lap dancing

[liz3030]

As a female, I am curious as to the attraction of visiting a strip club and getting a lap dance.

Since I have never seen one in person, (except on HBO's G-String Divas) what exactly goes on during this lapdance.

from my understanding, a stripper who has no interest in you whatsoever and does not allow you to touch her silicone parts, gyrates all over your hard on and over your clothes.

What is the fascination?

Do you leave this dance with an extreme hard on? Is it worth the $, to get that sexually frustrated?

Do you ever orgasm from this and if so do you walk out of the lap dance with the tell tale "wet Spot" on your dockers.

A friend once told me that guys put on a condom before they get a lap dance, Is this for real? Does this allow you to cum and get your money's worth without your buddies knowing?

So guys, feel me in on what really goes on

 

[Gravitino]

Let me fill you in. Lap dances rock. Some are better than others, as some girls just know how to be sexy, while others are just standing in front of you naked. Its all in the attitude.

Sure you dont really get to do much, though some of the girls that i've lap-danced with, will allow you to touch their breasts n body, but none that i know of ever let a guy touch their snatch...

But if their good, wow, does it get you hot in there! Especially when they're rubbing your cock with their ass, knee, foot, or side of there face, its just so erotic, even more so because as is "often" the case, you cant touch them.

Ok, so you come out feeling a little hot under the collar, but hey it s just all part of the fun. I've personally never come from having a lappy, to much other sex and masterbation i suspect, but i have been told by some lads that they have.

I love the whole tease of it too, mmm remember them all fondly... ahhhh, my last one was on Sat night...
the only real problem i have with them, is that i dont go and get them too often as they are relatively expensive.
Thats my take anyway.

Grav.

 

[The Gimp]

A friend once told me that guys put on a condom before they get a lap dance, Is this for real?

I can only hope the guy was pulling your chain. It's been a year or so since I last had a lap dance but there was a time when I would have a few per week. No the guy doesn't cum during the dance unless the sight of a naked woman is all that it takes to get him off. If he's that horny/desperate he could save money by jerking off to lingerie ads that come with the Sunday paper.
I'd put porn and lap dances in the same category in that they are entertainment that can be enjoyed in moderation by a functional adult. I've never had an orgasm in a strip club (although there was this one time the stripper jerked me off as long as I promised not to cum on her ). I don't expect to have an orgasm in a strip club so when it doesn't happen I don't get 'frustrated'.

 

[Gravitino]

I've never had an orgasm in a strip club (although there was this one time the stripper jerked me off as long as I promised not to cum on her ).

Wow. You lucky bastard. I have heard of girls who would let you finger them for extra $$$ but never heard of that one. Mind you even the girls that let me rub their tits told me to keep it quiet and not tell others... so she wouldnt get into trouble.
And she was one of the hottest chicks in the club. God damn!

 

[DuckLover]

Someday soon my gf and really need to go to a strip club...

I was very disappointed with two of my buddies-- both got married and neither one went to a strip club for their bachelor party!

 

[PunkGrrl18]

ugh my friend recently decided that shes gonna be a stripper, i hope she doesnt get eaten alive (not literally!) shes such a young nieve little girl...I dont know, i know she wants my boyfriend to come along and support her but hes already promised not to go in without me, and me im not a jealous girlfriend and yes i trust him, but i do have my territory marked as does he so there will be NO lapdances (aside from the ones i provide)

i can see how they turn guys on, but id take offense if my boyfriend went out to get a lapdance let alone go to a strip club, i dont mind naked girls hey some of them are attractive and id like to learn some moves, but lapdances are just out of the question, thats MY mans junk your grinding against, i dont think so....biatch!

 

[Chuckwrox]

The tease is a turn on, that's for sure. Getting turned on doesn't have to lead to orgasm, does it? When she looks at you with smouldering eyes and touches herself, that's pretty hot, whether or not she even knows your name. "Suspension of Disbelief" is the film term, and it applies here, too.