Lines you would NEVER cross?

[lne_iii]

I've been doing some more lurking, in this forum and others...and I see threads about necrophelia, incest...etc.

There are certain things that I would never do, even though I like to keep an open mind in most things.

For example...I would never mess with a dead body, or a family member...would never force myself on anyone...

I know everyone's different, and I say that's the spice of life...but what about YOU?

Are there things out there that y'all will *NEVER* do?

LNE

 

[leeroy jenkins]

I've been doing some more lurking, in this forum and others...and I see threads about necrophelia, incest...etc.

There are certain things that I would never do, even though I like to keep an open mind in most things.

For example...I would never mess with a dead body, or a family member...would never force myself on anyone...

I know everyone's different, and I say that's the spice of life...but what about YOU?

Are there things out there that y'all will *NEVER* do?

LNE

Animals and no incest either, that means I would be fucking my sister and she has been there, done that because of my step dad, the first not the current. Beyond that lets see what happens.

 

[shy slave]

There are lots of lines i won't cross and there are lines I was curious about, but thought I would never cross; but now have and I am glad I did.

I don't want to write a list of hard limits, thats what check lists are for, but there are conversational lines I don't ever want to cross.

Those include saying things I know will hurt him emotionally, just because I know they will hurt him.

Everyone says things when they are angry, hurt upset etc and sometimes we say cruel things in the heat of the moment.
I never want to say something that I regret so much it would cause damage, beyond repair to our relationship.
I have said unkind things to people, but not simply to cause hurt, its usually a result of personal emotional pain which causes me to verbally lash out.

Slowly I am learning not to do that, instead I cry; which at the time feels worse but its better in the long run.


OTOH when my family drive me insane with their attitudes I don't cross the line and say a few home truths, instead I get mad for several days and move on *sigh*

 

[Recidiva]

Lots of lines not to cross, incest (I've met my family), necrophilia...

Those lines are easy.

I'm married, and I won't cheat on my husband.

But it's sure fun pushing my nose against the glass, so to speak.

Some lines are harder not to cross.

Discipline, discipline, discipline.

 

[His_pita]

Of course I have lines that I would never cross. We have a contract and checklist that clearly state what those are.

 

[O'Mac]

Lines I won't cross? Actually quite a lot when I think of it.


If I'm sexually involved with someone I will never cheat on them.

Will never do incest. Well, don't have much family left anyways so it's a moot point.

Will never do beastiality. I consider it a form of cruelty.

Will never intentionally whip, slap, flog, or make any similar form of sexual contact that will cause serious damage.

Will never be into child porn or have sex with anyone under 18 years of age.

Will never do scat or anything else involving toxic human waste.


Probably a few more, but those are the most important, I suppose.

 

[raven2]

No animals, I also consider it a form of cruelty.

No incest.

Never intentionally be cruel to anyone or try to casue damage to them (either physically or emotionally).

No scat.

I don't have a problem with extramarital affairs or swinging so long as they are above board and safe, but would never do anything behind my wife's back.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I don't have a problem with extramarital affairs or swinging so long as they are above board and safe, but would never do anything behind my wife's back.

Yet another casualty of such things here today when a man was having an online affair behind his wife's back, then decided to tell her and expected her to let him bring his online lover into the house so he could meet her and do what comes naturally one would presume. Hmmm, wife said no way, he murdered her...guess he didn't get his date after all, and maybe the online lover should be counting her lucky stars.

Catalina

 

[raven2]

Yet another casualty of such things here today when a man was having an online affair behind his wife's back, then decided to tell her and expected her to let him bring his online lover into the house so he could meet her and do what comes naturally one would presume. Hmmm, wife said no way, he murdered her...guess he didn't get his date after all, and maybe the online lover should be counting her lucky stars.

Catalina

That is too bad, but I would never do anything until I had talked with my wife and we both felt OK with it.

 

[FurryFury]

With the right person at the right time, there is very little I wouldn't try at least once or twice. That being said, I have some thoughts on things others have mentioned here.

Incest, I won't actually do it but I'll play it, dream about it and fantasize about it.

Underage kids, I don't think I'd ever get into the porn because I'm generally not into porn period. I am not stupid enough to "educate" a young man but I've certainly thought about it. Again I've role played, fantasized and dreamed about being "abused" very young.

Animals, they scare me, the thought of how unthinking and instinctual they are or affecting them adversely BUT if I were with the right person who had access to an animal and it was something that person wanted I would quite possibly do that. Such actions would take me past the fantasies and such I now indulge in.

Scat, I would at least try for the right person. That again would take me past certain fantasies.

I won't have an affair but I might fuck others under certain circumstances.

I'm very unlikely to fuck the dead even if they want me to but I came close with my ex one time. I certainly wouldn't might playing out the fantasy of being dead and letting the right person fuck me.

Like, Shy, I try to never say things I will regret or hurt my darling in any way.

Fury

 

[dragonlace]

I have the same no-no's as most(incest, necrophilia, underage, beastiality,...)

But there are a few....Breathplay or confined spaces i cannot do, i tend to get a little too clostrophobic, hoods also apply as well because they give me the same feeling of not being able to breath and clostrophobia.

Also cutting or the like i couldn't do or anything that would leave permanent damage.

By the way Hello to everyone out there

 

[raven2]

I have the same no-no's as most(incest, necrophilia, underage, beastiality,...)

But there are a few....Breathplay or confined spaces i cannot do, i tend to get a little too clostrophobic, hoods also apply as well because they give me the same feeling of not being able to breath and clostrophobia.

Also cutting or the like i couldn't do or anything that would leave permanent damage.

By the way Hello to everyone out there

Hello to you.

 

[oddity83]

rape, incest, sex with animals or the dead, scat/pee play, and anything that will be perament. All hard lines for me.

 

[High-Tied]

Once again, we hit upon the eternal difference between fantasy and reality. What would be interesting is to see if anybody has limits to their fantasies. I know I do. Children are a huge no-no for me, unless I was to harken back to the days of my youth. What teenaged lad wouldn't want to be taught the lessons of sex from a beautiful and sensual older woman?

 

[bridgeburner]

Once again, we hit upon the eternal difference between fantasy and reality. What would be interesting is to see if anybody has limits to their fantasies. I know I do. Children are a huge no-no for me, unless I was to harken back to the days of my youth. What teenaged lad wouldn't want to be taught the lessons of sex from a beautiful and sensual older woman?

There are plenty of things I don't fantasize about, not because I think I'm going to hell if I think them but because they don't turn me on. I don't personally care if people kill and eat babies in their fantasy lives so long as it stays there.

-B

 

[FurryFury]

There are plenty of things I don't fantasize about, not because I think I'm going to hell if I think them but because they don't turn me on. I don't personally care if people kill and eat babies in their fantasy lives so long as it stays there.

-B

I so agree with you here! However I also believe that the more you feed a fantasy the more it takes over your desires and that is something to be careful of when a fantasy is a criminal act, I think.

Fury

 

[bridgeburner]

I so agree with you here! However I also believe that the more you feed a fantasy the more it takes over your desires and that is something to be careful of when a fantasy is a criminal act, I think.

Fury

It is certainly true that people who commit criminal acts often have obsessive fantasies, but the research supports exactly the opposite of what popular wisdom claims --- that such fantasies cause similar acts.

If violent fantasies and pornography were the cause of sexual violence then Japan would have a thousand times the rate of sexual assaults that the US has rather than a fraction of the number.

-B

 

[FurryFury]

It is certainly true that people who commit criminal acts often have obsessive fantasies, but the research supports exactly the opposite of what popular wisdom claims --- that such fantasies cause similar acts.

If violent fantasies and pornography were the cause of sexual violence then Japan would have a thousand times the rate of sexual assaults that the US has rather than a fraction of the number.

-B

That's interesting. I've seen both sides of this be argued.

Speaking just for myself, if I obsess over something that increases my need and eventually likelihood of doing it, particularly lately.

Fury

 

[High-Tied]

Speaking just for myself, if I obsess over something that increases my need and eventually likelihood of doing it, particularly lately.

Fury

And just what have you been obsessing about?

By the way, I hope you're feeling better today!

 

[FurryFury]

Thanks, I'm feeling a little better today, yes.

I obsess about so many things.

Meeting a "real" Dom, was one and it went on from there.

Anal sex was another.

Being spanked.

Oh but now? Now it's more of creating a relationship with a "real" Dom who will use me. Learning as much as I can about many aspects of BDSM. Learning to tie up my darling better. There are TONS of other things! I could go on ALL Day!

Fury

 

[bridgeburner]

That's interesting. I've seen both sides of this be argued.

Speaking just for myself, if I obsess over something that increases my need and eventually likelihood of doing it, particularly lately.

Fury

It becomes a bit of a chicken and egg argument, though. Are you obsessing over it because you want to do it or are you wanting to do it because you are being bombarded by images of something that you otherwise wouldn't care all that much about? ;->

-B

 

[FurryFury]

It becomes a bit of a chicken and egg argument, though. Are you obsessing over it because you want to do it or are you wanting to do it because you are being bombarded by images of something that you otherwise wouldn't care all that much about? ;->

-B

That is true. I don't have an answer for that either.

Fury

 

[bridgeburner]

That is true. I don't have an answer for that either.

Fury

No need for answers, the questions are plenty of fun in and of themselves.

-B

 

[FurryFury]

No need for answers, the questions are plenty of fun in and of themselves.

-B

*grins*

Fury

 

[Netzach]

I won't do anything I feel uncomfortable with, unprepared to do safely, and uninterested in doing.

I know that seems cryptic, but it's really a long laundry list and it depends who I'm doing it with. When I'm with one of my partners I will never use a knife. When I'm with another I will never put anything in his dickhole. When I'm with M I will never be intentionally verbally degrading.


Kids and animals are so out of the pale they don't show on my radar. Well, except for a Catherine the Greatlike horse obsession or two, but name me a woman who doesn't have a horse fixation of some kind. That is between me and my giant dildo, it's not like I'm about to head to the petting zoo.