Lesson For My Cute Little Sub

[seaturtle50]

Poem

Hi All,


I love you my Mistress with all of my heart. I understand that you alone know what is best for me ... and what I need.

like those little kisses are all that sustain my life in this moment.

more that I deserve, really.

I am content ... finally.

 

[Moleculor]

*blink*

So... your ultimate fantasy is to be a hermaphroditic switch?

 

[seaturtle50]

lol

afraid I cannot answer that. It is a bit beyond what I was tryin to say.

ST

 

[Farblat_Ieem]

... let me just say that at the very conclusion I ordered my sub to stand next to me at the end of the bed - (both naked) and I offered her the belt - to return the "beating" to me. This was my attempt to show her my understand of what she had willingly endured for my sake.

... But I am afraid that she missed the point.

QUOTE]

I have to say I still miss the point of offering the belt as a gesture of understanding what she endures, and are then displeased with her responce. It's one thing to control a submissive's actions and quite another to control her reactions.

How you might feel in her place, and how you would react, are valid considerations but part of the point for me of having sex with someone else is the excitment created by not knowing they will react as I would. If you haven't taught her that that belt offering is some ceremony with a set outcome then consider learnin from her reaction rather than teaching her she did wrong. If you never intended for her to choose to punish you back I really don't get the point of offering her the option.

It's common for subbies to say NO NO NO please NO and to then be grumpy and critical when a dom backs down and it's silly. Few people are mind readers and untill we communicate otherwise we can't really be disapointed when the other takes us at our word. It's very hard for submissives to say they want what they don't want but really want but shouldn't it be easier for dominants? Couldn't you just give her the belt and tell her to ask for another beating if that's what you want?

But then, as I said at the outset, I seem to have missed your point too. Perhaps it's all this "reading" "between" the "lines"?

Have fun!

 

[seaturtle50]

The handing over

Would have been real. And I would have accepted her answer whatever it was. Yes - I would have allowed her anything and everything that she chose in that moment.

Actually - her response to me was a good one - and in RL would have been quite enjoyable I'm sure.

So - in our online "relationship" - I am after the essence.

I did enjoy your comments though. I suppose I am not able to "bring the reder" with me in the story - and that is most likely a fault in my writing style. Sorry for that.

It is just a fantasy story by the way.
ST50

 

[Farblat_Ieem]

Now I do get your point a little better, thanks, ST. I'm sure you'll be able to guide your subbie to where she wants if you continue to be open minded about both her and your own reactions and of course fantasy is a big part of the communication for o/l or r/l exploration.

My own happy ending would be for her to simply hand the belt back and say she was happy to be the one you let those agresssions out with, and that you'd then comfort her and thank her for the sacrfice she'd given.. but then every reader here might have an idea how the story should end.

But staples in the carpet?! owch!

 

[seaturtle50]

Yes ...

Sorry about that

Hurting people hurt people

ST