Life According to KillerMuffin - Chapter One

So where do we go for Chapter 2?

Or should I just post the lyrics to Get Over It?
 
My favorite KMism...

"I think BC's a cheat because of things that she's said regarding her relationships with her husband and the varied males she's carried on with."
 
Can I add to this please?
I actually have this on my home page, http://www.geocities.com/batgirl44au/
I found it somewhere along the line but have added to it myself.

You cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
No matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.
That it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
It's not what you have in your life, but whom you have in your life that counts.
You can get by on charm for about 15 minutes. After that, you'd better know something.
You shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do.
It's not what happens to people that's important. It's what they do about it.
You can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
No matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides.
It's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
It's a lot easier to react than it is to think.
You should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
You can keep going long after you think you can't.
We are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
Either you control your attitude or it controls you.
Regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.
I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
Learning to forgive takes practice.
There are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.
My best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
Sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down may be the ones to help you get back up.
I'm getting more and more like my grandma, and I'm kind of happy about it.
Sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
True friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.
Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want him or her too doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
Maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
Your family won't always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again.
No matter how good a friend someone is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them
It isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
No matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.
Our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
Sometimes when my friends fight, I'm forced to choose sides even when I don't want to.
Just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
Sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions.
We don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
You shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
The clothes I like best are the ones with the most holes in them.
Two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.
No matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.
No matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves, get further in life.
Many things can be powered by the mind, the trick is self-control.
No matter how many friends you have, you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them most.
Even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.
Writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.
Credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
The people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.
Although the word "love" can have many different meanings, it loses value when overly used.
It's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe.
Love is not for me to keep, but to pass on to the next person
Even if you do the right thing for the wrong reason, it's still the wrong thing to do.
 
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hmmmm...interesting

I live my life according to estevie...not anyone else.
 
estevie said:
hmmmm...interesting

I live my life according to estevie...not anyone else.

Everyone should live by their own convictions. You make decisions in life and you must live with them. Should *bratcat* have disappeared? Her decision and hers alone. I know the underlying reasons for it, and abide by her wishes. I love her and she is still there in RL.:) :)
 
Dear Troll

When you dare to come out into the light, your judgement may merit consideration. When you have walked in the shoes of the person (or people) you want to accuse but are too timid to confront, your post(s) may contribute to the understanding others have. When you can be yourself, 24x7, when you can own your actions, and embody your beliefs publicly, you may begin to matter.
 
I'm not ashamed to say...

that KillerMuffin was the very first thing about Lit that hooked me. *sigh* But I heard she doesn't go for highly radioactive kabuki mutants with troll-breath. I get that a lot.
 
altoids, dude

Harbinger said:
that KillerMuffin was the very first thing about Lit that hooked me. *sigh* But I heard she doesn't go for highly radioactive kabuki mutants with troll-breath. I get that a lot.
Get some, then stay out in the sunlight where the radioactive glow is less obvious...
 
See that little button marked "edit"?

Batgirl said:
Damn that was a long post.....sorry about that.
Yeh could go back and take out all the carriage-returns--that would shorten things up a bit.
I checked out your geocities page. Pretty lady. Can't imagine bats hanging off the drapes in the lounge, tho'. Of course I'm in just a small bed-sitter. The vermin are all I need for company.
 
Re: altoids, dude

LukkyKnight said:

then stay out in the sunlight where the radioactive glow is less obvious...

sunlight is bad for my pallor
 
There was a troll? Oh, that pathetic attempt at snideness. Sorry, I was too busy laughing at the obvious attempt to hurt bratcat with that one. Not even worth my time.

However, BC is.

In case she never read that particular post, here it is:

Originally Posted by KillerMuffin here
I'm married, to my StudMuffin for 12 years running now.
I flirt, sometimes outrageously, but only with people who understand that flirting is just flirting. They are words backed by no promises.

Flirting isn't cheating, or is it? To my family it's not. He flirts with everything in estrogen. I flirt online, but not in real life because IRL they sometimes think a flirt = promise. It's like looking. He's married, not dead.

Cybering, is it cheating? Well that depends on the marriage.
Phone sex?
Meeting?

This is the litmus test, do you hide it from your spouse? Not do you think you have to, or s/he can find it if s/he really wants to, but do you, right now, hide your online activities from your spouse? If so, you're cheating.

To me cheating is taking the best part of yourself and giving to someone other than your spouse. If you're having marital problems, cheating online, even if it feels like it isn't, will only make things worse for you, not just your spouse. If your marriage is that unhappy, then the thing to concentrate on is fixing it. If your spouse is uncooperative, then perhaps time would be better spent getting a divorce and getting a life that would make you happy.

The question is this, is your happiness more important than your integrity?

I think BC's a cheat because of things that she's said regarding her relationships with her husband and the varied males she's carried on with. But that's not my lookout nor does my opinion matter. It's her life to live and I think she's the best person to decide how to live it. It doesn't matter what I think and I don't treat her any different than I treat anyone else here. At least I don't think I do.

It's her life to live and no one else has one whit of say in it. If she wanted my advice on marriage she would have asked. She hasn't and I don't give it. I also try very hard not to be judgemental, but that's almost impossible since I'm human and everyone's like that.

So, in answer. Who really has a right to cast the first stone? Certainly not I. I may not cheat, but I've got a whole slew of other character flaws that certainly keep my happy ass amongst the rest of the human race.

Trolls who judge others in anonymity should understand that they are not without failures themselves. Their judgements are worth nothing except the maliciousness they spill.
 
Re: See that little button marked "edit"?

Scabbers said:

Yeh could go back and take out all the carriage-returns--that would shorten things up a bit.
I checked out your geocities page. Pretty lady. Can't imagine bats hanging off the drapes in the lounge, tho'. Of course I'm in just a small bed-sitter. The vermin are all I need for company.

lol, actually I hadn't heard of the edit button - but I have now, thanks!

Alright maybe I don't really have bats on the curtains (just a slight embellishment) they have their own 'bat mobile'.....although they would rather be on the curtains.....lol
Nothing wrong with vermin - if they are at your house and not mine..lol:D
 
It's your life, cat, and no one has the right to judge you on it. The rub is that we're human and that's what we do. *sighs* I'm judgemental and hoity-toity about it to boot. I try not to be, but you see how far that's gotten.
 
Yahblah, don't bother posting all the good stuff in your life for the trolls to pick over. Some things ain't worth the hassle. You know who your friends are and they'll be thrilled to hear about it.

Good luck to you! Everyone deserves a good piece of happiness.

I think its the toity. You can see a hint of the toitties in my old av, but not this one. Just a big green ass. Just like me. :)

PACKERS!!!!! *slaps hand over mouth* That just slipped out...
 
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