little dom/sub's

[graceanne]

Do any of you notice dom/sub tendancies in your kids?

Like, the other day, my sister left her belt on the floor. My son (2) found it, picked it up and smacked his sister on the but with it. Now, my husband does not spank the kids with his belt, and they have never seen (or heard) him spanking me with it.

 

[jasonlf]

Do any of you notice dom/sub tendancies in your kids?

Like, the other day, my sister left her belt on the floor. My son (2) found it, picked it up and smacked his sister on the but with it. Now, my husband does not spank the kids with his belt, and they have never seen (or heard) him spanking me with it.

I doubt that's a Dom/sub tendency.

I think that's a "oooh, hit my sister" tendency.

I think stuff like that doesn't become evident until later. As we all know, alpha-personalities can sub, to the right person, and sometimes the quiet people are the strongest doms.

 

[Bandit58]

Master Gil and I refer to my 17 yr old daughter as the Junior Domme. She lives back in NZ with her father and has him wrapped around her little finger She gets to do pretty much what she wants when she wants, luckily this is a sensible girl with her head screwed on the right way! Has been known to tell her dad where to get off - she generally wins any arguments they have.

Strangely though I as a submissive personality always seemed to have better control of her!

 

[catalina_francisco]

I think there is a tendency to get to a place where we can colour everyone with BDSM (even our animals) whether they are part of it or not. What I mean by that is I have noticed a tendency of many who live it to start putting everyone they know, vanilla or otherwise, into groupings of Dom/me or sub/slave. While I can appreciate the fun in doing so, I think it also at times is a subconscious desire to make everyone conform to our ideal of what a relationship style should be, rather than just appreciate people of all ages and backgrounds are going to have character traits which make them uniquely who they are and may not be remotely connected to D/s or BDSM...and for some may be an insult to even suggest they are.

I think when it begins to be applied to young children it can become dangerous in that there then can become a way of relating to or with them which under vanilla or normal circumstances would not exist, and which could hinder their development as human beings and individuals. As jasonlf says, kids the world over will do things like hit their brother/sister, lock them in rooms, play cowboys and indians; doctors and nurses, order each other about or cater to the whims of another they feel is superior in some way to them (or just plain scares the shit out of them) etc......it does not automatically make them a Dom/me or sub in the making, just humans going through normal developmental processes found in any psych or child development book.

For example, every adult who shows leadership tendencies is not a Dom/me nor do all of them want to be....they are exhibiting typical human traits and characteristics. Don't let the love of this lifestyle colour everything you look at in the world otherwise you will begin to have a very narrow view and miss a lot of really interesting things to boot!! Let them be kids and don't look for hidden agendas which may or may not exist.

Catalina

 

[timberwolf05]

hehe

Do any of you notice dom/sub tendancies in your kids?

Like, the other day, my sister left her belt on the floor. My son (2) found it, picked it up and smacked his sister on the but with it. Now, my husband does not spank the kids with his belt, and they have never seen (or heard) him spanking me with it.

giggling.......what are kids??????

hehe
the wolf.

 

[blondie03]

My 6 year old daughter will go up to her brother, who is 9, lay across his lap and say "spank me bubba"

 

[graceanne]

Ok, I know that they aren't actually at this age dom's or sub's. I was trying to start a funny thread!

He also trys to pick fights (not pretend or fun, but real fights) with my husband. The other day he was in the neighbors yard, and K said "D! Get over here!" D just folded his arms over his chest and glared at K. So K said "1!" And D started waving his fists at him, like a boxer does. And he wasn't smiling, he was glowering at K. K managed to keep his face straight, and said "2!" D went and sat on the curb and crossed his arms over his chest and glared. Then he said "No." So K said "3." and went to smack D's bottom. D just got up and started waving his fists at him again! If he could talk he'd have said "Bring it on old man!" LMAO