Life is unfair! Share your stories

[Easternwindz]

Just recently a friend of mine passed away in a tragic accident. He was 28 years of age. He was among the best of men I ever knew, a true gentleman, and ran a successful business. He married the love of his life just a year ago, a stunningly gorgeous, smart and wonderful lady. We all went to college together and were good friends. His wife was our junior in college and would be around 26 years of age. Every guy that laid eyes on her wanted to win her heart but she had eyes only for my friend.

Now in our culture, if a married man dies at a younger age and happens to have a younger brother who happens to be unmarried, then the younger brother is obligated to marry his brother's widow. I know this sounds crazy in this modern age, but it's true.

And what angers and frustrates me is that my friend's younger brother is a good for nothing fellow, dropped out of college, still lives with his parents, does not have a job, shabby and arrogant in every way. And to think he is now enjoying my friend's beautiful wife every single night just drives me so mad, not to mention he also inherited all that his brother has worked for all these years. What did this guy ever do to deserve such a good fortune? And to rub salt into the wound, he talks about it as though he had no choice but to step up to his obligation of marrying his brother's wife, as our culture dictates. Yes, he has a choice to decline the obligation cause it's never forced, but why in the world would he ever decline such good fortune?

Now, every time I meet the wife my heart cries out "life's not fair!!!"

Care to share any such stories if you have any?

 

[screwher]

My wife my story

Personally I don't consider this contribution to be unfair. But some people on this site have expressed that it was. So I'm just going to share my story here and let every one decide for themselves.

Years ago my wife cheated on me the first time. She became attracted to another man. He eventually took her to a hotel where he fucked her. I was furious and it almost ruined our relationship. Soon after though I started to become aroused by her infidelity. I started to fantasize about other men screwing her and secretly hoped she'd drop her panties for another man again. The past couple summers my wife took trips to another city to visit some family on her side. There she met another man, a friend of her sister's husband. They obviously hit it off and my wife saw it as an opportunity for a summer fling. She had sex with him during both trips. When she got home the second time she confessed her trysts. Inside I was ecstatic when she told me. I loved that another man fucked her again. Soon after I confessed to her that her indiscretions turned me on. I gave her my blessing and encouragement to continue. Soon after that she told me of a male coworker she's become attracted to. She's now in a sexual relationship with him.

So now our marriage has evolved into a semi open relationship. My wife can have sex with other men while I remain faithful. I'm actually good with this arrangement and don't see it as unfair. It was my fantasies and desires that pushed us towards this new lifestyle. My wife doesn't share the same fantasies of sharing her spouse. She would be devastated if I slept with another woman. Yes she cheated but cheating on a cheater is still cheating. My wife made some mistakes but people are human.

So my wife can have sex with hundreds of guys if she chooses. It would be wrong if I slept with another woman. Fair or unfair?

 

[Easternwindz]

I consider the above arrangement totally fair as it's done with your full consent.