Life problems

[Workinguy20]

Hey everyone !

My name is X well lets just leave that out lol. Anyway I am 18 and I have had feelings about guys for I dont know maybe 3 or 4 years. Up until this past summer they were just that feelings but I took it to another step when i asked my friend who I have known all my life if he would ever let me suck his cock. At first he said no but a few days went by and one day he said sure so sense then I have sucked him a few times and I have liked it. I now have a girl friend who knows nothing of any of this and I would like to keep it that way. I still want to explore with guys but I love her and would like to keep her in the drak about any of this. Anyone have any tips or just thoughts about this matter please anything would be nice

Thanks

 

[pogogirl]

Hey everyone !

My name is X well lets just leave that out lol. Anyway I am 18 and I have had feelings about guys for I dont know maybe 3 or 4 years. Up until this past summer they were just that feelings but I took it to another step when i asked my friend who I have known all my life if he would ever let me suck his cock. At first he said no but a few days went by and one day he said sure so sense then I have sucked him a few times and I have liked it. I now have a girl friend who knows nothing of any of this and I would like to keep it that way. I still want to explore with guys but I love her and would like to keep her in the drak about any of this. Anyone have any tips or just thoughts about this matter please anything would be nice

Thanks

Why do you want to keep her in the dark about this? Are you afraid she won't except it? If I were you I would talk to her about it and if she loves and care about you you shouldn't have to worry about her getting so upset. It might be a shock to her at first but mabey she might want to get in on it. You guys could have fun together. I am talking with my ex about getting back together again and we decided that we start from the begining and date and stuff like that. We also said this time we would leave nothing in the dark and tell eachother whats really on our minds because we think that might have been the problem we had. So we were talking and he told me he was bi curious. I asked him how come he thought he couldn't tell me that when were together before and he said he didn't know. That that was just something you keep deep down inside you. I told that I wished he had told me before because that is something I think we could explore together. Of course he already knew I was bi curious. We are thinking that mabey after awhile we will invite another man to join us sometime. I would love nothing more then to share this with him. So I hope this helped in some way. Didn't mean to go on and on.