I have a lover with whom I have a great relationship. The downside is that he already has a long-term partner and his schedule has become more complicated over time. He knows that I am looking for a regular partnership myself -- e.g. the kind where you get to hang out with mutual friends and have holidays with the relatives -- but finding an eligible person has been a challenge, especially as ich spreche und lese nur ein sehr bisschen Deutsch. Wirklich.
You: smart (well-read and geeky are turn ons), confident, sexually playful, good sense of humor, at least 30 years old but preferably less than 45, NON-SMOKING, have time and interest in regular dates, and comfortable with the English language (even if you're not fluent). Your gender and race are irrelevant factors.
Me: black, American, living in Berlin, witty, laid-back and kind. Kind of goofy, so if "poised and classy" is your operating framework, I am not your woman. No doormat, but slightly sexually submissive (if you like that sort of thing). I am not trying to run off the "regulars" nor is this an invitation to show me your basement dungeon... ;-)
You cannot be married or in a partnership for which "discretion" is required. No, and no again.
You: smart (well-read and geeky are turn ons), confident, sexually playful, good sense of humor, at least 30 years old but preferably less than 45, NON-SMOKING, have time and interest in regular dates, and comfortable with the English language (even if you're not fluent). Your gender and race are irrelevant factors.
Me: black, American, living in Berlin, witty, laid-back and kind. Kind of goofy, so if "poised and classy" is your operating framework, I am not your woman. No doormat, but slightly sexually submissive (if you like that sort of thing). I am not trying to run off the "regulars" nor is this an invitation to show me your basement dungeon... ;-)
You cannot be married or in a partnership for which "discretion" is required. No, and no again.
