Large Clit- A Problem?

[GreenEyeBiChick]

Hi Everyone,
I'm a bi(curious) married female who has very limited girl-girl experience (which is VERY unfortunate!). I've been wanting to find another woman playmate, but I've had no luck thus far. I think part of the reason is that I'm not very proactive in my searching, due to my insecurity about my having a large clit. I'm just so paranoid that someone will be grossed out by it! It doesn't bother my husband at all, and it's great for me to have sensation-wise, but I just don't want a woman to be down there and think I'm a freak, lol.
So I guess my question is, to all the women (and men) out there, is a large clit considered weird/gross/freakish/a turn-off? I'd appreciate any input on this... thanks!

 

[CJontherocks]

My goodness, a turn-off?. Heck no! Is it as large as a penis? We might be able to have some real fun with that!

I wouldn't consider that weird/gross/freakish/a turn-off at all.

 

[SweetErika]

No, no, no it's not a turn-off, gross, or strange! Every woman is different, and hopefully the woman you're with is smart enough to know that. Besides, in the heat of the moment, is it really likely she'd even think about it? Of course not! Stop worrying, and start celebrating your perfection!

 

[Mrs.H]

A turn off? Oh my goodness no!!

 

[GreenEyeBiChick]

Thank you all for the kind replies
Cj- No, it's not as large as a penis! It's just larger than the average clit, I guess. Maybe someday I'll post a pic.

 

[sudoenim]

Another two cents: This sounds pretty subjective. What are you comparing yourself with? How many clits have you seen up close? What defines "normal" anyway?

Your lover might be enchanted by the very thing you worry about. Is it your clit she was attracted to or YOU? She meets you, wants you, you get intimate, then she finds this wonderful bonus!

The most important thing is the person it's attached to!

(Yes, a pic would clarify if you're so inclined.)

 

[Funbigirl]

Me too!

Hi there

I'm a bi woman in Orlando. I too have a larger than others clit. I thought I was different until I look at a lot of naked pics on the internet. Everyone is different from one another.

Actually some women have a clit that hardly shows up. I find that more of a turn off. There are really sooooo many clit shapes. The same as breasts.

To make yourself feel better look on the internet, porn movies or magazines. You'll find it's very normal.

PM me if you'd ever like to chat.

 

[GreenEyeBiChick]

FunBiGirl,

Pm for you...

 

[Grungel]

I have had experience with larger clits, I find that I prefer them to smaller clits. Perhaps its an asthetic preferrence, but it seems that I have been able to have more fun watching these women writhe... perhaps moreso than other women

 

[Betticus]

Okay, a large clit is an extreme turn on.

A tiny one you can of course have fun with but a large one you can suck on and just do more with it. Having a part of her body inside my mouth and giving her incredible pleasure that way is just a huge rush.

I want to see the pics.

 

[GreenEyeBiChick]

As soon as I get up the nerve, I'll post a pic...
Thanks again for the encouragement!

 

[reddcutie]

oh suffer suffer suffer.....

we should ALL have such a problem.....why do you think so many lesbians came up with the idea of pumping their clits, silly girl?

 

[Grungel]

Re: oh suffer suffer suffer.....

we should ALL have such a problem.....why do you think so many lesbians came up with the idea of pumping their clits, silly girl?

oooooh how kinky

 

[CJontherocks]

Re: oh suffer suffer suffer.....

we should ALL have such a problem.....why do you think so many lesbians came up with the idea of pumping their clits, silly girl?

You guys really do that?

 

[GreenEyeBiChick]

I've never heard of that either! Damn Red, I guess you're right though.

 

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

How big are we talking? That could be really exciting...

 

[reddcutie]

big clits are thrilling..

check this out...are REAL orgasm...how cum i never meet any chicks like this...

 

[reddcutie]

crap!

my little video wont post....can we post short videos here? and if so---how do i do it?

 

[SweetErika]

What's considered "small"?

 

[Tea_Party]

What's considered "small"?

Are you talking about the clit, or the video?

I find them all fun.

 

[mercury93]

i have a relatively large clit too... i LOVE it. i want it bigger! i tend to think of it like a small cock sometimes, and i can actually manage to stroke it with two fingers and a thumb like i'm jerking off. i think it's totally hot. of course, i do identify as genderqueer...

 

["angel" eve]

in fear of starting some kind of 'size matters' campaign of the sort that has been so debhilitating for males...

big clits are are good. every girl's clit swells when she gets turned on... that's how nature wanted it.

 

[kalalau]

Greeneyebichick and Mercury93: Please post close-ups of your clits so that we can have the experts in the peanut gallery judge them on the basis of size, shape, color, and succulence.....

 

[SweetErika]

Are you talking about the clit, or the video?

I find them all fun.

The clit...with all of this talk about how bigger is better, I'm starting to wonder if mine is big enough to be considered "attractive"! I've always happily thought of it as average, but I didn't know this was actually something people thought twice about or measured the attractiveness of. I guess I have a lot to learn!

 

[CJontherocks]

The clit...with all of this talk about how bigger is better, I'm starting to wonder if mine is big enough to be considered "attractive"! I've always happily thought of it as average, but I didn't know this was actually something people thought twice about or measured the attractiveness of. I guess I have a lot to learn!

Welcome to my world, sweetie.

-- The Irish Inchworm