Lesbian Q and A

[ramonathompson]

1. What turns you on the most about other women?

2. What turns you off the most about them?

3. What turns you off the most about men?

4. Have you or would you ever have a straight sexual experience/romance with a man?

Why or why not?

5. What would you say is the best thing about being a lesbian?

6. What is the worst?

7. If a man ever got you preggers.....? Pm me to answer this

8. How far would you go to make a straight woman you were interested in a lesbian?

9. Who do you believe has a easier time in life and why? A lesbian woman or a straight one?

10. Do you believe Hollywood protrays an accurate picture of today's lesbian woman?

 

[FazilKotuk]

Earth to Ramona

You asked the same question twice. Oh, and you make some flawed assumptions. One of which is that a lesbian can be "made". They are born, not made.

 

[Etoile]

You asked the same question twice. Oh, and you make some flawed assumptions. One of which is that a lesbian can be "made". They are born, not made.

I don't see the same question twice, which did you mean were the same?

 

[FazilKotuk]

I don't see the same question twice, which did you mean were the same?

Oops...when I looked at the questionnaire last night, it looked like 2 and 3 were the same question repeated. I overlooked that the 2nd ended with "them" instead of "men". LOL

I'm still right about the other issue, though.

 

[Filly Gal]

1. What turns you on the most about other women?

2. What turns you off the most about them?

3. What turns you off the most about men?

4. Have you or would you ever have a straight sexual experience/romance with a man?

Why or why not?

5. What would you say is the best thing about being a lesbian?

6. What is the worst?

7. If a man ever got you preggers.....? Pm me to answer this

8. How far would you go to make a straight woman you were interested in a lesbian?

9. Who do you believe has a easier time in life and why? A lesbian woman or a straight one?

10. Do you believe Hollywood protrays an accurate picture of today's lesbian woman?

My response to all is just be all that you can be in each and every moment, Lez, straight or bi does it really matter?? In the end when we go to our final acount I dont believe the issue of our sexuality will be asked but more so how much of a human being where we, how did we show up when the chips were down, did we step out of our comfort zone and stand with the least of us or give without wanting anything in return.
Enough with the "processing:, let us all just be all that we can be in each and every moment that we happen to find ourselves!!

 

[MsWet]

good points Filly

Also, to everyone, I'm glad no one has replied to her questions because her questions are merely for the purpose of exploiting peoples personal lives for the sake of her supposed career.

 

[Chicklet]

7. If a man ever got you preggers.....? Pm me to answer this

this confuses me so much

 

[RawHumor]

Also, to everyone, I'm glad no one has replied to her questions because her questions are merely for the purpose of exploiting peoples personal lives for the sake of her supposed career.

*ding ding ding*

Right answer.

If you answer the questions, expect to see a new thread every day or two with another list of new idiotic questions.

 

[ramonathompson]

Also, to everyone, I'm glad no one has replied to her questions because her questions are merely for the purpose of exploiting peoples personal lives for the sake of her supposed career.

That is a LIE. My questions are not to hurt or to exploit people. They are for research in helping people to better understand and get along with one another. Which is what my book will be about. Just because you did not have the idea first does not mean you can come along and piss on me for doing so. So kindly keep your mouth shut when you do not know what you are speaking of.

Thank you!

 

[MsWet]

Raw Humor, seems we all know the truth & it angers her

Oh no, looks like I got her all mad at me now

 

[yogiharidas]

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[alltherage]

Sometimes I think that the world was better off when a pole was something that held up a phone line and nothing else and then there are other times when i am certain of it.

 

[Etoile]

Just because you did not have the idea first does not mean you can come along and piss on me for doing so.

Can you explain this to me? It's not making any sense. Where did anybody say they wanted to write your book? I have no idea what your book is about. It seems unlikely that someone is sitting in front of their computer saying "damn, I wish I'd beaten that ramonathompson to that idea, it would be so awesome!" What IS your book about, anyway?

The reason I didn't answer the questions is because they did feel exploitative and insensitive to me. YMMV.

 

[ramonathompson]

Can you explain this to me? It's not making any sense. Where did anybody say they wanted to write your book? I have no idea what your book is about. It seems unlikely that someone is sitting in front of their computer saying "damn, I wish I'd beaten that ramonathompson to that idea, it would be so awesome!" What IS your book about, anyway?

The reason I didn't answer the questions is because they did feel exploitative and insensitive to me. YMMV.

The book is about human interaction and the inner workings of the human brain.

Maybe I took some comments the wrong way if so then I am sorry.

 

[lilsub4u]

1. What turns you on the most about other women?

Their personality, sence of humor, wit, intelligence...

2. What turns you off the most about them?

Being Caddy or shallow

3. What turns you off the most about men?

Being shallow, chauvanistic, uncaring or callousness

4. Have you or would you ever have a straight sexual experience/romance with a man?

Yeah, probably. I'm actually Bisexual so the possiblity is always there...IF and ONLY if my partner and I were to break up...GAWDS FORBID

Why or why not?

Because I'm currently in a relationship. And although I support those who are poly...I, myself am not. It's the one thing I've learned over the years.

5. What would you say is the best thing about being a lesbian?

The fact that I'm only one "by default."
As I've said, I'm happily bisexual but my life partner is another woman and we've been together for ten years.

6. What is the worst?

Being assumed that because I'm bisexual that I'm: unable to be faithful, that I'm confused, that I'm greedy, that I'm only pretending to be bi to attract men, that I'm playing games with other women.

7. If a man ever got you preggers.....? Pm me to answer this

No need to PM you...I've been "preggers" and it was by a real life man. I was young and assumed that by settling down and having a family would "cure" me of being bisexual and I'd no longer want to have any relations with a woman ever again...

Nope, didn't work...still bi....
And happily at peace with myself!

8. How far would you go to make a straight woman you were interested in a lesbian?

NEVER...I don't believe ANYONE'S sexuality can be changed. No one can be "turned" gay/lesbian/bi. We either are or we aren't. It's our level of awarness that changes.

9. Who do you believe has a easier time in life and why? A lesbian woman or a straight one?

A straight one only be cause they're more readily accepted in mainstream society.

10. Do you believe Hollywood protrays an accurate picture of today's lesbian woman?

No, not at all.
We vary as much as straight women do.
We aren't all Ultra-femme, like those in "The L Word" or Stone Butches.
Many of us are tweeners, non-conformists, too darned relaxed for labels...etc.

 

[MsWet]

LOL, excellent point Etoile

Can you explain this to me? It's not making any sense. Where did anybody say they wanted to write your book? I have no idea what your book is about. It seems unlikely that someone is sitting in front of their computer saying "damn, I wish I'd beaten that ramonathompson to that idea, it would be so awesome!" What IS your book about, anyway?

The reason I didn't answer the questions is because they did feel exploitative and insensitive to me. YMMV.

Thank you for adding some sanity to her nutty statement.

 

[FazilKotuk]

Not to mention distinctly biased and loaded questions. Her prejudice in favor of the Judeo-Christian ethic and its homophobic attitudes has been long since confirmed, by the way. She's a GB troll with a reputation for preaching a weird mix of ultra-conservative Catholic orthodoxy and Protestant, evangelical fundamentalism. Who knows if she actually believes it, but her clear mindset is that sexuality is a choice, instead of something innate.

Being a bisexual man, I know that to be false.

 

[lilsub4u]

Fazil: I couldn't have said it better myself.
I found the questions to be disingenuous and having a hidden agenda.

I lived for too many years pretending to be something I assumed was expected of me, but I knew to be a lie.

What bothers me so much is why any of this even HAS to matter.
It's ironic that society readily accepts the theory that handed-ness is inherent and genetic, but quickly jumps to demand Proof that sexuality is genetic.
There's no more proof for handed-ness or eye color than there is sexuality.
I'm good with that.
I know who I am, I know who I'm attracted to and I do not fear mistranslated lies from a book written by the hands of humans who are just as easily tempted and swayed by political power as any other human hands.

 

[FazilKotuk]

Exactly. I don't have to be told what I like sexually and romantically. I like both sexes. I stopped worrying about it 5 years ago, when I told myself, "So what? If you like it, you like it, so what's the problem? It's not gross if you enjoy it."

 

[lilsub4u]

LOL Ah well, you know what they say?

It's only kinky the first time!

Which then just leads to:

It's Kinky to use a feather...
But it's down right Perverted to use the Whole Chicken!

 

[curiouslez84]

1. What turns you on the most about other women?

2. What turns you off the most about them?

3. What turns you off the most about men?

4. Have you or would you ever have a straight sexual experience/romance with a man?

Why or why not?

5. What would you say is the best thing about being a lesbian?

6. What is the worst?

7. If a man ever got you preggers.....? Pm me to answer this

8. How far would you go to make a straight woman you were interested in a lesbian?

9. Who do you believe has a easier time in life and why? A lesbian woman or a straight one?

10. Do you believe Hollywood protrays an accurate picture of today's lesbian woman?

1. Girls who cover everything. Yes, that sounds weird...but like, girls who wear jeans and turtlenecks in the fall, for example...it gets me looking at the shape of their breasts, and their hips...I start wondering what's under there, y'know? And then, of course, I end up having fantasies that I get off on...

2. Hm...I don't like it when girls are TOO flashy. Like, they make a big show out of every part of their body they can...that's almost like being a hooker, which of course is dangerous and (in my mind) stupid. Forget the money...

3. Men are ignorant. 'Nuff said.

4. Hell, no. Well, number one, they hold no attraction for me at all. But like I said in number three, they're ignorant. Men don't listen to you the way another woman will. They just pretend to listen when all they really wanna do is either get back to their sports or video games, or (more often than not and far more likely than the other two) get into your pants. Other women, most of them, will sit their and listen to you (if they're good friends, I mean - you gotta build a relationship first, y'know?) and most women (the ones that I've met) are the compassionate type in that they're more likely to help someone than just brush them off. I know I would try to help someone if they really needed it...

5. Freedom. Seriously. Straight women get in with a man and find it hard to get away from them. Other lezzies sometimes have this problem with their girlfriends/lovers, sure, but I've found it's easier to just have fun and not get too serious than it is for straight women with their boyfriends/lovers/husbands.

6. The constant questions and looks, the constant beef with 'oh, that's evil, that's unnatural'...need I continue? <_<

7. He wouldn't. Trust me. I can take care of myself...and since I'm a lezzie...

8. I wouldn't. I try to leave straights (as I call them) alone unless they're my friends...but romantically alone, I mean. That way, there're no confrontations or embarrassment or anything...

9. Neither. Straights have their problems, and we have ours. Period. It's about equal.

10. Sometimes, sometimes not. It depends on the show. Some are made with real lezzies, while others are just actresses just playing a part - which pisses me off, frankly. If you're going to do a movie about lezzies, you should include ACTUAL lezzies so you can get the damn movie right...grr.

 

[Etoile]

I don't think I've seen the word lezzie used so much since fifth grade! *feels old*

 

[curiouslez84]

LOL Sorry...maybe I'm just immature.

 

[Vail_Indigo]

"3. What turns you off the most about men?"
this question really makes no sense.
You might as well ask
"what turns you off the most about trees"
If you aren't attracted to a gender in any way, nothing is turning you off.
There is no 'off' and 'on'

 

[curiouslez84]

Exactly the point of my first statement in the answer to that question, vail. But I wasn't lying about the rest, though...men are ignorant.