have genital sex with me or bring me off if they don't want to (alright, so i wouldnt mind though, itd be o.k if it happenned, but not essential), also i'm as keen to consider mademoiselle tryitoutandseewhathappenses as more experienced (hardenned?!) dommes. it can be very helpful for (especially late tens, early 20's girls) confidence, control, self-esteem and will power etc -even if they end up deciding its not for them. as i said, my profile says somethings about me, anything else get me at canakrol_salon@hotmail.com ask what you want and ill tell you more.
cum an hav a go if you think youre domme enough -or even too much!..............
partly thankx to recent disasters and non events tearing me apart (still don't know if they can be resolved, i have to wait, hopefully.....), all added to existing purgatory and tribulations -make obombrer go beyond deserving case status!
girls or women (singular or plural, 18+ men involved have to pass my safety and dignity standards -same with females of course!), don't have to have genital sex with me or bring me off if they don't want to (alright, so i wouldnt mind though, itd be o.k if it happenned, but not essential), also i'm as keen to consider mademoiselle tryitoutandseewhathappenses as more experienced (hardenned?!) dommes. it can be very helpful for (especially late tens, early 20's girls) confidence, control, self-esteem and will power etc -even if they end up deciding its not for them. as i said, my profile says somethings about me, anything else get me at canakrol_salon@hotmail.com ask what you want and ill tell you more.
cum an hav a go if you think youre domme enough -or even too much!..............
girls or women (singular or plural, 18+ men involved have to pass my safety and dignity standards -same with females of course!), don't have to have genital sex with me or bring me off if they don't want to (alright, so i wouldnt mind though, itd be o.k if it happenned, but not essential), also i'm as keen to consider mademoiselle tryitoutandseewhathappenses as more experienced (hardenned?!) dommes. it can be very helpful for (especially late tens, early 20's girls) confidence, control, self-esteem and will power etc -even if they end up deciding its not for them. as i said, my profile says somethings about me, anything else get me at canakrol_salon@hotmail.com ask what you want and ill tell you more.
cum an hav a go if you think youre domme enough -or even too much!..............
Pimptress J
Really Experienced
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I have Pm'd you, and replied to your email.
Contact me, when you have the time.
~J
Contact me, when you have the time.
~J
after all this time........
still no desired outcome, made contact with some interesting people though, surely there must be somebody out there.....
obombrer
canakrol_salon@hotmail.com
still no desired outcome, made contact with some interesting people though, surely there must be somebody out there.....
obombrer
canakrol_salon@hotmail.com
it can't be this difficult (o.k, seems like that for many others -even girls). what am i getting wrong, somebody please advise me? even if theyre insensitive -or worse about it. maybe something will happen soon unexpectedly, without any interference from me or on my behalf. its happenned before -but "accidents cannot be made to order" (william burroughs and / or bryon gysin said so), also, its never a good idea to try. that way lies non events and even disasters. obombrer canakrol_salon@hotmail.com
bustyblondebombshell
Literotica Guru
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All I can do is offer my words of comfort when I quote, 'Rome was not built in a day'.
I am sure the Pimptress/Mistress/Queen/Dominatrix is out there somewhere, but wait long enough and you will find the shoe that fits - remember, just like leather, some things give over time.
For now you have the comfort of friends. What your heart desires will find you.......................... Eventually.
BBBx.
I am sure the Pimptress/Mistress/Queen/Dominatrix is out there somewhere, but wait long enough and you will find the shoe that fits - remember, just like leather, some things give over time.
For now you have the comfort of friends. What your heart desires will find you.......................... Eventually.
BBBx.
well, i suppose some interest, contacts and leads (double entendre!) have been made, both on this personals posting and directly.
obombrer
canakrol_salon@hotmail.com
obombrer
canakrol_salon@hotmail.com
hi again everybody,
this is my 1st visit here for ages..... i can still be tracked down to canakrol_salon@hotmail.com and in_spiral_jetty@yahoo.co.uk i always do my best to deal with any messages, obviously it takes time.
this is my 1st visit here for ages..... i can still be tracked down to canakrol_salon@hotmail.com and in_spiral_jetty@yahoo.co.uk i always do my best to deal with any messages, obviously it takes time.
look, i'm serious (desperate?!) about this. am i getting anything (or things?) wrong? please say, i'd love to know. if anybody (female prefered, other than that....) keen, heres my u.k mobile (withhold your number if you wish -and control personal details you give out) 07891 130322 (ask for obombrer -i don't mind this number being known) then well take it from there and see if some audition (conducted sensibly, most probably with time and preparation allowed for before taking it further -if that should happen) can be arranged. as ive complained earlier (and many people know from their own experience), any possible opportunities that arise for me are vanilla (without saying anything against anybody, but....). my email addresses are canakrol_salon@hotmail.com and in_spiral_jetty@yahoo.co.uk -yahoo messenger in_spiral_jetty hoping for some responses -or reactions
obombrer
obombrer