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estevie said:hmmmm...interesting
I live my life according to estevie...not anyone else.
Get some, then stay out in the sunlight where the radioactive glow is less obvious...Harbinger said:that KillerMuffin was the very first thing about Lit that hooked me. *sigh* But I heard she doesn't go for highly radioactive kabuki mutants with troll-breath. I get that a lot.
Yeh could go back and take out all the carriage-returns--that would shorten things up a bit.Batgirl said:Damn that was a long post.....sorry about that.
LukkyKnight said:
then stay out in the sunlight where the radioactive glow is less obvious...
Originally Posted by KillerMuffin here
I'm married, to my StudMuffin for 12 years running now.
I flirt, sometimes outrageously, but only with people who understand that flirting is just flirting. They are words backed by no promises.
Flirting isn't cheating, or is it? To my family it's not. He flirts with everything in estrogen. I flirt online, but not in real life because IRL they sometimes think a flirt = promise. It's like looking. He's married, not dead.
Cybering, is it cheating? Well that depends on the marriage.
Phone sex?
Meeting?
This is the litmus test, do you hide it from your spouse? Not do you think you have to, or s/he can find it if s/he really wants to, but do you, right now, hide your online activities from your spouse? If so, you're cheating.
To me cheating is taking the best part of yourself and giving to someone other than your spouse. If you're having marital problems, cheating online, even if it feels like it isn't, will only make things worse for you, not just your spouse. If your marriage is that unhappy, then the thing to concentrate on is fixing it. If your spouse is uncooperative, then perhaps time would be better spent getting a divorce and getting a life that would make you happy.
The question is this, is your happiness more important than your integrity?
I think BC's a cheat because of things that she's said regarding her relationships with her husband and the varied males she's carried on with. But that's not my lookout nor does my opinion matter. It's her life to live and I think she's the best person to decide how to live it. It doesn't matter what I think and I don't treat her any different than I treat anyone else here. At least I don't think I do.
It's her life to live and no one else has one whit of say in it. If she wanted my advice on marriage she would have asked. She hasn't and I don't give it. I also try very hard not to be judgemental, but that's almost impossible since I'm human and everyone's like that.
So, in answer. Who really has a right to cast the first stone? Certainly not I. I may not cheat, but I've got a whole slew of other character flaws that certainly keep my happy ass amongst the rest of the human race.
Trolls who judge others in anonymity should understand that they are not without failures themselves. Their judgements are worth nothing except the maliciousness they spill.
Scabbers said:
Yeh could go back and take out all the carriage-returns--that would shorten things up a bit.
I checked out your geocities page. Pretty lady. Can't imagine bats hanging off the drapes in the lounge, tho'. Of course I'm in just a small bed-sitter. The vermin are all I need for company.