Laurel?

[*bratcat*]

 

[Laurel]

If this is too personal, you can tell me to MYOB, but I was wondering if your family and friends support your desire to run this site? How did they take it when they found out? How did you feel telling them? As I said, if it is too personal, then let me know. Thanks.

MYOB!

lol

Actually, I'm not exactly buddies with anyone in my family. They're a bunch of abusive loser psycho freaks - all of them. The only family member I've spoken to in 6 or 7 years is my sister (who stopped by today, coincidentally). We have a special bond, like fellow soldiers from Viet Nam must have. We've been through hell together. She's a pretty girl, but not the brightest bulb on the tree. She doesn't really understand the Internet, so she doesn't fully grasp this site. The only thing that really freaked her out were the Incest stories. Because of her background, she was shocked to find that people actually get off on them. I don't blame her. I've discussed the whole fantasy/reality thing with her, but a lot of what I say goes over her head.

As for friends, they think it's cool. I don't tell too many people because I don't want them showing up here & telling y'all personal stuff about me. I live in Southern California in a coastal community full of hippies and surfers. It's pretty hard to shock anyone here - the people are mellow. The only thing that shocks my friends is that I'M running an adult site, only because in Real Life I don't exactly stick out as 'porn'. But they're generally not shocked by the adult aspect of it all.

Does that help?

 

[Nicole]

Well answered and it's nice to learn more about you.

Good Thread *Brat*

 

[*bratcat*]

thankyou

 

[*bratcat*]

ps

 

[Laurel]

Re: thankyou

yes in a way it does, thank you for being so honest. I am having a hard time dealing with what or even if I should tell anyone that I like it here. I mean I am one of those ultra-conventional women in the "real" world, and this is my place to unwind and be accepted.

Glad to have you aboard! The way I see it is that our private lives are no one else's business. Personally, I get annoyed with acquaintances who tell me waay too much about their sex life. Sex is a private thing. You don't have to wear an "I Love Porn" shirt to show how liberated you are. For many people, this is a secret part of their daily routine. So long as my conscience is clear and I enjoy what I do, fuck what other people do or do not approve of. My life is no one's business but my own.

 

[*bratcat*]

hmmm

 

[kid cash]

you rock laurel.