Easyvirtue
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How do I get my wife to experiment with light domination of me! Want her to dominate me.
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AnnieLit
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By asking? 
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It really depends on what is "light" for you.
If you want to be spanked, then why not just tell you wife that you always wanted to find out how a belt on you butt will feel? I know you would probably prefer her hand, but it is harder for her.
If ... I don't know... you want her to tie you up and peg you, then you are trouble - it might take years to get there.
)It really depends on what is "light" for you.
If you want to be spanked, then why not just tell you wife that you always wanted to find out how a belt on you butt will feel? I know you would probably prefer her hand, but it is harder for her.
If ... I don't know... you want her to tie you up and peg you, then you are trouble - it might take years to get there.
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Do you guys indulge in kinky shenanigans right now? Will this be a totally out of left field request?
Google bdsm quiz - maybe you guys could take something like that together - use it as a springboard for conversation.
Are you switchy at all? One of the ways you might get her to do stuff to you is to do it to her first. Something non-scary, sensual, like blindfolds, teasing, denying.
If you have NOT done kinky stuff, the idea of a woman dominating her man can seem super cliche weird - like you want to suck her toes, wear a collar, have her in leather with a whip. Not that there's anything wrong with that. But - as much as you want to be dominated - you probably (as others have suggested) have to take the lead.
Good luck!
Google bdsm quiz - maybe you guys could take something like that together - use it as a springboard for conversation.
Are you switchy at all? One of the ways you might get her to do stuff to you is to do it to her first. Something non-scary, sensual, like blindfolds, teasing, denying.
If you have NOT done kinky stuff, the idea of a woman dominating her man can seem super cliche weird - like you want to suck her toes, wear a collar, have her in leather with a whip. Not that there's anything wrong with that.
But - as much as you want to be dominated - you probably (as others have suggested) have to take the lead.Good luck!
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I would suggest finding a more or less mainstream movie that includes a few scenes of domination and watching it together. You might want to preview the movie to be sure that the amount of dominance portrayed is enough to be intriguing but not so much that it could turn your wife off. Then use the movie experience as a jumping-off place for a discussion of a scene or two that you found hot. I don’t have a great example right at hand but one may come to me and others around here might have suggestions as well.
