Sparky Kronkite
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Orgasm's are as individual as the person having them. Men and women alike. When just beginners some cum easy, some not so easy, some simply don't, maybe still don't.
And some pretend to.
Lee Strasburg school for acting. The teaching of "getting into" the character. Living the character. Being the character. It's worked for many famous folks.
But let's keep this real simple……
If you wanna have bigger, better, more frequent, mind blowing orgasms? GET INTO IT!!! Get into the character of a mind blowing, huge orgasm. If you don't exactly feel it (I could argue that you're not doing it right) do it anyway - act it out - pretend to have a mind blowing orgasm. BE YOUR ORGASM!!!
Why? Because you're too god damn uptight in the first place. Well if you're having any trouble with having fun in the bedroom you are. There are plenty of exceptions - here.
You see, unless you're a gifted, natural, uninhibited sex machine, in both mind and body - everybody's first orgasms are extremely tepid, staid and rather bland, especially regarding outward appearances. Hell the first few times I did it with a partner she didn't even know - I had to tell her. And think about that and how it sucks - the wonderful woman not only has a guy (me in this case) cum too fast, but she didn't even get the pleasure of realizing it. Even our first solo efforts aren't very grand. And especially the first ones with a partner - I mean think about it - all the shit that's going on in someone's head, "My god, I'm naked in front of somebody else - they're naked - strange tastes, strange smells, strange body fluids - what if they see that birth mark on my ass - my toenails aren't clipped and I got fungus down there - hell, the lights are on, they need to be off - I can't grunt in front of anybody, especially not him/her - and my moan sounds so fake, I can't put him/her through that - besides I'll laugh at myself if I grunt - and lord knows what if he/she doesn't understand that laugh - and what if my eyes roll back in my head - will he/she think I'm dead?" All kinds of crap.
Actors go through the same exact shit. They need training to combat it. Lee Strasburg training.
Even if you've got all those thoughts above, or just some of them - over ride them - fucking act (or act like your fucking) - get into it - act like you're into it - make love, make real lusty love, like actors do in the movies - open your legs wide, get-up on all fours, hoot and howl and laugh when it tickles - smack the ass of your lover and yell "lick me quick," - get into fucking character - literally.
Be patient. Practice. Practice some more, practice often - like Nike, just do it.
You will, cum. You will cum. You will cum. And you will improve the power of your orgasms too.
And the best part - the best part of all - is your lover will dig the shit out of it.
Full fucking circle.
And some pretend to.
Lee Strasburg school for acting. The teaching of "getting into" the character. Living the character. Being the character. It's worked for many famous folks.
But let's keep this real simple……
If you wanna have bigger, better, more frequent, mind blowing orgasms? GET INTO IT!!! Get into the character of a mind blowing, huge orgasm. If you don't exactly feel it (I could argue that you're not doing it right) do it anyway - act it out - pretend to have a mind blowing orgasm. BE YOUR ORGASM!!!
Why? Because you're too god damn uptight in the first place. Well if you're having any trouble with having fun in the bedroom you are. There are plenty of exceptions - here.
You see, unless you're a gifted, natural, uninhibited sex machine, in both mind and body - everybody's first orgasms are extremely tepid, staid and rather bland, especially regarding outward appearances. Hell the first few times I did it with a partner she didn't even know - I had to tell her. And think about that and how it sucks - the wonderful woman not only has a guy (me in this case) cum too fast, but she didn't even get the pleasure of realizing it. Even our first solo efforts aren't very grand. And especially the first ones with a partner - I mean think about it - all the shit that's going on in someone's head, "My god, I'm naked in front of somebody else - they're naked - strange tastes, strange smells, strange body fluids - what if they see that birth mark on my ass - my toenails aren't clipped and I got fungus down there - hell, the lights are on, they need to be off - I can't grunt in front of anybody, especially not him/her - and my moan sounds so fake, I can't put him/her through that - besides I'll laugh at myself if I grunt - and lord knows what if he/she doesn't understand that laugh - and what if my eyes roll back in my head - will he/she think I'm dead?" All kinds of crap.
Actors go through the same exact shit. They need training to combat it. Lee Strasburg training.
Even if you've got all those thoughts above, or just some of them - over ride them - fucking act (or act like your fucking) - get into it - act like you're into it - make love, make real lusty love, like actors do in the movies - open your legs wide, get-up on all fours, hoot and howl and laugh when it tickles - smack the ass of your lover and yell "lick me quick," - get into fucking character - literally.
Be patient. Practice. Practice some more, practice often - like Nike, just do it.
You will, cum. You will cum. You will cum. And you will improve the power of your orgasms too.
And the best part - the best part of all - is your lover will dig the shit out of it.
Full fucking circle.
