Let's talk about the male orgasm

[Not Normal]

I was having very good sex the other night. We'd gone several rounds, with rests and different positions. I had my partner on her stomach and I was fucking her pretty vigorously. She had cum several times in the course of our activities and I finally getting to the place where I could finally cum. She was encouraging both in her moans and reactions, but also saying things like "C'mon, baby, I'm ready."

I got a little more aggressive, getting ready to explode. And here's the crux of the biscuit, as to making this thread. For me, when I get there I like to stop all motion. There is that exquisite moment, right before ejaculation where my whole body tingles, I know what's going happen. And then the pulses start... A new sensation, the release as my cum flows, forceful then calm. I generally collapse into whomever I'm with at the point once most of my cum is expelled. Breathing hard, joyous, and SPENT!

I'm not sure if I'm unique in wanting everything to stop and to just like my dick do it's thing. I feel moving my hips into a partner, or even my hand continuing as I cum lessens the impact of my orgasm.

Thoughts? Comments?

Please add your experiences if you'd like to share.

 

[cdstefi]

Not unique. There's that moment where you just want to focus on that glorious release. I do it in sex or masturbating.

 

[NOBGE]

I was having very good sex the other night. We'd gone several rounds, with rests and different positions. I had my partner on her stomach and I was fucking her pretty vigorously. She had cum several times in the course of our activities and I finally getting to the place where I could finally cum. She was encouraging both in her moans and reactions, but also saying things like "C'mon, baby, I'm ready."

I got a little more aggressive, getting ready to explode. And here's the crux of the biscuit, as to making this thread. For me, when I get there I like to stop all motion. There is that exquisite moment, right before ejaculation where my whole body tingles, I know what's going happen. And then the pulses start... A new sensation, the release as my cum flows, forceful then calm. I generally collapse into whomever I'm with at the point once most of my cum is expelled. Breathing hard, joyous, and SPENT!

I'm not sure if I'm unique in wanting everything to stop and to just like my dick do it's thing. I feel moving my hips into a partner, or even my hand continuing as I cum lessens the impact of my orgasm.

Thoughts? Comments?

Please add your experiences if you'd like to share.

No, you aren’t alone. My lover can sense when I’m about to cum because she can feel my cock throbbing. To me, that’s the difference between an orgasm and ejaculating.

 

[bestkeptsecret678]

That point where time stops…which defies description, so I won’t try.

It also explains the world’s population explosion over the past 2 centuries; it seems all of us experience the same, to whatever degree, so let’s go … again.

 

[Wonderer67]

My wife and I engage in Orgasm control, with her controlling mine. We have sex 3-4x a week. I cum once every few weeks, but it really works well for us.

For me, just edging inside her is as nice as having an orgasm. Like the OP, we typically fuck in several different positions, change positions, slow down when I’m close, etc.

This morning I was fucking her from behind and just enjoying how tingly and almost electric my cock felt as I approached orgasm. But instead of cumming, I just kept at it, the slowed down, then fucked hard, slowed down… barely moved as i was so close etc…

When I do cum, she likes to see it. Sometimes she ruins it. But she always wants to see it. I rarely cum inside her.

She like to release me with long edging handjobs. Keeping me on the brink, she gets into my delegation to release.

This prolongs sex and makes for extremely intense orgasms for me when they happen.

She also cums a lot. Everyone’s (usually satisfied)

 

[Scotchlander]

I wonder if anyone has the same problem as I have or am I abnormal?

After I have ejaculated, my cock stays hard for at least three or four minutes after.

After a recent encounter a female asked if I was on viagra, as most men’s cock go soft more or less straight away. She is not the first to mention this to me.

I have never seen this as a problem, but wonder if this is normal?

 

[Not Normal]

I wonder if anyone has the same problem as I have or am I abnormal?

After I have ejaculated, my cock stays hard for at least three or four minutes after.

After a recent encounter a female asked if I was on viagra, as most men’s cock go soft more or less straight away. She is not the first to mention this to me.

I have never seen this as a problem, but wonder if this is normal?

My erection doesn't immediately go away. Some times it sticks around longer than other times.

 

[Rickstrasser]

I think a good lover senses that and enjoys having you push into her as you ejaculate.

 

[TinaG_2023]

The best way!!

 

[cheney_dude_2022]

The best way!!

That is always the best way for her to remember your orgasm by.

 

[live4thebj]

Who knows how many orgasms I had since puberty. But there is only a handful that stick out. The thing is I have no idea for those that stick out what resulted them in being so intense.

 

[ZfrkS62]

I've been more mindful of my climaxes lately and I've started noticing that although I ejaculate regularly during sex, I don't always orgasm. No, it's not premature. We're usually at it for a healthy length of time. But there's definitely a lack of exhaustion that comes with a real orgasm backed ejaculation.

I'd love to be able to separate the two in the other direction where I orgasm without cumming, but that might be a different kind of training.

 

[CuttingEdge]

I remember a few over the years but the last one I had was surprisingly memorable.

The wife gave me a handjob, and while laying down, one jettison shot all the way up onto my right shoulder, it was so powerful. I have never done that before. It was not on the first pulse however, but the third one. It was a very powerful orgasm overall and copious in volume.

Rare for me.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I think the best orgasms I had were nice and slow, with three fingers up my arse, legs up and BLASTING cum all over my belly.

 

[Travler99921]

I have orgasms three ways. One is intercourse with my wife. The second is hand jobs from either my wife or a male partner. The third is masturbation. I find that there is great deal of difference in how these orgasams feel. Which one I prefer depends on my mood. I must admit I probably have my most intense orgasms from masturbation, but I do miss the intimacy of sex with another person.

Marital sex now often consists of my wife cumming from cunnilingus and then I masturbate while she plays with my balls. This works well for both of us.

 

[Swuchmann]

I have orgasms three ways. One is intercourse with my wife. The second is hand jobs from either my wife or a male partner. The third is masturbation. I find that there is great deal of difference in how these orgasams feel. Which one I prefer depends on my mood. I must admit I probably have my most intense orgasms from masturbation, but I do miss the intimacy of sex with another person.

Marital sex now often consists of my wife cumming from cunnilingus and then I masturbate while she plays with my balls. This works well for both of us.

My orgasms cum from intercourse with my wife or another female, oral, masturbation and anal sex as a bottom. The most intense orgasms for me are from anal sex and my top stimulating my p-spot with his cock.

 

[Rickstrasser]

I think the best orgasms I had were nice and slow, with three fingers up my arse, legs up and BLASTING cum all over my belly.

That prostate always helps...

 

[SPARTAN047]

That prostate always helps...

Oh hell yes, I really need that arse played with. Particularly someone else.


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[1960curious]

I think cumming and a orgasm can totaly be diffrent.
I can cum without having a orgasm and I can have a orgasm without cumming!
When I have just sex with my wife, get her wet and fuck her till I cum.
When we make passionate love I orgasm.
I love to play with her wet pussy and clit while sucking her titties! She caresses my cock and balls Usally always ends up with her and I having a orgasm togeather! We all but pass out afterwards because it took every thing out of us!

I also can have a orgasm with out cumming by sucking my 8" cock dildo and then fucking my ass with it by putting the suction cup on the edge of the tub. Lubing up my ass and the cock. Sliding up and down on it till I can take all of it deep in my ass.
It feels so fucking good. I have a orgasm without cumming!

Now just shooting cum is so fast and easy, just get hard lube up and stroke my cock, shoot cum and then clean up and go about the day!

 

[Paul1995]

I'm so close to cum if any woman would like to see me cum
https://ibb.co/j3mRN0B

 

[Beholders_Eye]

The key for me is edging ever closer to orgasm. Like riding a wave before it crests. Holding that intense desire as long as possible. And then, release. Sometimes it means slowing down a bit, but not too much, then a bit faster; takes practice and discipline. Nowadays, the resulting orgasm is so powerful as to leave me pretty much stunned, letting time stand still as my body embraces the experience.

 

[Goldenfinger]

The best is with prostate stimulation.

 

[Hardguy6]

The key for me is edging ever closer to orgasm. Like riding a wave before it crests. Holding that intense desire as long as possible. And then, release. Sometimes it means slowing down a bit, but not too much, then a bit faster; takes practice and discipline. Nowadays, the resulting orgasm is so powerful as to leave me pretty much stunned, letting time stand still as my body embraces the experience.

Yes, same here
Edge till I get to the edge of the point of no return, then slow way down, relax, then repeat till I just can’t take it any longer.
The release is so much more satisfying, enjoyable and powerful.
I love my pleasure therapy sessions.

 

[Wonderer67]

My wife and I like to leave it on the edge and not cum (for me) very often.

When we have long and intense sessions I don’t ejaculate but I can almost have that feeling that I have. I don’t get the pleasure or penis sensation of ejaculation but I do sort of get that dopamine relief feeling, even without cumming.

 

[Britva415]

I don't come in a series of spurts, it's always in one big shot. There are more spasms after the ejaculation, but nothing more than a drop comes out.

And I haven't mastered the art of edging. I either can't stay aroused if I don't go all the way there, or, I can't stop the orgasm if I get too close.