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️Lit Queer’s

If you’re homophobic it’s probably not the playground thread for you. My train of thought is conversation that’s not in the “ Lit” closet or only a topic that LGBT-Q folks can embrace.

Q = questions ones sexuality

Q = Queer , nation

Thoughts , closet door openings , anything that you want to add. Other then some googled speak about how you are so much in support of the community and just wanted everyone to know that it is in your Lit resume ‘ , non of that please. k

Of course everyone is welcome no matter what you have to say , that is a given in the thread title. It belongs to Lit and the Lit community, not me .

Have fun , make good choices.

 

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Watching Tampa bae’s and bumping this thread , for the overnight crowd.

 

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Goddamn it, that apostrophe. You did that on purpose.

I’m an ally. Here for the fashion tips.

So , as a bi woman how do you feel about the word queer ? Positive , negative , other

 

[default24]

So , as a bi woman how do you feel about the word queer ? Positive , negative , other

I'm fairly certain that she's not bi. But only fairly

 

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Yo , Cheeto girl , you seriously not going to answer the question at hand , everyone is waiting to hear the answer.



Footnote ; I was going to use the word grouping , wait for it

In queery , lol get it in—-> query. But I questioned the ethics of such behavior….lol I mean queers never laugh or goof around like everyone else.

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I’m not bi. I said I was an ally.

I was also referring to my question . What’s your take on the word queer ?

The Q meaning in LGBT *

You’re a PG influencer , let’s hear some influence and conversations, please. Feel free to bring some of your Bi gal pals along to.

Thxs

 

[tnman03]

I’m straight. I will call them whatever they want.

Yeah, straight here as well, not even bi-curious to be honest. One of my best friends is gay and several close female friends are lesbian or bi. None of that bothers me and I admire people who are open and genuine about their sexuality. It only becomes irritating when it’s made to be militant or adversarial where you’re shammed or mocked for not being in lockstep on the transsexual issues. Just be who you are and be good to each other and others.

 

[AlexBailey]

I like the term "queer." The meaning, or at least the common usage has shifted a bit over the years, but lately I fully embrace it for myself.

When I was a kid I heard it with negative connotation, my step brother called me "fag" and "the little queer" before I was ever interested in sex - but that was the eighties, when things like "eat shit and die" were common insults. My step brother was five years older and a big redneck of a guy who was embarrassed of me and acted out in front of his friends - they did stuff and said things that they could never get away with today.

"Queer" always seemed like a dehumanizing insult until I fell in with a social group of lesbians. They all affectionately called each other queers, dykes, and fags - they called me a "fag hag" for being the one guy hanging with their "pack of dykes." They were reclaiming the words, owning and embracing them.

At one protest the driver of a big truck yelled, "you're all a bunch of pussies!" which was met with cheers of, "Damn right! Pussy power!"

Ever since I've actually found it titillating to be called "queer," "pussy," "faggot" whatever... As long as they aren't physically attacking me it doesn't hurt. I feel about the same about them as I do about someone who is addicted to cigarettes - poor dumbasses. (Sorry smokers)

I love being queer. I like being attracted to attractive people regardless of gender lines and expectations. I was afraid of those feelings until a Swedish foreign exchange student opened my eyes. We were laying there professing our love after an enthusiastic little fuck session when she asked something like, "What if you fell in love with me before seeing me naked, I mean fully in love, then when we got naked I had a penis? Would you still love me then?"

That was the first time I really thought about it - separating love from gender. Yes. I would love her regardless of what she had between her legs. Why would I throw out a possible intimate connection with half of humanity based only on genitals? I probably fell in love dozens of times before I ever got laid, and who can honestly say that sex is the single most important thing in a relationship?

I am thirty-two flavors and then some.

 

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I’m straight. I will call them whatever they want.

A spin doctor might take issue with your use of them ?

I mean someone that questions normal heterosexual sexual behavior, like say bdsm folks as a example. That’s not the normal way them breeders fux or cum

Typed without a oz of ———> malice , just having a conversation. What’s your bi gal pals * Preferred to be called word ?

 

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Bait me all you want, I already stated I was here for the support. I thought it was a great idea for a thread, and it ain’t about me.

See , you see bait , I see conversations, so

 

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I/ we call people by their names , nicknames , pet names. Pretty simple question to answer.

 

[tnman03]

It’s militant because it has to be, Mr. White Cis Man.

No disagreement on that, the protest was and is a useful necessity to be seen and recognized. I differentiate that though from someone doing so when no one is questioning or baiting them.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Address people how they want to be addressed. Refer to people as they wish to be referenced. If you don’t know these things about someone, it’s probably not your business to discuss them. I have queer friends who love to be called queer. I have LBGTQ+ friends who don’t care for the word. Simply respecting people is the way.

 

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AlexBailey

 

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Address people how they want to be addressed. Refer to people as they wish to be referenced. If you don’t know these things about someone, it’s probably not your business to discuss them. I have queer friends who love to be called queer. I have LBGTQ+ friends who don’t care for the word. Simply respecting people is the way.

I feel the jest of what your post is saying. But for conversations sake , is it the same when people discuss 50 shades of grey as a example.

It’s a fictional story with bdsm references, but over there in the bdsm section of the site if it’s brought up by a novice or as reference or text in a personal ad. Well , it’s pretty easy to read what happens. It’s there or is removed.

Personally I think bdsm is that Q and what the Q is meant to represent. One questions their sexuality. We are born with that desire , sexually. No ?

Or we grow into , or something else is the reasoning.

All questions , but the answers don’t necessarily define someone.

 

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Sometimes you don’t know their names. Until you do, they/them is pretty safe.

Huh ? Your Lit bi gal pals all say they are bi woman , brag about it. Personally I think they flaunt it a bit to much myself. Like it defines them way more then it needs to. Being married and all.

Have you ever had the “ queer “ discussion with them ? Bi men have had the shit kicked out of them or shunned being that flaunting in some circles , country’s or social settings.

College , where they grew up , that sorta social setting.

It’s a responsibility to carry the Bi Pride flag.

 

[AlexBailey]

Alex. Were your parents supportive?
A close family member of mine went through hell. Their parents tried to take them to conversion therapy. My ex and I offered to take them in.
All is okay, now, but it was a rough few years.

As divorced and remarried Catholics, my parents had all kinds of personal conflicts they projected onto me. If they’d had more money they would have sent me to parochial school - not that that would have made any difference, I’ve known lots people who had their first queer experience at religious boarding schools.

My mom knew I was into girls clothes, she even enabled it when I was little, but after she married my stepfather it was all taboo. When I was thirteen and away for several weeks for the summer she cleaned everything in my room and got rid of my ‘trashy’ stuff, but I also has some nice athletic girls stuff - a nice one piece speedo, some tights, a leotard… she folded the good quality stuff and put it away in my drawers and never said a word.

I’ve hade a couple of friends who were sent to conversion therapy, one ended up testifying in court for a variety of charges against one sponsored by her parent’s church. Several others have been disowned by their families. I don’t know how my parents would have reacted if I’d been an open crossdresser or if I ever had a LTR with a boyfriend. For several years my mom would often say how glad she was that I wasn’t gay - then having a girlfriend who sometimes fit the stereotype of a butch lesbian was hard on them too.

 

[AveryElle]

Huh ? Your Lit bi gal pals all say they are bi woman , brag about it. Personally I think they flaunt it a bit to much myself. Like it defines them way more then it needs to. Being married and all.

Have you ever had the “ queer “ discussion with them ? Bi men have had the shit kicked out of them or shunned being that flaunting in some circles , country’s or social settings.

College , where they grew up , that sorta social setting.

It’s a responsibility to carry the Bi Pride flag.

1) if she says she’s not bi, believe her as you would the ‘gal pals’ who claim to be bi on here.
2) it’s not your say if someone flaunts their sexuality ‘too much’ on - wait for it - A SEX BOARD. Just block those people. It’s super easy.
3) what’s a “queer” discussion?
4) it’s no ones responsibility to carry any flag for any group if they choose not to. You don’t get to define other people’s activism.

 

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1) if she says she’s not bi, believe her as you would the ‘gal pals’ who claim to be bi on hete.
2) it’s not your say if someone flaunts their sexuality ‘too much’ on - wait for it - A SEX BOARD. Just block those people. It’s super easy.
3) what’s a “queer” discussion?
4) it’s no ones responsibility to carry any flag for any group if they choose not to. You don’t get to define other people’s activism.

*. All net

 

[default24]

Hey, you.

Hi. This is a fun thread, huh?

 

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I’ve missed your perfect pelvis.

Yeahhhhh me too. It left circa 2018. RIP V lines, gone but not forgotten. F

How's Fara?

 

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Hi. This is a fun thread, huh?

It is , what about you. Did you have a question *

 

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It is , what about you. Did you have a question *

I know it came off sarcastic but I do appreciate you and your ability to generate thought-provoking conversation. I don't have a question, but I'll definitely keep an eye on this thread and contribute when and where I feel that I can. Keep rocking my dude

 

[ToPleaseHim]

1) if she says she’s not bi, believe her as you would the ‘gal pals’ who claim to be bi on hete.
2) it’s not your say if someone flaunts their sexuality ‘too much’ on - wait for it - A SEX BOARD. Just block those people. It’s super easy.
3) what’s a “queer” discussion?
4) it’s no ones responsibility to carry any flag for any group if they choose not to. You don’t get to define other people’s activism.

All of this

 

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