Litiquette VII

[Trekka]

I don’t know about the first 2, but I can figure it out.

I never had a Stable, but I got around a lot back in the day, if you know what I’m saying.
A lot of e-cock (always 8 inches!) in my (always waxed) e-cunt.
Good times.


You also forgot... OVERLAP.

Overlap!
Should we get out our dry erase boards and make Venn Diagrams?

Also, shoutout to QC for the amazing baseball puns. I’m dying.

 

[Orchidea73]

So, who will own up to keeping a stable or harem of Lit hotties at your disposal? Who’s been in one before? Knowingly? Unwittingly? What was your experience? And, as a stable or harem keeper, how did you shoulder *all the responsibility*?

This discussion is, of course, all in good fun, and if ya boil it down, the real question is: Just how social a *cough* naked lit butterfly are you?

Banter and flirting yes. But I don't have Harems and Stables.
I am one man kinda woman and that doesn't match well with Lit.

 

[Daisy_Love]

Banter and flirting yes. But I don't have Harems and Stables.
I am one man kinda woman and that doesn't match well with Lit.

I concur, Orchi

 

[QuietCanadian]

I don’t know about the first 2, but I can figure it out.

I never had a Stable, but I got around a lot back in the day, if you know what I’m saying.
A lot of e-cock (always 8 inches!) in my (always waxed) e-cunt.
Good times.


You also forgot... OVERLAP.

Lit men, defying the law of averages since whenever this site was invented.


There's a Mendoza line pin in here somewhere for Trekka. I can't find it right now, but he did play short.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Lit men, defying the law of averages since whenever this site was invented.


There's a Mendoza line pin in here somewhere for Trekka. I can't find it right now, but he did play short.

Somehow Moneyball fits in here. I just can’t put the pieces together...

 

[Trixxii]

Banter and flirting yes. But I don't have Harems and Stables.
I am one man kinda woman and that doesn't match well with Lit.

You need a man who can handle your beauty and fiery Italian spirit.

Lit men, defying the law of averages since whenever this site was invented.

Agreed. The number of big-dicked, tall, athletic, dark and handsome types on this site is rather astounding.

Alright so Filthy Friday is back!

Today’s question is both controversial, and a throwback to the original roots of this thread - Lit Etiquette.

Databases.
Batting LineUps.
Harems.
Stables.

Everrrrryone claims they know not of what I speak, and never do they ever participate in such shenanigans! I’m skeptical.

So, who will own up to keeping a stable or harem of Lit hotties at your disposal? Who’s been in one before? Knowingly? Unwittingly? What was your experience? And, as a stable or harem keeper, how did you shoulder *all the responsibility*?

This discussion is, of course, all in good fun, and if ya boil it down, the real question is: Just how social a *cough* naked lit butterfly are you?

I've wondered about this. When it's obvious two people are an e-couple, and seem pretty serious, yet one of them is in your inbox. Secretly, of course. While I understand there's alot of different arrangements, I'm not quick to believe there's "an understanding" or "insert any other excuse here". Being "that woman" to other women just isn't my thing. I can easily do without.

 

[Orchidea73]

You need a man who can handle your beauty and fiery Italian spirit.

That's very kind of you. Thank you.
But there is a certain truth to that in the sense that I hate jealousy and possessiveness with all my heart. He either trust me or not. If I feel trapped and suffocated I leave. I flirt and banter a lot but I am loyal. I've never cheated a man in my life. If you think you can police me though, we're done.

 

[Orchidea73]

And they are all Doms. Named Mike.

Tis true. lol

I had some "Doms" writing to me. The biggest mistake they made is informing me that they would like to choose my lingerie and clothes.

I can forgive a lot of things. But never, EVER, tell me what to wear. https://i.imgur.com/q5ZF3O8.gifhttps://i.imgur.com/XaCx8Tl.gif

 

[Orchidea73]

I love this.
I had a Dom who would want to pick out my clothes. Nope.

That being said, if I know he likes something, like fishnet stockings and leather boots, I may be apt to wear it when I see him.

Oh for sure. I am with you there. It gives me a great pleasure to wear something for him. Especially if there is something particular that he likes. But leave that to me. I know you therefore I know what you like. Even if I didn't, I would love to discover that myself. That's a fun part for me.

However, I do know there are lots of couples who like to be told what to wear by their partners. I think that's part of the kink? There is nothing wrong with that, if you both love it. Personally, I do not like the man to enter that sphere. Wear this, don't wear this. Make up, no make up.

No, my dear. Leave that to me. The only thing you should do is enjoy.

 

[LurkingPhoenix]

Overlap!
Should we get out our dry erase boards and make Venn Diagrams?

Also, shoutout to QC for the amazing baseball puns. I’m dying.

There would be so many overlapping circles on that diagram it would look like chainmail.

Or the cords on my earbuds after I stuff them in my pocket.

Overlap is REAL.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I mighta had one.

 

[LurkingPhoenix]

I can't imagine having a "stable" or such...I know that for some it is thrilling because, well, whatever the reasons.

Even as someone who considers himself somewhat Poly...I have tended to prefer only having one person with my relatively undivided attention, because my heart is more than loosely attached to my cock the majority of the time.

If I *was* in a stable/in the bullpen at any point, I'm blissfully unaware.

 

[WiserSoutherner]

And they are all Doms. Named Mike.

Some of us prefer Michael

 

[WiserSoutherner]

I am sure it works for some, but more than one e-relationship that involves regular communication wouldn't be my thing. I'm not against it, it just hasn't been an issue.

(Oh, that probably says more about me than anything)

 

[JennyNo1]

Eh, that'd be a no. While I have lots of friends I flirt and banter with, if I'm "with" someone it's just them. If there's a stable at all, it's the one of people I've shared special times with and who I'm still fond of and consider good friends.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Oh for sure. I am with you there. It gives me a great pleasure to wear something for him. Especially if there is something particular that he likes. But leave that to me. I know you therefore I know what you like. Even if I didn't, I would love to discover that myself. That's a fun part for me.

However, I do know there are lots of couples who like to be told what to wear by their partners. I think that's part of the kink? There is nothing wrong with that, if you both love it. Personally, I do not like the man to enter that sphere. Wear this, don't wear this. Make up, no make up.

No, my dear. Leave that to me. The only thing you should do is enjoy.

Noted. “Enjoy what Orchi wears or does not wear.” Got it.

 

[Suz_anne]

Overlap!
Should we get out our dry erase boards and make Venn Diagrams?

We'd need the biggest dry erase boards ever known to mankind.

I've avoided stables and harems and whatnot. I've been made aware of Litsters with databases of personal info and endless file folders full of every personal pic ever posted to Lit. It's helpful to be aware that those weirdos exist.

If I ever acquired a stable, I'd want it to be weird AF. Hit me up if you're good at prancing and need your hooves trimmed. :caning:

https://64.media.tumblr.com/096526f111f47d0754198534caa98480/14b7a9feda9e3b83-a8/s640x960/49110df15f7ac3a189e151432cd8e8b57ece4aea.jpg

 

[QuietCanadian]

We'd need the biggest dry erase boards ever known to mankind.

I've avoided stables and harems and whatnot. I've been made aware of Litsters with databases of personal info and endless file folders full of every personal pic ever posted to Lit. It's helpful to be aware that those weirdos exist.

If I ever acquired a stable, I'd want it to be weird AF. Hit me up if you're good at prancing and need your hooves trimmed. :caning:

https://64.media.tumblr.com/096526f111f47d0754198534caa98480/14b7a9feda9e3b83-a8/s640x960/49110df15f7ac3a189e151432cd8e8b57ece4aea.jpg

First of all, Suz, you are awesome.

Second of all, that's a thing? The database deal? Obviously the last bit is a thing. You've seen my horse costume.

 

[LurkingPhoenix]

If I get to wear a bridle and you braid my mane, I’m in.

Pics or it didn't happen.

 

[Suz_anne]

Maybe it is an Excel spreadsheet instead of an Access database, but I know of a few Litsters who log any personal info they come across in posts - if someone happens to mention the city where they live or their birthday or their age, pets, number of kids, etc.

It's under the guise of "Well, I wouldn't want them to think I forgot something that they told me previously...", but it is creepy as hell.


EDIT: So for those creepy database Litsters. I'm a 57 year old male Dom named Mike with a cat named Mr. Peeper Peppers and my turn-ons are oak trees, the sound of a doorbell and Penthouse Forum stories circa 1983.

 

[QuietCanadian]

I don't know about databases but I definitely know about file folders. I learned this first hand when someone sent me a file of every picture I ever posted or had in my AV or profile.

Maybe it is an Excel spreadsheet instead of an Access database, but I know of a few Litsters who log any personal info they come across in posts - if someone happens to mention the city where they live or their birthday or their age, pets, number of kids, etc.

It's under the guise of "Well, I wouldn't want them to think I forgot something that they told me previously...", but it is creepy as hell.

Uh, I'm incredibly weirded out right now. I'm going to Costco for tinfoil.

 

[Suz_anne]

Uh, I'm incredibly weirded out right now. I'm going to Costco for tinfoil.

Send me a dick pic?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I don't know about databases but I definitely know about file folders. I learned this first hand when someone sent me a file of every picture I ever posted or had in my AV or profile.

Oh. That.

Yeah. That’s a thing. I know first hand as well.

EDIT: So for those creepy database Litsters. I'm a 57 year old male Dom named Mike...

 

[QuietCanadian]

Send me a dick pic?

Trying to round out my file?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Trying to round out my file?

LOL!

Hey. You cannot send her a dick pic before you send me a right knee.