Last minute tips

[witcha]

Tomorrow afternoon I'm meeting a guy from the US here..surprise,surprise he's a Dom..lol Basically wanted to ask how am I supposed to behave once in his hotel room???Will be grateful for any kind of tips really coz I'm really starting to get a lil paranoid now




witcha

 

[Selena Down]

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Tomorrow afternoon I'm meeting a guy from the US here..surprise,surprise he's a Dom..lol Basically wanted to ask how am I supposed to behave once in his hotel room???Will be grateful for any kind of tips really coz I'm really starting to get a lil paranoid now




witcha

If he were any kind of REAL Dom, (or had you 2 known each other better) he would have given you specific instructions to follow....Or you could have discussed what to expect/what you are comfortable with....I would never meet anyone without knowing what to expect. Please be careful!!

Selena

 

[ShyGuy68]

Tomorrow afternoon I'm meeting a guy from the US here..surprise,surprise he's a Dom..lol Basically wanted to ask how am I supposed to behave once in his hotel room???Will be grateful for any kind of tips really coz I'm really starting to get a lil paranoid now




witcha

One thing you could do, is when you have knocked on the door, is to kneel down, and wait in that position until he opens up.

I also suggest that you are very careful, and set up a safe call to somebody you know, and knows about your lifestyle.

 

[witcha]

I do have a safe call and perheps I should explained the situation better. We pretty much discussed my limits,safe words,what he has to do if I have a panic attact,what should I wear etc.,but now when it's so close to actual meeting up I'm getting very excited and nervous, which means I might do some stupid mistakes like I'm not sure whether I can take off my heels or should I ask for permission. Nothing extremely important just lil stuff that I suddently think of when I'm all stressed




witcha

 

[sincerely_helene]

Wow! I don't mean to come off nasty at all, but I think you have already made your first mistake by consenting to meet someone in a hotel room upon first encounter.

I hope I just misunderstood that first post, and please do be careful in any event.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Wow! I don't mean to come off nasty at all, but I think you have already made your first mistake by consenting to meet someone in a hotel room upon first encounter.

I hope I just misunderstood that first post, and please do be careful in any event.

Have to second helene in that it might have been safer to meet first in a public place to get a feel of the guy in person. It is easy to feel they are trustworthy when chatting on the phone and net, and chances are he is, but there is also the chance he is not what he makes out to be and we would hate for you to learn the hard way. Please be careful, make sure you have that safe call (preferrably they call you AND you also call them AND make sure they know where you are metting with him..and also does not hurt to arrange to have extra safe calls later on as an hour or 2 into the date), and if possible make sure you have some strategy mapped out as to defending yourself if worse happens and it is up to you to do what is necessary in the moment.

Catalina

 

[witcha]

Thank you all for replies and your concern..


I'm still alive ,the meeting went well and I can't be complaining really
















witcha

 

[Mermaid]

I'm glad things went well, Witcha.

And thank you so much for letting us know you're safe.

Thank you all for replies and your concern..


I'm still alive ,the meeting went well and I can't be complaining really
















witcha

 

[DVS]

I'm glad things went well, Witcha.

And thank you so much for letting us know you're safe.

What? No details?