Like a Virgin...

[Aurora Black]

If you could become a virgin again, would you do it?

Part of me screams "Hell no!" because it was so painful to lose in the first place. But there's another part (much smaller but still there) that would consider it, just out of curiosity about whether I'd lose it in a much hotter, less painful way than before. Sometimes I wonder if the first time would have been more exciting if I had gotten into it knowing the tricks that I know now.

 

[Aurora Black]

Afterthought...

Crap! This should have been a poll...

 

[carsonshepherd]

If you could become a virgin again, would you do it?

Part of me screams "Hell no!" because it was so painful to lose in the first place. But there's another part (much smaller but still there) that would consider it, just out of curiosity about whether I'd lose it in a much hotter, less painful way than before. Sometimes I wonder if the first time would have been more exciting if I had gotten into it knowing the tricks that I know now.

Absolutely not. I was the world's most reluctant virgin and when I finally lost it, it was such a fucking relief. If I could go back, I would've given it up much sooner.

 

[CrimsonMaiden]

No, I wouldn't do it over again. However, like Carson, I might would go back and do it sooner.

 

[HarleyStone]

There were good things and bad things about losing my virginity (which seems to have suddenly reappeared since I joined this swingin' hangout). The only way I'd want to go back and go through it again is if I had some of the knowledge I acquired when I lost it the first time. I don't put too much stock in fate handing me a better situation, because as firsts go mine wasn't all that bad.

 

[Aurora Black]

No, I wouldn't do it over again. However, like Carson, I might would go back and do it sooner.

Hmm. I lost mine pretty late, at 21. To be honest, I was glad that I'd waited so long. I wanted to wait for love.

*ducks to avoid flying eggs & rotten tomatoes*

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Absolutely not. I was the world's most reluctant virgin and when I finally lost it, it was such a fucking relief. If I could go back, I would've given it up much sooner.

Tell me about it. It's not something that I would care to experience again, either. I know the feeling, man. Finally losing it can be SOOOOOOO gooooood!

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Hmm. I lost mine pretty late, at 21. To be honest, I was glad that I'd waited so long. I wanted to wait for love.

*ducks to avoid flying eggs & rotten tomatoes*

What for? I won't throw any. That's the way some people are. Other people are different. It's a personal thing.

 

[cloudy]

Losing mine was actually sort of boring, and really anticlimatic as hell. I was just glad it was over with.

 

[HarleyStone]

Losing mine was actually sort of boring, and really anticlimatic as hell. I was just glad it was over with.

*whispers*
Should've test-driven a woman first.

 

[cloudy]

*whispers*
Should've test-driven a woman first.

(I was 16...what did I know? )

 

[CharleyH]

If you could become a virgin again, would you do it?

Part of me screams "Hell no!" because it was so painful to lose in the first place. But there's another part (much smaller but still there) that would consider it, just out of curiosity about whether I'd lose it in a much hotter, less painful way than before. Sometimes I wonder if the first time would have been more exciting if I had gotten into it knowing the tricks that I know now.

Every lost virginity makes the sexual person one is now - change it? Even when bad? And it is NEVER delightful (that first time, even when in love and I have yet to meet a previous virgin who thinks it was ).

I am who I sexually am at this moment because of THAT first time and the subsequent first times after that. Why change it? If it had worked out differently, would I have even met my beautiful love? (SWOON)

As a BTW note: (devilishly) There is a very popular plastic surgery where you can get your cherry back. Would you do that to experience it once more?

 

[Aurora Black]

As a BTW note: (devilishly) There is a very popular plastic surgery where you can get your cherry back. Would you do that to experience it once more?

I would discuss my strong personal aversion to plastic surgery, but that would be a whole other thread. The short answer is no.

 

[Norajane]

Hmm. I lost mine pretty late, at 21. To be honest, I was glad that I'd waited so long. I wanted to wait for love.

*ducks to avoid flying eggs & rotten tomatoes*

I was 20, same reason, and glad I waited.

I wouldn't do it over again, unless it was to make sure I had an orgasm before we went for the gold that night...I might have been more relaxed then.

 

[WyoD_S]

I would go back, but only if I knew what I know now, to use that knowledge to make it better not only for me, but for her.

 

[rgraham666]

Nope.

And there is a doctor in Spain who restores the hymens of Saudi Arabian princesses. At $20,000 US a pop. Does about three a month.

 

[Colleen Thomas]

No is too mild

Hell no is still short.

Absofuckingloutly no fucking way comes close.

 

[zeb1094]

Damn it was so long ago! And I know exactly where and when and with whom. And as there was no pain involved for me, sure. As I remember correctly I found it very exciting and pleasurable.

It was for her too. She was not a virgin.

 

[entitled]

i would, in a heartbeat. For personal reasons. i was cheated out of losing my virginity in a 'normal' way and would like to experience that.

 

[CrimsonMaiden]

Hmm. I lost mine pretty late, at 21. To be honest, I was glad that I'd waited so long. I wanted to wait for love.

*ducks to avoid flying eggs & rotten tomatoes*

Yeah, I did too. But now I wonder if I missed out on something since I've only ever been with one person. I think I wouldn't have those thoughts if I'd had more experiences. (btw, when I say when I did, I'm talking about voluntarily... though I was still later than most during the first "technical" time. I'm not counting it though. The out of parenthesis comment pertains only to voluntary actions.)

 

[JamesSD]

No, I would not.

I love easy quesitons!

 

[carsonshepherd]

Hmm. I lost mine pretty late, at 21. To be honest, I was glad that I'd waited so long. I wanted to wait for love.

*ducks to avoid flying eggs & rotten tomatoes*

I was 17. I waited for someone who was all about getting in my pants.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Mine was painless and fun, but not real romantic. By the time I came to do it with a boy, I had destroyed my own hymen.
He was in love with someone else, and we both knew it, but we were freinds and I trusted him and thought he'd know what to do.
oh yeah- i was 16-1/2 and those six months drove me crazy!

 

[elsol]

Do I get my 50 bucks back if I say yes?

Sincerely,
ElSol

 

[Stella_Omega]

Do I get my 50 bucks back if I say yes?

Sincerely,
ElSol

NO Refunds, didn't you read the sign?