Lend me some ideas...

[ImpishSeraph]

I'm not sure where to put this thread but this seemed to best fit

I am looking for ideas to try out with my husband. We have been together for a long time. I hate to admit this but our sex has hit a plateau.

I don’t know if it is because I have hit my thirties, but all I think about is sex. And I’m not getting enough. I am getting to where I meet an attractive man or woman and I immediately think of them against me naked.

Help a horny wife expand her mind and get satisfied. I would love to hear some spicy ideas for my love life. Let me have it

 

[SweetErika]

Have you read through The Blank Manual sticky ( http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=243894 ) yet?

If not, I'd start there, as there are lots of ideas for spicing it up.

 

[ImpishSeraph]

Have you read through The Blank Manual sticky ( http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=243894 ) yet?

If not, I'd start there, as there are lots of ideas for spicing it up.

Thanks SweetE I will check that out. I have not been able to get a good feel for this place yet. Hopefully I will be a regular soon enough. There are so many people on here. I'm not used to such a large discussion board. My other is only about 200 people so this is almost overwhelming to me at the moment. I can't wait to get some set friends to goof off with

Thanks again for your help!

This was my 100th post....time to search for an av...

 

[SweetErika]

Thanks SweetE I will check that out. I have not been able to get a good feel for this place yet. Hopefully I will be a regular soon enough. There are so many people on here. I'm not used to such a large discussion board. My other is only about 200 people so this is almost overwhelming to me at the moment. I can't wait to get some set friends to goof off with

Thanks again for your help!

This was my 100th post....time to search for an av...

I understand. I think we've all been a little overwhelmed at first!

It's helpful to take some time to get an overall picture from the Main Forums page, and look through any "sticky" threads at the top of individual forums to get an overview of what the forum is for and any rules, FAQ's, and other useful info contained within.

It's a good sign that you know the AV threshold is 100 posts. A lot of people get here, freak out and ask why they can't use that feature, even when there are a ton of threads on that topic on the first page of the forum. You may have to go over that by a bit and/or log out and clear your cookies before the system will actually let you upload an AV. There's detailed info on this in the FAQs Before Posting sticky at the top of the main How To page.

Anyway, welcome, and enjoy your time here!

 

[bowtie4u]

Thanks SweetE I will check that out. I have not been able to get a good feel for this place yet. Hopefully I will be a regular soon enough. There are so many people on here. I'm not used to such a large discussion board. My other is only about 200 people so this is almost overwhelming to me at the moment. I can't wait to get some set friends to goof off with

Thanks again for your help!

This was my 100th post....time to search for an av...

Congrats on the 100 post......will be waiting to see what you come up with for an a/v

 

[ImpishSeraph]

Congrats on the 100 post......will be waiting to see what you come up with for an a/v

http://i29.photobucket.com/albums/c263/ojustadotx/Doodads%20Thingamabobs/teeny/thhiya.gif Hi Bowtie

I thought this one fit the name, but I am still looking

 

[subwannabe]

Sounds to me like you should be including your husband in this thought process. I almost get the impression you are throwing him aside and going for the gusto without him.

 

[ImpishSeraph]

Sounds to me like you should be including your husband in this thought process. I almost get the impression you are throwing him aside and going for the gusto without him.

I told him about this question I posted and asked him to join this site with me and he said to just relate the messages, so I have. We've tried some things out too. If I want some good experiences, he has to be involved. Won't work too well without him, lol.

 

[bowtie4u]

I told him about this question I posted and asked him to join this site with me and he said to just relate the messages, so I have. We've tried some things out too. If I want some good experiences, he has to be involved. Won't work too well without him, lol.

No ....I guess you will have to play and get some Ideas on your own

 

[mjl2010]

Might be helpful if we knew what was going on now? What isn't exciting anymore? What have you tried?

MJL

 

[subwannabe]

Sounds a little weird to me that he is ok with you posting a question on this site but just wants you to relay the info to him. It doesn't seem to me like he is interested in going the extra mile for your relatioship.

 

[ImpishSeraph]

Sounds a little weird to me that he is ok with you posting a question on this site but just wants you to relay the info to him. It doesn't seem to me like he is interested in going the extra mile for your relatioship.

Are you always so negative?

We just have different interests when it comes to the computer. Maybe he's not willing to go the extra mile right now. We have a lot going on in our lives right now, and we have talked about all of it. We have had about 4 life changing events since May and need to adjust to it all. He told me that he would join if I really wanted him to, but I wouldn't want him to do anything he's not really in to. We are best friends and are very open with each other. We have been this way for 9 years. I think we just have so much on our plate lately that we are having trouble relaxing and taking the time to enjoy each other. I just asked for ideas because we were overwhelmed and it can be hard to explore options when this happens.

 

[Mr.G]

My Question Too

""Might be helpful if we knew what was going on now? What isn't exciting anymore? What have you tried?""

I was with Sue 21 yrs. The sex was getting better and better. Since discovering what her GSpot could do (and how) she was a self-confessed sex addict and couldn't get enough. She was 46 when she died but acted like a horny 20 yr old most of the time except that she knew what she was doing.

SweetE has already pointed you in the right direction. If you can't read through the BLANK MANUAL and learn a lot you're either the sexiest couple on earth NOW or already DEAD. There are TONS of ideas in there.

Have you read / tried my TRY THIS thread? If your hubby finds this and it works for you then you may not need anything else to feel completely exhausted and satiated at the end of a session. It may not work for you but I think it's worth a try. It sure worked for us and by the feedback it works for 60% to 70% of those who have tried.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

and if you want to take a shot at returning the favor(s)

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=98657

Good luck.

 

[subwannabe]

Sorry if I offended you. It just seemed to me like you were doing all the work and he wasn't. I didn't realize how full your plates are right now. That's certainly a good reason for things to not be running on all 8 cylinders. All in all, the bottom line still is you appear to be doing all the work trying to fix things, whether there is a good reason for it or not. It sounds like you actually have a better relationship than most and I hope you can both get things back on track asap.

 

[Joankraig]

Most men are visual. Use XXX videos when you are both in bed, or better yet, suggest a threesome with someone you know (either male or female). My hubby loves watching me with other guys, and then joining in (I love it too!)