Large age differences...

After I split with my first wife at the age of 32, I moved to London and set about replaying my early twenties - hitting the clubs hard, including the after parties.

It was a great time with a number of hook ups with 20-22 year olds, mostly European chicks living in London. Good times
 
I covered the range of 18-80 by the time I was legally old enough to go to a college party. ;) Infact, some of the best sex I've had has been with retired people. Age, by itself, is irrelevant unless you're one of those people that expects to have one person for the rest of your life.
 
a woman would have to be pretty fucking sexy for me to even want to see her naked at 80.

i have always preferred older women. why i don't know. i think my disability made me despise women my age when i was younger because they were mostly complete assholes.

when i was 20, i asked out a 33 year old. when i was 22, i had an online relationship with a 50 year old whose body was unfucking real. at 25 i dated a 34 year old.

it's always been my preference.
 
When I was 22 I spent an evening with a 32 year old woman. I had just graduated, and she was finishing work on her Ph.D. we had worked in the same department for three years, and for about a year she was my direct supervisor. There had always been an attraction, but circumstances prevented anything from happening. With both of us leaving, however, she accepted my invitation and we spent a memorable last night together.

When I was 46 I met a 23 year old cutie from Trinidad who had a thing for older men. She was willing to do anything--the word "no" was not in her vocabulary. We had some good times together until she met someone even older than me.
 
Older men are the best lovers. They really know how to treat a lady and they aren't shy to tell us what they want and how they like it.
 
I'm 31 and my husband is 44. And I wouldn't have it any other way. I have always been attracted to older men. Sometimes I wonder if I will switch and find young men attractive when I'm older myself.
 
The youngest guy I've been w/ was 13 years younger than me, he was a Marine...memorable moment ;) The biggest age gap was a guy who was 9 years older than me...also a Marine - I see a trend :devil:
 
Not sure what it is with the younger crowd - especially the guys - but I have been hit on by more early 20 something young men lately than I did when I was a twenty something. I am not really on the market for a man anymore but if I were, I couldn't imagine being with one that much younger than me.
 
I had several encounters with a man in his early 40's when I was 18/19. He was a colleague of my father's. It was incredibly exciting and guilt-inducing- the sex was amazing but I felt badly about it. Even thinking about it now, I get that nervous, guilty, giddy feeling.

When I was 20, I had a D/s play partner who was in his early 30's. He was fantastic- extremely patient and mature and intelligent. He taught me a lot and I'll always think him fondly.

There have been a couple others but those are the two that stand out :heart:
 
I have always preferred older men. In my experience they are more willing to experiment, and for me have been better lovers.
 
I love sex with the age disparity, because the more experienced partner always makes the experience more incredible. My first was with a 42 year old married woman when I was 21. I drove 300 miles from Tacoma Washington to a small town across the border from Lewiston, Idaho to spend the night with her in a hotel, and the experience was mind blowing. I still fantasize about her occasionally to this very day. If I could restart that affair, I'd do it in a heartbeat.

Later I dated mostly older women for a long time. One who was 12 years older than me, then later one who was 16 years older than me (and who gave me experiences I've never had another woman do before or since...dammit).

With guys I find I prefer them younger, in their twenties. Last year I spent a fair amount of time with a "boyfriend" who was about 12 years younger than me, and it was mind blowing. Unlike your typical hookup it was very intimate, and I was able to teach him many ways to enjoy his body. With practice, we were exploring new things with each other for the better part of a year. I still miss him, too.
 
to me age is just a number. i am 36, but i still act like i'm in my 20s. my disability may have taken more control over me, but i still feel alive and am active as much as possible.

i don't see anything wrong with people of varying age differences being together. i know someone who is 45 with a 63 year old man. they are just as happy as if he was her age.

it's only when you start getting 40-50 year old guys who look at women still 18-19 that kind of freaks me out a bit.
 
I am just finishing the first chapter of a story that includes some significant age differences. I've had some experiences with older and younger women but I've never myself been with a woman more than 10 years older than me or 15 years younger than me. Older women can bring a great perspective on life and sexuality. Older women tend to be less inhibited and more willing to reveal more about themselves. As I get older I can understand that. You start to see the end of your life just over the hill and you start thinking "what the hell, it's time to say and do what I want."
 
I have always preferred older men. In my experience they are more willing to experiment, and for me have been better lovers.

Me, too. When I was in high school, I decided by my junior year that guys in my age range just weren't cutting it. During the summer I began a FWB kind of relationship with a guy who was 6 years older than me (coworker). From that point forward, I pretty much decided I was only going to play wit older men.

Since then I've played with guys who were as much as 30+ years older than me. They're just more experienced, more mature, and less prone to drama than younger guys are. Plus, most of them know how to be dominant in bed, which is something that really gets my juices flowing.
 
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