Little spanking in the ass is a turn on ?
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Stella_Omega
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Well yes-- because it brings the blood flow to the area which enhances sensation. Start off with light slaps until the skin is reddened, and that will do it. 
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Well yes-- because it brings the blood flow to the area which enhances sensation. Start off with light slaps until the skin is reddened, and that will do it.
I cant do it , stella !
however maybe her desire , i can at the most just touch and fondle the ass cheeks only !
just curious to know ladies physcology of it .
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Seriously Prasa, you can suck another mans cock for your wife, but you can't slap her ass... Really?
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Eriously Prasa, you can suck another mans cock for your wife, but you can't slap her ass... Really?
Exactly.
Three things for me (more or less):
1) It feels good
2) The pain makes all my other thoughts go away and is really cathartic.
3) It's sort of a challenge for me to see if I can hold on until my partner's hand gets tired.
But that's bruises-the-next-day spanking, which is not what your wife seems to be asking for.
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Seriously Prasa, you can suck another mans cock for your wife, but you can't slap her ass... Really?
You seems to be partly read my posts but not whole .
my wife indeed suggested to see me suck anothercok in return for lesbian show ,
but i think it erotic but not doable .
so i refused to suck another cock as i cant to do it even in dreams ,
i just let that topic go idle with my wife afterwards .
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It depends on the person. But, spanking is common as a beginning for many sexual scenes. Bondage is also pretty common. Anal sex isn't that uncommon, but it's not for everybody. But, for some people, it has a sensual desire, maybe a tabu to break, a phobia to overcome, or just another submissive feeling they want to experience.
Anal sex can be pretty basic, but when enhanced with bondage, spanking and maybe an anal plug, it can become almost a ceremony and it can really become powerful.
If you aren't into it, you can actually spoil it for someone who is by not acting the part. People into a fetish can tell when someone is just acting the part. And just like any other fetish, you want to experience it with someone else who enjoys it. Someone who is just going through the motions can sometimes be OK, but unless there is true desire there, there is always something lacking.
Personally, bondage and spanking are key things that come before anal sex. And, if I want someone to experience something a bit more kinky or something more stimulating to the anus before sex, I add a butt plug. Personally, I don't prefer something too large, because I want my cock to be the largest thing she's going to experience. but, many plugs will slip inside, and the base will be nearly flat between the cheeks. That allows me to spank her, and at the same time smack the butt plug, too.
You never hit just the butt plug, because that will usually push it too far. I like to use a large but light paddle, that hits both cheeks at the same time. This will then only lightly touch the plug, and along with the sensation on her ass cheeks, she will also experience that sensation of the plug being wiggled by the paddle touching it. This can be a very sensual feeling. It keeps her mind on what's to come.
If you don't understand this desire, that's OK. Like I said, not everybody enjoys anal sex. And even fewer enjoy the BDSM version where someone is bound and spanked, and even humiliated beforehand. But, if your wife is one of these people who enjoys anal sex...kinky anal sex, I'll bet she can get quite a turn on from it and nothing else will satisfy her in the same way.
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DVS - "Personally, bondage and spanking are key things that come before anal sex. And, if I want someone to experience something a bit more kinky or something more stimulating to the anus before sex, I add a butt plug. Personally, I don't prefer something too large, because I want my cock to be the largest thing she's going to experience. but, many plugs will slip inside, and the base will be nearly flat between the cheeks. That allows me to spank her, and at the same time smack the butt plug, too.
You never hit just the butt plug, because that will usually push it too far. I like to use a large but light paddle, that hits both cheeks at the same time. This will then only lightly touch the plug, and along with the sensation on her ass cheeks, she will also experience that sensation of the plug being wiggled by the paddle touching it. This can be a very sensual feeling. It keeps her mind on what's to come."
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yes please.
You never hit just the butt plug, because that will usually push it too far. I like to use a large but light paddle, that hits both cheeks at the same time. This will then only lightly touch the plug, and along with the sensation on her ass cheeks, she will also experience that sensation of the plug being wiggled by the paddle touching it. This can be a very sensual feeling. It keeps her mind on what's to come."
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yes please.
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I have no deep psychology to share with you ref spanking, for me its quite simple.
It hurts, it releases tension and I don't have control.
The pain releases endorphins (I think?) and ultimately I float.
The releasing of tension relieves stress.
And the control helps me 'let go' when I have had a long period of being in control in my daily life for what ever reason.
I guess (for me) its medicine
It hurts, it releases tension and I don't have control.
The pain releases endorphins (I think?) and ultimately I float.
The releasing of tension relieves stress.
And the control helps me 'let go' when I have had a long period of being in control in my daily life for what ever reason.
I guess (for me) its medicine
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it is so!
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Ah, I don't ass fuck and tell. But, I do have stories. Some of them mirror my encounters and some are just fiction. I leave it up to the reader to know which is which.
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I like to be thrown over Daddy's lap and spanked mercilessly, till my ass is throbbing and I can't take it anymore, then a bit further... It's nice to be treated like a plaything sometimes.
It's nice to be treated like a plaything sometimes.
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I like to be thrown over Daddy's lap and spanked mercilessly, till my ass is throbbing and I can't take it anymore, then a bit further...
Nice of you to tell it openly
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Sounds good to me!
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it sounds so good but it really hurts her ass cheeks also . that is why i am refrained from it.
but still she thinks it is a turn on if i did it softly and slowly .
mmmm
may be i will try it out in due time
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Just the right amount of spanking at the right time certainly makes for a great cum... At least for me
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Just the right amount of spanking at the right time certainly makes for a great cum... At least for me
love the sound of that.....
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