Stella_Omega
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I wanted to answer these questions from another thread;
Like I saidn the other thread, those pictures are porn pics, not real life. Once you guide the dildo into your friend, it will go right where it's supposed to go-- in fact you really don't want it to be ultra stable because you yourself can't feel with it. If it is forced to go at a wrong angle, you could bruise up someone's insides-- a man's penis would let him know that he's hitting something that shouldn't be hit.
The harnesses are all of them plenty strong enough, and the dildos stay put just fine. Although-- some of them are just straps of elastic and yeah,they will wear the hell out real fast. Go for a "jockstrap" style, with two straps that come through your legs and attach to the waist strap at your hips. If you look online, Eden fantasies, Babes in Toyland or the Stockroom will have reviews. As far as the dildo goes, pick out something that looks good to you. For pegging, you might want something slim and at least seven inches, 'cause guy's prostates are about five inches in. For women, you don't want to bruise her cervix... I like around seven inches anyways, just maybe thicker
I used to use a conventional harness. I kind of had to convince myself that I loved it, but actually it just felt like nothing. But now there's a new kind, that has a plug at one end that you can insert into yourself. Look for "feeldoe" or "Fun Factory Share" Supposedly, your kgel muscles can hang on to it and keep it in, but for me-- that only works if I have my thighs clampd together too, and I just can't get the motion going that way.. So I use this tecnique to harness it;
Works great!
I'm not a fan of missionary, my hips hate it. I like doggie style, or spooning, or cowgirl. Especially cowgirl, because my hips seem to work just fine driving upwards!
Like I saidn the other thread, those pictures are porn pics, not real life. Once you guide the dildo into your friend, it will go right where it's supposed to go-- in fact you really don't want it to be ultra stable because you yourself can't feel with it. If it is forced to go at a wrong angle, you could bruise up someone's insides-- a man's penis would let him know that he's hitting something that shouldn't be hit.
The harnesses are all of them plenty strong enough, and the dildos stay put just fine. Although-- some of them are just straps of elastic and yeah,they will wear the hell out real fast. Go for a "jockstrap" style, with two straps that come through your legs and attach to the waist strap at your hips. If you look online, Eden fantasies, Babes in Toyland or the Stockroom will have reviews. As far as the dildo goes, pick out something that looks good to you. For pegging, you might want something slim and at least seven inches, 'cause guy's prostates are about five inches in. For women, you don't want to bruise her cervix... I like around seven inches anyways, just maybe thicker
I used to use a conventional harness. I kind of had to convince myself that I loved it, but actually it just felt like nothing. But now there's a new kind, that has a plug at one end that you can insert into yourself. Look for "feeldoe" or "Fun Factory Share" Supposedly, your kgel muscles can hang on to it and keep it in, but for me-- that only works if I have my thighs clampd together too, and I just can't get the motion going that way.. So I use this tecnique to harness it;
Works great!
I'm not a fan of missionary, my hips hate it. I like doggie style, or spooning, or cowgirl. Especially cowgirl, because my hips seem to work just fine driving upwards!
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