Learning to Squirt

[BackwoodsMama]

Has anyone successfully learned how to squirt? I've tried several techniques and haven't been successful. It looks so freeing, I'd love to figure out how. Who has suggestions?

 

[CandK_inSE]

You and my wife both.

The best she's done is gush and leave a giant wet spot, but has never squirted.

She says she's felt it coming, but ends in a great orgasm, but no squirting fluid.

 

[BackwoodsMama]

You and my wife both.

The best she's done is gush and leave a giant wet spot, but has never squirted.

She says she's felt it coming, but ends in a great orgasm, but no squirting fluid.

I'm going to have to do more research. I really want to figure it out.

 

[twister947]

I'm not sure you can learn what appears to be an involuntary response.

 

[BackwoodsMama]

I'm not sure you can learn what appears to be an involuntary response.

I've read from several sources that it is possible... Fingers crossed.

 

[2021Noobie]

I've read from several sources that it is possible... Fingers crossed.

Not sure crossing fingers will help, they need to be free to stroke with “come hither” motion, right? But, how fast can you manage it

Crossing fingers you vome back soon with glowing report on your success

 

[haventdonethat]

Has anyone successfully learned how to squirt? I've tried several techniques and haven't been successful. It looks so freeing, I'd love to figure out how. Who has suggestions?

I'm not sure you can learn what appears to be an involuntary response.

I've read from several sources that it is possible... Fingers crossed.

Squirting.
It has been discussed and documented since Roman times.
From my limited reading, every woman has the ability to squirt.
There are naysayers and nonbelievers but count me in as one who has experienced it first hand many times .

My GF is multi orgasmic and also a squirter. Are the two related? I have no idea. Yesterday she probably experienced more than 40 orgasms, at least a dozen of which were squirts. An estimate only, we do not count anymore. We revel in the aftermath, the taste we share and her orgasmic bliss.

As someone here alluded, her most powerful orgasms and squirts are from manual stimulation of her G spot plus she uses a slim vibrator on her clit to intensify her orgasm.
The most powerful and intense we have ever achieved was a couple weeks ago. Two squirting orgasms produced a spray with so much pressure it deflected off my upturned palm, reaching to her shoulders.
Neither of us has experienced anything like this before. She tells me she can feel when it will be a squirt as compared to a gush or not.

There is a very good thread in the HT Café called “try this and report back” that goes into much more detail. The thread is old with a couple thousand posts so I have only read a few of the last pages. There are also a couple of posts from me.

Just a word of prudence . . .
Towels are now part of our preparing. We soak many in an evening.

 

[IwantU99]

Hello,
From what I've read on the subject I think it's achievable through the stimulation of the G-spot.
Personally I have not tried it but a previous girlfriend did regularly. She said those where the most powerful and liberating orgasms.

 

[mortis]

First time she was relaxed no interruptions.
A little tipsy/high I was eating her with a finger in using
The added stimulation added a powerful wand to her clit
Kept using the finger I. The come here motion. Suddenly she jumped
She started to cum, kept the even pressure and wand she suddenly shot
A pure stream….
Wheeee

 

[Diann_Mom]

Hi BackwoodsMama.

Has anyone successfully learned how to squirt? I've tried several techniques and haven't been successful. It looks so freeing, I'd love to figure out how. Who has suggestions?

I never knew about squirting until I bought my first wand and then it just happened! Even then it wasn't a spaying gusher. Since buying a curved remote control g-spot massager I have had many powerful orgasms ending in rapid mini squirts and only then by rapidly rubbing my clit with a lot of pressure.
It's a pricy toy but I have had a lot of fun with it besides making me squirt..
Check out Lush products.

 

[KathyBlessed]

I never knew about squirting until I bought my first wand and then it just happened! Even then it wasn't a spaying gusher. Since buying a curved remote control g-spot massager I have had many powerful orgasms ending in rapid mini squirts and only then by rapidly rubbing my clit with a lot of pressure.
It's a pricy toy but I have had a lot of fun with it besides making me squirt..
Check out Lush products.

Diann-
I agree the lush toys work wonders, I also have a G-spot vibe I use regularly.
Enjoy your day
Kathy

 

[slowpoking]

vaginal orgasms

I don't know if you'd like to include vaginal orgasms in this discussion. Seems to me that there's some overlap in that some say that all women are capable of them, but some women have never experienced them. My ex tried for years -- more than a decade -- to have an O just from vaginal probing, vacillating between trying different approaches then getting frustrated and deciding they were a myth. Until her late 50s, she'd only had clitoral climaxes.

Then someone taught her to relax and at the same time bear down while having her g-spot stroked with that come hither motion, and boom that did it. She had one, and from then on could achieve them almost whenever she wanted. The key was that bearing down, which pushed her g-spot toward the front of her vagina -- I guess making it easier to stimulate. Like it was right there and easy for me to lick. We focused mostly on intercourse, though, and I quickly learned to steadily stroke that area with my cockhead.

She had to reach a high level of arousal, but the anticipation of these orgasms seemed to make that easier. She enjoyed them much better than clitoral orgasms ... said the intensity was greater and the sensation more pleasant. Plus she could have way more of them, reach plateaus she had never touched and learn to do things like ride the wave for an extended period. She'd have more than a dozen in one session, and these were all shattering climaxes. It really revolutionized our sex life.

She's squirted just a few times, but for her the two did not go hand in hand. She never had much interest in squirting. Hope this isn't too off-topic, but I thought it might be of similar interest here.

 

[BackwoodsMama]

I don't know if you'd like to include vaginal orgasms in this discussion. Seems to me that there's some overlap in that some say that all women are capable of them, but some women have never experienced them. My ex tried for years -- more than a decade -- to have an O just from vaginal probing, vacillating between trying different approaches then getting frustrated and deciding they were a myth. Until her late 50s, she'd only had clitoral climaxes.

Then someone taught her to relax and at the same time bear down while having her g-spot stroked with that come hither motion, and boom that did it. She had one, and from then on could achieve them almost whenever she wanted. The key was that bearing down, which pushed her g-spot toward the front of her vagina -- I guess making it easier to stimulate. Like it was right there and easy for me to lick. We focused mostly on intercourse, though, and I quickly learned to steadily stroke that area with my cockhead.

She had to reach a high level of arousal, but the anticipation of these orgasms seemed to make that easier. She enjoyed them much better than clitoral orgasms ... said the intensity was greater and the sensation more pleasant. Plus she could have way more of them, reach plateaus she had never touched and learn to do things like ride the wave for an extended period. She'd have more than a dozen in one session, and these were all shattering climaxes. It really revolutionized our sex life.

She's squirted just a few times, but for her the two did not go hand in hand. She never had much interest in squirting. Hope this isn't too off-topic, but I thought it might be of similar interest here.

Thanks for sharing. I have been playing around with bearing down. I do think trying different styles of cleaning is important, as I realize I like a lot of tension when I cum, and it seems relaxation is key, so I'll keep working at bringing my orgasms in different ways to see what the magic combination might be. I know if I edge a lot my g spot gets really swollen and pronounced, so that might also be key.

 

[maturesthrncple]

My late wife learned how to squirt. Our first time, I was performing oral on her and rubbing her G spot. When she squirted, we both looked at each other with wide eyed shock on our faces lol. I was quick enough though to realize what had just happened, and I dove in head first, taking in as much as I could. My goodness that was the wildest thing I had seen from her!! I ate her to another couple orgasms.... a great night was had lol. Feel free to private message if you want to discuss it....

 

[slowpoking]

Thanks for sharing. I have been playing around with bearing down. I do think trying different styles of cleaning is important, as I realize I like a lot of tension when I cum, and it seems relaxation is key, so I'll keep working at bringing my orgasms in different ways to see what the magic combination might be. I know if I edge a lot my g spot gets really swollen and pronounced, so that might also be key.

Is there a typo in your comment, Backwoods? I don't understand what you mean by different styles of cleaning.

I'd really enjoy helping you with your exploration, trying different techniques to find what does the trick for you. Have you considered, recruiting a woman to help? Obviously someone who herself has squirted could be better able to walk you through it.

 

[slowpoking]

My late wife learned how to squirt. Our first time, I was performing oral on her and rubbing her G spot. When she squirted, we both looked at each other with wide eyed shock on our faces lol. I was quick enough though to realize what had just happened, and I dove in head first, taking in as much as I could. My goodness that was the wildest thing I had seen from her!! I ate her to another couple orgasms.... a great night was had lol. Feel free to private message if you want to discuss it....

Great story. Did it seem that the key was your technique and how you touched her or her mental state and her level of arousal?

 

[maturesthrncple]

We found out that at the beginning, she had to have her g spot massaged, but later on, she could squirt any time. She had always cum very easy, in less than 2 minutes, and was multi orgasmic. The most was 21 in about 2 hours. She told me that she found out that she usually felt the urge to pee sometimes when building to orgasm, she would always suppress those feelings. When she decided to go woth the feeling instead of suppress it, That was when she would squirt. Usually about 2 or 3 feet, It was so hot to watch!! She also said it added a whole new level of feel good lol, to her orgasms when she would squirt... We both loved it. It wasn't urine either because it never did stain the sheets like pee does...Whatever it was, we both enjoyed it for years until she passed away...

 

[ppd1107]

I've read from several sources that it is possible... Fingers crossed.

Did you ever find success?

 

[the_single_gal_unconfidential]

for me, it was changing positions. maybe.
cowgirl is my best at squirting - and I had been riding cock by sort of being on my feet and bouncing up and down.
a guy finally suggested that I go on my knees.
duh....
I started doing that, and was much more comfortable and twiggling the clit was easier..
I could feel the cock way more better in there.
and I started squirting

 

[deliverer]

for me, it was changing positions. maybe.
cowgirl is my best at squirting - and I had been riding cock by sort of being on my feet and bouncing up and down.
a guy finally suggested that I go on my knees.
duh....
I started doing that, and was much more comfortable and twiggling the clit was easier..
I could feel the cock way more better in there.
and I started squirting

Oh my….
…I’d like to see you squirt….

 

[AliTrishFL]

Has anyone successfully learned how to squirt? I've tried several techniques and haven't been successful. It looks so freeing, I'd love to figure out how. Who has suggestions?

I am not sure this is something that can be learned but I am no expert. I had never done that before until very recently and was shocked, and honestly a bit embarrassed because it felt like peeing at first

It very well be something that can be learned but I likely think it is more about the level of stimulation and largely uncontrollable

 

[policywank]

I am not sure this is something that can be learned but I am no expert. I had never done that before until very recently and was shocked, and honestly a bit embarrassed because it felt like peeing at first

It very well be something that can be learned but I likely think it is more about the level of stimulation and largely uncontrollable

I don't think that it is something you learn the way one learns a skill per se. Certain physical techniques work for each woman, but I don't think it is like riding a bike or deep throating a cock in that sense it is simply a matter of technique and practice. But getting your mind and body properly relaxed and learning how to get into that headspace yourself can help make you receptive to the necessary stimulation.

For me the first time I had a squirting orgasm was like finding a secret room in my head that I didn't know was there. I still couldn't open it at will but at least I knew where to find the room. Then over time I became more and more familiar with the types of things that would be the key to open the door to that room. Now it is easier to achieve orgasm and squirting orgasms with or without a special guy.

It isn't something most husbands want to hear but it is not uncommon that the marital sex life has become somewhat stale by the time a woman has matured and her mind and body are really real to embrace optimal sexual experiences. I know of many situations where it was another man and/or her own solo exploration that brought out the best in her which ultimately benefited the marital sex.

 

[delaviandedur]

Has anyone successfully learned how to squirt? I've tried several techniques and haven't been successful. It looks so freeing, I'd love to figure out how. Who has suggestions?

It’s far easier for me to get a woman to squirt than her trying to get there herself. That’s because I can get proper leverage, I kneel on the side of her, my strong hands and forearms lather her up with some lube, gently tease and play with her clit while feeling her wet lips, then slide my ring and middle finger into her slightly curling both fingers to locate her gspot. I then let the palm of my hand lay down flat over her pussy, letting the heel of my hand rest directly on her clit and then I basically slide my hand up and down her pussy, still applying slight pressure inside and on her gspot and also on her clit. I move my hand up and down those greased lips, NOT in and out of her hole.
It doesn’t take long, she’ll start to moan/scream and my hand will start moving much faster, almost to a ridiculous pace, it will start to sound like water being slapped and once I see some spray start, I remove my hand entirely to allow her to squirt freely. To keep her at that level, I’ll usually just quickly rub 3 fingers together in between her lips which keeps the gushes coming. Also, if someone is doing it to you, you‘Ll both notice that above your pussy, but below your belly button, your lower abdomen will look puffy or a little swollen…that’s liquid building up, so while your partner is vigorously working your pussy, if they gently push down on that puffy spot, it’ll make you squirt even more.
If a gal says she never has never squirt or “can’t”, if I give her a nice, long, oiled full body massage getting her to her to relax completely mentally and physically, while awakening a reaction between her legs, I have been 100% successful getting her to squirt.
If you don’t know, once you are able to squirt, it will just get easier and easier each time, almost becoming automatic with any really stimulation. Sounds great? Kind of…what it means is that you’ll need to think ahead about when and where you diddle yourself or get a roused with someone else because you’ll be making a mess of yourself.
At home, it’s just common practice to pull out multiple towels in preparation, but I’ve been with another woman that when she came over to have adult fun, she mentioned she was a squirter and then proceeded to pull out a garbage bag to line the bed with..

 

[txfuncouple]

https://xhamster.com/videos/teach-your-girlfrien-how-to-squirt-3556183

 

[txfuncouple]

https://xhamster.com/videos/how-make-squirting-orgasms-504243