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In_Mars_Orbit

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It’s been a very long time since I posted anything like this. I’m pretty rusty, so I’m just going to say what I’m thinking and we’ll go from there, shall we?

Let me say right up front that I’m married. If that’s a dealbreaker, I completely understand. Thanks for reading this far, and I wish you the best of luck in finding the right person for you.

But if you’re still interested, let’s keep going.

What I’m looking for might be rather unique. It’s hard to put into words, but I’ll try: I’m looking for a man who needs some attention and affection. I want someone who will look forward to hearing from me. I want to stoke your anticipation and make you breathless at the thought of my next email. I want to make you feel like the amazing man you are.

I want to be the best part of your day.

I want to create a special space for just the two of us, something that is private and quiet and safe. I want the kind of secret relationship that builds into something that matters and makes life wonderful for both of us.

I don’t want to ruin your life or take you away from your family or make you wonder or worry about what comes next – that is definitely not my style. Rather, I want to enhance your life. I want to discover what you’ve been missing, and give it to you.

Maybe what we’ll have is an email flirtation. Maybe we’ll progress to talking on some messenger program. Maybe we’ll start texting. Maybe we’ll have a phone call…and maybe that will turn into dozens or hundreds. And maybe we’ll eventually decide to meet and see where that leads us. I’m open to any of the above, as long as we’re taking it slow and really getting to know each other along the way.

If you’re still reading, here’s more about me: I’m an adventurous woman in my early 40s. I’m into music – listening to it, playing around with it, making it. To say I’m creative is an understatement. I’m certainly not a supermodel, but I can turn the occasional head when I play dress up. I’m from the American south. I’m quite liberal, well-traveled, and open-minded.

Who are you? Are you the guy I’m looking for? Everyone has their preferences and I do have a few: I have a soft spot for the men of all colors who make up a true melting pot. I love a man who can introduce me to new cultures and beliefs and ideas. I like a guy who thinks outside the box. I like a man who isn’t afraid to be himself and trusts me to do the same. And I like my men young…or young at heart.

You’re single, married, complicated? That's okay. I’m open to the possibilities. Let’s talk about it.

And that leads us to the bottom line: If you’re looking for a woman who can brighten your days and make your life a little better, hit me up. I’d love to find out what we can discover together.
 
Hi there. Just wanted to say welcome back to Lit. I must admit your post is extremely well written and I do like the forward, no nonsense style you use to put every thing right out there. If i hadn't already found someone that means the world to me you would already have a pm sent.

I do hope you find who and what it is you are looking for. Trust me that it is possible here. It worked for me. :)
 
I'm a 29 year old married guy. I'd be willing to start chatting and see where things go. I'm always looking for a nice conversation with the right person. I'm on Kik and will respond to pms here, whichever you prefer. Look forward to the possibility of hearing from you.
 
I'm a 45 year old, imaginative, mature, and well together gent. Care to talk. Drop me a note. You sound intriguing.
 
This post might be old but its golden....

A bump and a story!

I responded to this post over a year ago.
I admit I was looking for an affair.

I didn't get that affair.

From our first email this lovely woman saw the deep love I still had for my wife. What might have been an affair turned into friendship.
In_Mars_Orbit became the "counselor" who saved my marriage.

so here's a well-deserved bump for a woman who deserves so much more.

We are both thinking fondly of you tonight, dear. :rose:
 
A bump and a story!

I responded to this post over a year ago.
I admit I was looking for an affair.

I didn't get that affair.

From our first email this lovely woman saw the deep love I still had for my wife. What might have been an affair turned into friendship.
In_Mars_Orbit became the "counselor" who saved my marriage.

so here's a well-deserved bump for a woman who deserves so much more.

We are both thinking fondly of you tonight, dear. :rose:

MACKIE! You're the sweetest man. This post made me tear up in all the good ways. Thank you, my friend.

All my love to you and Red! Give her an extra kiss for me. :heart:
 
I would love some sunshine!!

Hi im a divorced male and id love some of ypur sunshine in my life!!
 
It's nice to see that this thread has lead to something truly wonderful with Red's story. I wish things had worked out for me as they did for them. Sadly my relationship from my earlier post didn't last very long. I am stop hopeful to find someone who can brighten my days, and who's life I can maybe make just a bit better in return.
 
A bump and a story!

I responded to this post over a year ago.
I admit I was looking for an affair.

I didn't get that affair.

From our first email this lovely woman saw the deep love I still had for my wife. What might have been an affair turned into friendship.
In_Mars_Orbit became the "counselor" who saved my marriage.

so here's a well-deserved bump for a woman who deserves so much more.

We are both thinking fondly of you tonight, dear. :rose:
Yes!

I'd love to see my wonderful, thoughtful, kind, sweet, sassy friend.

And while I'm catching up with her, I guess it would be nice to see you too, Mackie. ;) :cool:

I too have an online friend like this, and like you (Red and Mackie), I was looking for... well, I don't know what I was looking for. But yes this new friend became my councillor too and I suspect also saved our marriage.

Who says the internets a bad place?! (For In_Mars_Orbit :rose:)

Its also nice to see someone else coming back to Lit after being away for various periods and reasons!
 
hello

I love your post and it hits the spot for me.I am single and need the affection of a woman.I am in my late 40`s 5' 1" 190lbs.I would like to connect with you at your convenience.Hope to hear from you,have a great day
 
54 mwm

Posts like this makes the eye water. love to read this makes me believe there is hope out there im in the same place so maybe there is even hope for me!:rose:
 
Hi Mars,

Myself John, from UK. In my late twenties, i am casual / fun to be around and like having penpal specially if it is a mature women. I would love to hear from you and start chatting to know you better.
xoxo - John
 
my god there's that woman again!

Five months after she posted her op and all of 15 words long. And the whole world seems to congregate below her feet and applaud her. For what exactly, I will never know.
 
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