Letting your wife flirt with other men

[New_Experience]

Have you ever gone out with your wife and let other men flirt with her while you watch from a distance. I've considered approaching my wife about this but I'm just wondering if it is all worth it.

Have you and your spouse ever indulged in this fantasy? If so...how far did she let things go with the guy? Was it a turn on?

NE

 

[koalabear]

Mine flirted with me till the divorce.........

 

[borisk]

As always discuss this with her and set boundries.

My wife and I would goto clubs seperatly without our rings. It was exciting to see others trying to win her affection. We never allowed kissing or anything sexual but grinding and flirting. Afterwards we would compare notes. It was a turn on for us.

 

[New_Experience]

That sounds like fun. I have a feeling that if we would probably set pretty strict boundries at first. Then if the situation was a turn on for both of us, we could loosen those restrictions.

I think it might be fun to see my wife dance with another guy.

 

[johnph22]

I would be all for it. I am up for swapping or even watching her with another man.

 

[hollyocks]

Have you ever gone out with your wife and let other men flirt with her while you watch from a distance. I've considered approaching my wife about this but I'm just wondering if it is all worth it.

Have you and your spouse ever indulged in this fantasy? If so...how far did she let things go with the guy? Was it a turn on?

NE

as the others say hun.... take care and discuss it with her.... if she's up for it lay out the ground rules.... i had a b/f the other year who liked seeing me with other guys... it began with flirting his mates, dirty dancing, bit of kissing, some groping.... while jerry watched from across the room with a hard-on and wound up after a month or so with me in a bedroom with 4 of his mates and him... all naked, all doing me that was a lot of fun i sort of got fed up with him as a person shortly after and we broke up, nothing to do with the kinky sex, we both loved all that... but then we weren't married or tied to each other really.

 

[jay810426]

Hollly your box is full again.

 

[jay810426]

That sounds like fun. I have a feeling that if we would probably set pretty strict boundries at first. Then if the situation was a turn on for both of us, we could loosen those restrictions.

I think it might be fun to see my wife dance with another guy.

Dance with another guy? I think you're in a whole different world there buddy.

As for me I've told my wife she could fool around with a guy as long as I got to do the same thing with a girl and she woudn't go for it so... oh well.

 

[hollyocks]

Hollly your box is full again.

funny i never felt a thing

 

[jay810426]

funny i never felt a thing

Well then it must not be me filling your box cuz i'm sure you would feel that.

 

[Jailhouse]

funny i never felt a thing

That was a clever answer.

/as you were

 

[hollyocks]

That was a clever answer.

/as you were

ta luv just me i'm afraid, wacky bitch

 

[New_Experience]

as the others say hun.... take care and discuss it with her.... if she's up for it lay out the ground rules.... i had a b/f the other year who liked seeing me with other guys... it began with flirting his mates, dirty dancing, bit of kissing, some groping.... while jerry watched from across the room with a hard-on and wound up after a month or so with me in a bedroom with 4 of his mates and him... all naked, all doing me that was a lot of fun i sort of got fed up with him as a person shortly after and we broke up, nothing to do with the kinky sex, we both loved all that... but then we weren't married or tied to each other really.

I don't think we would take it further than kissing and some gentle groping. And I wouldn't want to see her with a friend of mine. What I would like to do is try it while we are out of town one weekend.

 

[hollyocks]

I don't think we would take it further than kissing and some gentle groping. And I wouldn't want to see her with a friend of mine. What I would like to do is try it while we are out of town one weekend.

i know where you're coming from hun..... there's the embarrassment factor with friends isn't there, what they think of you, the awkwardness later in the cold light of day..... not that i'm an expert, but it seems more sort of intimate if a trusted friend were engaging in gentle mild sensual behaviour with her..... the increased bond of friendship like as well as giving all concerned sensual/sexual stimulation..... but it's also safer than strangers surely..... you let her tease and flirt with some guy or guys you don't know anything about, and all manner could happen..... picture it, she's allowing some guys with maybe criminal records for rape mess with her, teasing them but not letting them have the prize at the end of the tease...... i don't know how big and strong you are to protect her hun, but women have been raped in front of their hubby before now...... worse still, evil unknown stalkers are nasty things to have follow you home.

nother thing you got to think of with strangers in particular..... who's to say she won't fall for some guy big time and take his phone number unkown to you..... if he's got her sexually aroused and she likes him a lot..... female talking here luv i know these things you can always keep a bit of an eye on things with friends...... specially if you pick one that married and unlikely to want to fuck his wife off