like wedding vows almost.... only for a Master

[katalynn]

I was wanting to make up a vow /creed for my Master. Sadly I do not know how to start it. And I am not the best when it comes to things like this.

I am NOT looking to steal other peoples words or work. I'll definatly make up my own. However I am looking for some examples that will spark things up a little. I tried to look things up on the search but came up with stuff that was far, far from what I was looking for.

if you want to share a little about what you may have written, or can lead me to some sites. Much would be appreciative. Again, I'm not looking to be a copy cat, I tend to pick apart things and turn it into my own words and such. I just need that little spark with jusst the right words. Or if someone is willing to work with me and help me make something up that would work to. I am just horrible at finding the perfect words. And I want this to be just that ... perfect.

so any examples /sites or one on one help would be wonderful.

Again this is Kind of like wedding vows almost.... only its to a Master.

Kat ~

 

[subbie_333]

What is the setting in which this vow will be recited? An actual vanilla wedding? A collaring ceremony? A commitment ceremony? Or, something in private just between you two?

 

[katalynn]

In private between the 2 of us.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Best advice I can give is to just speak from the heart and with complete informed honesty...IOW, think carefully about what you might promise and how realistic it will be for you to keep to those promises as spoken. There is no such thing as perfect, and try as you may, if you hold that as the concept you want to reach nothing will seem to fit either at the time, or perhaps a later date when you think of something else you could have included, or said better. Another thing to remember when trying to map out the perfect wording is that unless you are very unusual it is likely you will not be able to remember it perfectly, and reading from a piece of paper or book can take away from the moment. Be yourself, discuss what might be expected and what might be realistic, and go from there.

Catalina

 

[the captians wench]

I've been thinking about something simular lately.

Jounar and I have always used an "email contract' of sorts. Everytime I agree to something I have to send him an email about it. Over the past 3 years, this has led to a lot of emails, so I've been contimplating a way to bring them all together. I'll have a think on it...

 

[minx1]

Well if you can get past the toppitoes and subbitoes bit this has some nice ideas I think

http://www.thebdsmsite.org/KBMsDsubbitoescollar.htm

I'm afraid I couldn't see anything else either, but it might give you a basis of somewhere to start.
I think its difficult write something like this because its such a big deal. It has to encapsulate all your feeling and commitments to him - no pressure there then! *smiles*

But I think a good idea would be to start brainstorming, just writing down in everything that you love about him, how he stirs you, what marrying him means to you, what you see as important in your marriage.

This will give you the best ideas and will come straight from your heart. Once you start and get your flow, I bet you will not be able to stop.

And remember its doesn't have to be perfect, it will be perfect to him in its honesty and rawness.


It is my biggest regret that my D and I never had a commitment ceremony of some description. I wish you much luck and happiness